Chapter 66: A Different View of Girlfriends
Jiang Rui still wanted to continue chatting with him, but he didn't know how to find a topic.
"Father Confucian, I don't have a topic, you look for it, hurry up!"
Qu Junru is still more good at finding topics: "Okay." Rui'er, I've been with you for so long, I seem to be ...... I haven't asked you yet. What's the date you'd most like to try? ”
"Huh?" Jiang Rui thought about the dating scene he wanted to try the most, "The dating scene I want to try the most, we girls prefer romantic places." For example, we can hold hands and go to the aquarium, and then watch Disney fireworks together, when we have no money, the two of us stay at home for a day, when we have money, we wear couple clothes to go shopping, shopping, and go to the supermarket, when we are tired, we buy vegetables and go home to cook, when we want to have supper, we go to the convenience store late at night to eat oden, when we are bored, we drive to the night to blow the wind, and when we make a fortune, the two of us go to a concert that we both like, when the song addiction comes up, we go to sing K all night, and when we calm down, we go on a trip, and then take crazy pictures!! ”
After Qu Junru read this message, he didn't reply to her directly.
This made Jiang Rui feel very strange in his heart.
Where is he?
"Hey, Father Confucian, where are you?! In a word, first! Offline? Yes...... Oh well. Am I saying too dreamy? Or do I revoke one? Qu Junru, can you not pretend that you haven't seen my news! ”
Qu Junru didn't deliberately not reply to her, but took a pen and a piece of paper and wrote down all the dating scenes that Jiang Rui said.
After a while, Qu Junru replied to her: "No need to revoke, I will accept it all, but it will take a few years." I don't have my own salary yet, but when I have enough strength, I will realize your ideas. ”
Jiang Rui was relieved to see that he had finally replied to his message.
"Well, I believe you!"
Qu Junru would not live up to her trust and asked her a question: "Rui'er, do you know what a real good girlfriend is?" ”
Jiang Rui asked him rhetorically: "Huh? Don't you think I'm a good girlfriend? I don't know, you know? ”
Qu Junru happened to see a post on the Internet about what to do to be a good girlfriend and a good boyfriend, so he sent all the points above to Jiang Rui to take a look: "A good girlfriend must keep a distance from the boys around her, don't be in front of other boys in front of him, he will also be jealous." Change your temper, swear less, and calm down and talk about how you feel about him. Give him more trust, you have to believe in him and support him. It should also be within a certain range. Take the initiative to admit that you have done something wrong, don't always think about the other party to admit your mistakes, and no one owes anyone. If you are jealous and angry, tell him, don't hold back and don't say it, this will make him feel that he has no sense of existence. Learn to do some housework, study hard, and don't always look like you're doing nothing. Don't pretend that you don't have a boyfriend, and you're not afraid of your popularity, but you're afraid that you won't refuse. Don't always lose your temper for no reason, because some misunderstandings are not explained clearly once they are formed. Give him more support, understand and be tolerant, but with limits. How mature and stable a man is on the outside, how cute and childish the little boy inside will be, and learn to maintain the little boy inside him. ”
Jiang Rui saw through him at once, this is an excerpt from the Internet: "Where did you search for this?" ”
Qu Junru did not deceive her: "There are them on the Internet, and how to be a good boyfriend." ”
Jiang Rui replied to him with interest: "Tell me specifically, how to be a good boyfriend?" ”
Qu Junru also sent her what to do to be a good boyfriend: "Okay, a really good boyfriend, don't let your girlfriend calm down, when she calms down, you will be cold, this is the so-called calm and naturally cool." Please treat your girlfriend very differently from other friends of the opposite sex, try not to touch her girlfriend, if her girlfriend likes you, you two will break up. Her best friend doesn't like you, and the two of you will still break up. What makes people feel secure is often not love, but preference. Fulfill her wish to be a little kid in the adult world. Consider your girlfriend's inner feelings first, and then make a gentlemanly demeanor towards other members of the opposite sex. People who really want to send her home, all over the world, all over the world, are all along the way, and now girls are really, really need to be protected, and if they can reply to her messages immediately, they will reply immediately. If you are too busy to have time or forgot, remember to make it clear. If you are tired of her and don't like it anymore, please make it clear directly, don't let her hope and be disappointed. Cold violence is the most unbearable thing, don't use rational thinking for her, but manage it with your heart. Cherish her, be tolerant and understanding of her, love her is all that you love, and be single-minded, this is what you should do, not pay. ”
Jiang Rui saw a few keywords and immediately asked him: "Father Confucian, don't you want to contact my best friend?" ”
Although Qu Junru has never been in contact with her best friend, she has also seen what her best friend looks like from a photo Jiang Rui sent to herself: "Well, Lucky Star, no matter if she comes to our date next week, whether she is a staff officer or for some other purpose, I think that a third party should not be present on a date that belongs to the two of us." ”
In order to let him down his guard against his best friend, Jiang Rui really told her best friend's old bottom: "How can I tell you?" My girlfriend has always been very introverted, she is a good old person who can't fight back, she doesn't plan to fall in love before the age of eighteen, so you can rest assured that she won't like you and won't discuss with me what kind of person you are. I asked her to come to my next date as a staff officer, just a staff officer, nothing else! I swear! ”
Qu Junru is not an ordinary boy, he has been recruiting girls since he was a child, and he has been mixing with Wang Jing, Sun Meng, Li Hang, and other better girls since he was a child.
According to the perception of most girls, they feel that their girlfriends can know their girlfriends' boyfriends, and they can also add any of his contact information, and when he is not with their girlfriends, their girlfriends can also report to him at any time, but they can't be tempted by him.
Because, this will make her bear the resentment of two people.
There are also some girls who feel that their girlfriends are just girlfriends, and they can talk to them and go to many places to be partners, but they can't know their boyfriends.
Qu Junru has a different view on this identity between girls. He feels that in the relationship, his girlfriend's best friend should stay away from the emotional entanglement between the two of them, whether it is a good thing or a bad thing, after all, it is just a matter between the two parties in love, once there is the participation of the third party of his girlfriend's best friend, many things will become embarrassing. Regardless of whether this girlfriend's gender is male or female, Qu Junru is extremely disgusted that his girlfriend has all kinds of girlfriends.
But from Jiang Rui's point of view, his girlfriend is his "close friend" in addition to his family, the person who can tell her all his little secrets, his own shadow, and the stranger he cares about the most. According to the current Internet vocabulary, that is, the military advisor never goes to the battlefield, but will only help his girlfriend consider various details in the relationship and propose a reasonable strategy.
Therefore, if you want to say which of them is logically right, you can't judge it specifically.
It can only be said that young couples in love cannot think from the perspective of bystanders.
Eighteen-year-old Qu Junru has long since disbelieved that girls say such sworn words, and none of them can be realized at all.
Sun Meng is like this, Li Hang is like this, Wang Xinyu is also like this, what's the use of swearing what the girl said?
Qu Junru told Jiang Rui not to swear easily: "Don't swear easily, no one can take the human heart." ”
Jiang Rui believed her best friend very much: "Huh? But my best friend is really a person who can reassure me, why do you have such a big opinion of my best friend? ”
Qu Junru replied to her and said, "You also said that it is the person who can reassure you, but it is not the person who can reassure me." Rui'er, I don't know about your girlfriend, and I don't want to. If you think that getting your girlfriend on our date can make the date better, then let's try what to do, okay or not? ”
Jiang Rui is definitely the kind of girl who can support her best friend regardless of it, even if her best friend ignores her, she will stand in front of her.
"Okay, okay, I absolutely believe in my girlfriend!"
Qu Junru sent her six words and went down: "See you next Friday afternoon!" ”
"Hey, hey, hey."
Jiang Rui is looking forward to seeing him next Friday afternoon, and he really misses him.