After Qu Junru returned home from Yuantong Building, he went into the kitchen to fry some shredded potatoes by himself, and had a not very warm dinner with steamed buns.

It's not the first time he's eaten this kind of lonely dinner party where no one is at home, and he used to eat alone when his parents went to work and his sister went to school.

After eating, I brush the bowls and plates by myself, see if the gas canister is turned off, close it if it is not, and then go to school alone with my school bag. Only on rare occasions would he go to a neighbor's house for a few meals. However, the odds of this kind of food are very small, and in his five years of primary school, this kind of living under the fence accounted for 80 percent. However, he has long been accustomed to eating, sleeping and going to school by himself.

Shredded potatoes are the shortest meal he thinks, carrying the potato skins, then turning on the faucet, washing the skinned potatoes, using a kitchen knife to cut the potatoes into slices, and then changing the knife to shreds, and cutting the green onions into small pieces. After that, open the gas can, use the frying pan to pass the oil, stir-fry the green onions, add soy sauce, vinegar and other seasonings, and then add the shredded potatoes that have been cut, and then put sesame oil after ten minutes of stir-frying.

He has been cooking rice since he was a child, and there is no way to do it. His parents had to go to work to support him and his sister's two children; My sister is always in school and doesn't come home often; The grandparents are old and can't take care of him; His grandparents died prematurely, and he didn't work hard to learn how to cook for himself, so he starved to death in elementary school.

Before the age of eight, Qu Junru found that none of the elders around him seemed to really like him.

Grandparents often let their cousins fight with themselves, and every time they were beaten and cried; Although his parents wanted him as a son, they didn't have time to care about how he survived, his parents were either at work or busy with other things, and he had an experience of being abducted and trafficked in the middle, and his father only blamed his mother for not being optimistic, and never thought about how to take care of him; Those elders who are related by blood, everyone has their own things to be busy with, and they wish to let Qu Junru die early, so that they can inherit a little more inheritance.

No one can understand how Qu Junru was treated like this since he was a child, and how he relied on super perseverance to survive. Miao Miao's appearance once made him feel a glimmer of light, but unfortunately, it was only for a while, he came to the East Ring Road community from the first grade, and met an old couple who guarded the door, so he felt that someone finally liked him.

At that time, his parents were still working, and no one at home could cook for him, Qu Junru experienced a particularly bad boarding experience in a semester in a bilingual primary school, and when he was in the second grade, he was arranged by his father to watch the old couple in the community. I don't know if it's because the cooking cooked by the janitor and grandmother is really delicious, or because he finally feels the kind of love that is really held in his hands. That year can be said to be one of the few happiest years for Qu Junru. When he was in the third grade, Qu Junru was a little taller than before, and he could stand in the kitchen and use his weak strength to flip a spoon, and his mother taught him how to open a gas tank to cook.

In the two years of the third and fourth grades, Qu Junru met Sun Meng and Li Hang, and they fell in love with learning, and their academic performance also rose, which made his parents happy for two years. After that, the old couple who watched the gate of the community unfortunately passed away due to illness, and the parents hid it from Qu Junru, saying that the old grandfather and grandmother would never come back when they returned to their hometown, so they let him take the key to the house and go home to cook and eat by himself.

Recalling that he had come strong all the way, Qu Junru subconsciously smiled and ate all the shredded potatoes he made.

After eating, Qu Junru planned to go out for a walk and digest the food in his stomach.

Jiang Rui's message was sent at this time, and it was a space in the form of a dialogue.

Male protagonist: "People want this~"

The heroine waved her hand: "Buy!" "

Male protagonist: "Wife, that green tea is bullying others!" "

Heroine: "With me here, who dares to touch you?" My lover. "

Male protagonist: "Huh, my wife said she loved me, so touched~"

Heroine: "Man, you're playing with fire." "

Male protagonist: "Falling in love with you cost me all the luck of my last life." "

The heroine smiled evilly, with three points of coldness, three points of ridicule and four points of nonchalance: "Love me, are you afraid?" "

Confucianism, isn't this quite sweet? ”

Seeing Jiang Rui send this, Qu Junru quickly replied to her: "Well, it's so sweet, so sweet that it loses my teeth, and my head scares me off." What do you want to say? Rui Rui. ”

Jiang Rui wants to be a queen or queen in a relationship: "I also want to be a queen or queen in this relationship, it's really domineering!" Again, I want to see how you're sticky to me in love. ”

Qu Junru learned from the words she shared with herself, and replied to Jiang Rui.

"Rui'er, are you playing with fire?"

Jiang Rui was coquettish over there and asked him to play this role-play: "Let's play, good father." ”

Qu Junru doesn't like to play this kind of role-playing: "Don't play." Rui'er, are you okay, if it's okay, I'm going to go out for a walk. ”

Seeing that Qu Junru was going offline, Jiang Rui immediately replied to the message and said, "Wait a while, I have something!" ”

Qu Junru asked her rhetorically: "What's the matter?" ”

Jiang Rui said that she has fallen asleep with no new stories recently: "Tell me a few stories, you don't seem to have told me stories recently, and I don't have any stories to read at night." ”

Qu Junru asked her, why didn't she read the stories she sent her before?

"What about the previous ones?"

Jiang Rui can say whatever he wants: "I am tired of reading what you sent me before, is there a new novel plot, you can write it." ”

The novels written by Qu Junru in college are similar to ancient war novels such as Water Margin, Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Romance of the Sui and Tang Dynasties or Romance of the Gods, which are really not suitable for a little girl like Jiang Rui.

"The novels I wrote are all kinds of ancient generals or generalissimos on the march and fighting the plot, you are a girl who is not suitable for reading that kind of theme, but there is no plot of the novel, but I can find you a small story suitable for you to read."

As he spoke, Qu Junru searched for several more philosophical stories on his mobile phone and sent them to Jiang Rui.

"Long Yingtai once said that depending on a person's upbringing, it depends on how he treats the weak. The more considerate you are to others, the more respectful they will be to you, but the more arrogant and unreasonable you are, the more they will despise you in their hearts. Jackie Chan once wrote in his autobiography that because he was born in hardship since he was a child, he has a sense of intimacy with people at the bottom of all walks of life. Once he entertained a friend for dinner, the waiter looked like a girl who had just worked, and the action of serving the food was not skilled, and she came to help everyone pour tea in the middle, because her hands were unsteady and she was short, and she accidentally poured the tea on the clothes on the back of the chair, Jackie Chan saw that she was very nervous all of a sudden, so he didn't blame her, but said to her, it's okay, it's okay, the clothes can be washed, have you been burned? As soon as he said this, the little girl immediately felt less afraid. ”

There is a sentence in the Book of Changes: a humble gentleman, humble to self-shepherd. When a person lets go of his sense of identity and treats those who are weaker than himself gently, it will bring warmth and emotion like a spring breeze. Many moments, we always think that the more a person puts on a high appearance, the more he will be shocked. The more you know how to treat others kindly, the more you will be able to impress and evaluate them. ”

"Being thoughtful is a kind of wisdom. In the variety show "Wife's Romantic Trip", Gina, the wife of pianist Lang Lang, works as a tour guide for several other wives in Xishuangbanna. Gina is the youngest of the group, but she has a high level of handling and can make everyone around her feel her enthusiasm and care. ”

There is a saying: "The thoughtfulness of a person's treatment of others hides the degree of her liking." "When a person has more others in his heart and can stand in the perspective of altruism to think and consider others, he will be recognized and appreciated by more and more people. I once read a media person who wrote about his experience of attending Liu Chuanzhi's dinner. On that occasion, Liu Chuanzhi was entertaining guests at the Zhili Hall near Peking University, and he passed from the distant East Fourth Ring Road, and when he arrived, he was a full hour and a half late than the agreed time. Just when he was feeling uneasy about this, he received a text message from Liu Chuanzhi's assistant: "Mr. Liu, please don't be in a hurry to drive, we will wait for you." The people at the table were only eating cold dishes, just to wait for him to come, and even during the whole meal, Liu Chuanzhi talked with him very happily without showing any displeasure. After eating, Liu Chuanzhi also gave everyone a pen, specially engraved their respective names, and sent everyone to the door when he left. ”

There is a saying: "The world is full of knowledge, and the practice of human feelings is the article." "Sometimes, in a seemingly trivial detail, giving others the leeway and respect they deserve can impress them more. In many moments, we praise a person for being able to do things, and we praise him for being able to consider all aspects of the details and links thoroughly and thoughtfully. He doesn't snub anyone, he doesn't ignore anyone, and he doesn't even let people feel any pressure and burden in the process of getting along, which requires extreme intelligence. In many moments, we praise a person for being able to do things, and we praise him for being able to consider all aspects of the details and links thoroughly and thoughtfully. He doesn't snub anyone, he doesn't ignore anyone, and he doesn't even let people feel any pressure and burden in the process of getting along, which requires extreme intelligence. ”

There is a passage in "Caigen Tan": "The article is done to the extreme, nothing is strange, just right; The character is extreme, there is no difference, just natural. "In the process of getting along with people, sometimes it seems complicated, but in fact it is also very simple, as long as you can make people feel comfortable, it is the highest level of social interaction. When a person speaks amiably and is not mean, is kind and not arrogant, and is mellow and not lazy, he can easily win people's hearts. ”

"Every time my girlfriend sees me downstairs in the company, she can't hide the smile on her face. Never say she's old, ugly, or fat, or she'll be really sad, and she won't be able to coax her. Before going to bed, be sure to browse your phone to make sure there are no other girls' chat history, and then turn on Do Not Disturb mode, you know. If you can, it's best to quit smoking and drinking, girls really don't like the smell of alcohol and smoke all over boys. Girls are too lazy to put on makeup and apply a mask after falling in love, which is actually a manifestation of loving you. Exercise your arm strength more, or you'll regret not listening to me when you go shopping together. When a girl complains to you that others are not good, you must not refute it, don't ask why, ask if the hospital's Wifi is really not good. When she's angry, there's nothing that can't be solved with a kiss. When she asks you to clip the doll you like, don't say that you can't clip it, if you buy one directly, she just enjoys the process of working hard for her, and the result is not important. When she comes to the eldest aunt, you must not let her eat cold, spicy things, otherwise she will blame you for not persuading her when she is in pain. I took you to my air, but you chose to suffocate me. Maybe at the beginning he does a very good job of details, and you feel that he loves you very much, but from the moment the love disappears, you have to understand that the details will disappear. Why is it good to get together and disperse, it is not easy for me to move my heart once Interesting things should not be shared with perfunctory people. All the stories between the eyebrows are either liked or disappointed, it's ridiculous, chatting about half a life is gone. ”

Some time ago, Da Zhang Wei said, "The reason why a cold person is cold is because he didn't meet someone he likes." "It hits the hearts of many people and exposes the emotional outlook of many people with a sharp point. In fact, many people who seem to be "cold" are not really ignorant of the fireworks of the world, they just haven't met the person who can break their "rules". Recently, I watched the variety show "Newborn Diary" and was moved by a conversation between Gai and his wife Wang Siran for a prenatal checkup. The doctor informed the pregnant woman that she could be hospitalized immediately to give birth, but Wang Siran suddenly cried because of prenatal anxiety and nervousness, saying that she was afraid that the child would not like her after birth, and that she was afraid that she would be an unwanted mother. Gai quickly crouched down beside her and whispered comfortingly, "The child needs you just as much as I need you." Slowly and patiently enlighten her until she is emotionally stable. Seeing this, many people were pleasantly surprised by Gai's contrasting personality. As we all know, Gai has always been a cool and crazy image in front of outsiders, he will be bold in the show, and he will sing "Lao Tzu will not bend down" in the song.

Everyone wants to be treated special in their relationship, but in front of Wang Siran, all the anger and temper in him are gone, just like a completely different person, with inexhaustible patience and good temper. That's probably what a guy looks like when he really likes someone. To outsiders, he may be a hedgehog covered in thorns, but when he sees you, he will automatically put away all his thorns. He will give you all his good temper, gentleness, and patience, and you will be the exception in his life, a preference, a special treatment that he willingly treats. I often hear some silly girls, when they can't get a response from the other party, they desperately find reasons for the other party: "We haven't known each other for long, and it's normal to talk less", "He may be born with a cold personality", "People in this sign are slow to heat". But if you've ever seen a guy who really likes someone, you'll understand that the so-called coldness and coldness are for outsiders to see, and no one can really be cold in front of the person they love.

My best friend liked a boy before, chased the boy for a long time, and finally, the boy agreed to give her a try under her "perseverance", when the two first dated, the best friend would send breakfast to the boy every day, but the boy said that he had no habit of eating breakfast. But if you've ever seen a guy who really likes someone, you'll understand that the so-called coldness and coldness are for outsiders to see, and no one can really be cold in front of the person they love. The coldness in the relationship is just another name that I don't like. Soon after the two broke up, the boy quickly made a new girlfriend, and posted a loving breakfast prepared by himself for the current one in the circle of friends, as well as a sweet photo of the two of them eating breakfast together. At that moment, my girlfriend finally understood that the so-called "cold" was just another name for "dislike". Ruthlessness is not ruthless, there is no kind of ice in the world that does not melt, but you are not the one who melted him.

No one will be "indifferent by nature" to the person they like, and if there is, it's just that he doesn't have a heart for you, and you don't have to make perfect excuses for the other person's coldness all the time. My cousin went home during the eleventh holiday, and she didn't see her boyfriend for a week, and the boy would call her on video calls almost every day during the holiday, asking her what time she got up today, what she ate at noon, and how many episodes of the TV series she watched at night. In fact, what the two of them said was dispensable daily conversations, but it was these conversations that separated thousands of miles that made my cousin feel the peace of mind of her loved ones, and made her feel that although the two could not meet, they were not absent from each other's lives. My cousin said that her boyfriend, who was cold and rarely spoken in the mouths of others, was the opposite in front of her. My boyfriend is always clingy, never stingy in expressing his love, and always shares with her the new things he sees and the happy things he encounters, even if it's just small things. These small gestures made my cousin feel full of security, because she was sure that she was different from others in the hearts of boys. You can't hide what you like, and so is you if you don't like it. Qi Wei once said in a variety show: "Heartbeat is the moment when the rules and regulations are broken." A person who really likes you will not use his own rules to demand you at every turn, because in true love, the other party is the biggest principle. You can't hide your likes, you can't hide your likes, and when you see you, you can't help but raise the corners of your mouth and smile at you, be nice to you, and how can you be willing to be cruel to you, so don't deceive yourself in your feelings, it's not so hard to admit that he just doesn't like you. Life is very short, like is very precious, we must put like on the person who is really worthy, I hope we can all find people who only see themselves in the relationship. ”

"Girls really want to coax when they're angry, but if you're perfunctory, it's better not to coax. The promised things must be done, or don't give promises. always breaks his promise, and the other party's disappointment will accumulate more and more. Don't deceive, there's something to say. If you have an opinion, you can put forward it, and if you make a mistake, you can change it. Don't lie to her, say it if you don't love it, don't waste her time. What girls care about most is their attitude, because they are very sensitive, in fact, they don't want much, and a better attitude can avoid a lot of quarrels. The love that girls want is not your gentlemanly demeanor, but your short-sightedness, your pampering and uniqueness, and an indispensable sense of security. They really can't stand it, their boyfriends are good to other girls. Don't challenge her bottom line again and again, and don't have this problem again and again if you have argued the same issue once. What she cares about most is whether you take her to heart, whether your friends know about her existence and other small things. If you love her, do these things well, no exceptions. Before you are with her, clean up your circle, and don't praise other girls for being good or that after being together. For some girls who can't hide their thoughts, if you let her calm down alone when she is angry, then she will be so angry that she will explode, and she should be coaxed or coaxed. It's the same for other girls as it is for her, you have to make her feel it, and she's an exception for you. Spend time with her, try to pay attention to all kinds of details, as well as the sense of ritual of life, don't ask to do it all the time, but don't perfunctory it again and again. ”

After Qu Junru sent all these little stories that he thought were very interesting to Jiang Rui, Jiang Rui hurriedly replied to him.

"That's it! Enough, enough of these stories for me to watch for a few days. Thank you, smash! ”

Qu Junru said that he didn't like to play role-playing with her, but in fact, he still remembered this matter in his heart: "It is the duty of a minister to serve you." My Royal Highness, the minister has gone outside to wave! ”

Jiang Rui replied to him with four words: "Go early and come back early!" ”

"Ah, yes, my Royal Highness."

After sending this message, Qu Junru went out to play with headphones on, and didn't go home until ten o'clock in the evening.

Anyway, even if he comes home late, there is no nagging from his parents and doubts from his sister, and he will go home whenever he likes.

Even if he decides not to go home tonight, there is no need to worry about his safety.

After all, he still has a large number of brothers who love to play online games outside, and they can take refuge in any Internet café in Laizhou at any time.