Our generation is also called

"Post-80 era", meaning the generation born after 85 years, compared

In the "first 80s", most of them have already started a family, and some of the successful ones have their own fixed jobs, savings, houses, cars, wives, children and lovers; The average people are almost all married and have their own families; And the more miserable mix is similar to my current behavior, getting up on time every day, going to work on time, and being sluggish in the unit for 8 hours.

My attitude towards work can be described as ambiguous, sometimes I think, do it well, after all, it is a job, I have to treat it well to reflect my value, let the boss see it, as a reason for my salary increase, and sometimes I think, fuck it, mix it up day by day, no matter how good you do, in the eyes of the boss, it is your job, that is your duty, and you should do it well.

In fact, I don't know if I need this job or not, in other words, I don't know what can reflect the value of my current job, I do the technical side, and the scope of a day's work is loading and unloading, but the workers who are doing the loading and unloading get paid more than me.

Maybe I'm just working for money, and money doesn't work for me. Exercise! What the is going on?

At this age, people often ask questions such as whether there is a partner, most of the people who ask me are about the same age as my mother, of course, they are all my mother's friends, and my mother is also retired, since she retired, her spirit is much better than before, and she still goes out to sing from time to time, travel or something, but I envy it.

Playing with friends a lot, I started chatting about homely things, chatting and nagging, and I was pulled in, what hurry up to find a partner, get married and have children, etc., I listen to it annoying, if someone really asks me about this, usually I only say two words, three words to be exact, such as people ask me if I have a partner?

I said no; People will definitely ask why not find one? It's so old, and your mother is still in a hurry to hold her grandson!

That's when I would say I don't have any money. Whoever asks, I'll just say no and no money. It is also true that others will think that whether there is a partner or not is one thing, and whether there is money or not is another.

But I think these two problems can only reflect only one aspect in me, that is, there is no money, how much it hurts money to talk about feelings these days!

I believe that innocent love is not nothing, I have had such a love before, very pure, very true, of course, very deep, and finally called by one

"Realistic".

The "-stirring stick" was shattered. Maybe my ideas are sometimes more extreme, but I can't help but say that this is a trick on people, so I have to think so.

Most of the time, my mother's friends are well-intentioned, and if I really don't have a partner, they will introduce me to something, but when I hear my answer, it seems to be full of annoyance about feelings, and they want to introduce me, so they forced me to say a word

"No money" was speechless for a long time. Later, some of the matchmakers they made were cultivated, and they invited my mother to drink engagement wine, and my mother came back and chatted with me: "Look at who is the one you and which aunt introduced you, and it turned out to be, this is not about to get married...... "For the person in my mother's mouth, who doesn't seem to have anything to do with me, then whoever gets married doesn't seem to have much to do with me, and even says that it is not involved in the slightest, I can hear what my mother means."

Besides, it's not that I don't want to be too much of an oil or salt or let others think that I have a high vision, my mother always thinks that I am entangled in one thing, and my heart has always been overwhelmed, so I rarely mention these things in front of me, and she thinks I still need time.

But in my personal opinion, it's still the same sentence - no money! There may be some reasons mixed in, but in the end, there is still no money!

You may think I'm so vulgar! When it comes to feelings, it must be equated with money. It's like a saying nowadays: poor couples are in decline.

It's hard to solve the problem of food and clothing, talk about a fart feeling, my current salary is enough to support me alone.

Recently, I saw such a sentence on the Internet: The most helpless thing for a man is to meet the girl who wants to take care of her life the most at the most powerless age.

I don't remember what I said, but that's probably it anyway. In fact, it's not that I don't want a relationship, it's just that I had a similar painful experience that made me unattainable about feelings.

Part of the reason is probably my mom thinks. However, in my opinion, the reason for today's tragedy is nothing more than one - no money!

Ay! It's all money! You will definitely tell me what you need to work hard, pay will be rewarded, endure hardships in order to become a superior person, etc., the height of thought determines the height of career, and the mentality determines everything, etc.

I'll just say,! I admit that there is a reward for paying, and I also admit that there are a series of successful examples such as hardships and hardships, etc., it is not nothing, but the accumulation rate is too small, and it is impossible to appear on the heads of ordinary people like me, maybe there will be such people, through their own diligence and unremitting efforts to achieve success, but this person is by no means me.

It's simple, because I'm lazy. Bill Gates said that he likes to use lazy employees, because lazy people are smart and they can always find the most convenient solution to the problem.

So I'm going to stay lazy, and through my unremitting laziness, I will eventually find a convenient way to get rich.

It can be said that it is a husband and a wife.