As work and life gradually get on the right track, the busyness of work and the pressure of life will slowly come quietly, this time often overtime, and overtime every day, if it was in the past, I would first decisively quit my job, and then sleep at home for a few days, and then continue to spend a period of confusion, and then start looking for a new job. Maybe before I became a soldier, I was a child's mind, let my own temperament do it, as long as I was happy in everything, I never considered other people's feelings or even the consequences of things, but now it is different, I can find that my mind is changing, and the reason why I can find that I have changed is a reliable basis. For example, in the past, whenever I saw something unpleasant or unpleasant, I would scold: stupid! Like a shrew, when others see me like this, they will probably say, why are you so angry. And now when the above scenarios appear again, most of the time I will choose to be silent, not because I have seen too many of the above scenarios and am insensitive, but because I have learned to control my emotions, intuitively speaking, I have chosen to be silent while I have repeatedly recited the word "stupid" in my heart.

It is said that in addition to the stability of his career, his character, cultivation, and quality can be revealed from his speech and demeanor. On the other hand, looking at me now, I feel a little half-baked, pure and half-hanging.

At this age, I don't know what it means to be truly mature, I say I'm more mature, but sometimes I'm like a child who forgets to sleep and eat for a certain level in the game, saying that I'm immature, and I blindly discuss problems with people older than me, and when it comes to certain issues, people still think I'm too conservative or even feudal. According to Hiroko's analysis, in terms of my daily life, I am in the intellectual stage of my student years when it comes to a game that I love, but when it comes to political, economic, cultural, and personal issues, I show no less language skills and judgment than that of a successful diplomat. So, I need some specific experiences, such as being able to appear in a specific environment, at a specific time, in a specific place, a specific girl for me, so as to start a specific journey. From this I can deduce that I am now a medium-rare steak and need a heat that will cook me just right. The steak is there, but where do you find the heat?

This day is soaking on the Internet.,Suddenly QQ rang up.,For this QQ,I'm just going online now.,It's no longer a tool for chatting.,It's just to tell others that there's such a person as me in their contact.,But I'm so well-intentioned.,Others seem to turn a blind eye to me.,The one who should be blacklisted or pulled me into the blacklist.,It's not that they don't know me.,It's just that I used to be a friend.,Now it's a person from two worlds (why is this so awkward),So for those who usually have less contact or don't have deep friendships, There are even those who simply don't talk to anyone, whether they are blocked or not has no impact on each other's lives at all, and I don't care about these, each is just a passerby. Everyone already has their own lives, no matter how good their student days are, they will eventually enter their own mode. We are already playing our respective roles, and life is pulling us farther and farther apart.

Open QQ and see that it is a wedding photo, and there is a line of words on one side of the note: XX (male name) is a peach heart XX (female name) in the middle, sincerely invite XX year, XX month, XX day, XX hotel, XX floor, XX hall. I don't know the man inside, the woman is a little familiar, and if I look closely at the name on the wedding photo, it turns out to be my high school female classmate, and she is getting married. I can't help but sigh: Now the development of the Internet has exceeded my imagination, invitations and such things can be sent online, the photos of the two people are attached to a piece of text, and then a group send, the original cumbersome process is simplified to this point, only one kilowatt-hour of electricity can solve the problem of manpower, material and financial resources, very convenient.

As a former classmate, I should have been there to bless me, but then I called a few of my classmates who were still in touch and asked if they had received an invitation. The answer was unanimous: I received it, but I didn't go. The reason is very simple, a classmate told me: we have graduated for 8 years, and the contact in the past 8 years is only limited to online chats, and there is no sentence, the last chat is when I graduated from college, and I asked each other about work, and we were silent without saying a word. Gradually, each other's avatars never flashed again. Now I suddenly sent you an invitation card (or online), let's not talk about whether it is a sincere invitation to you, to put it vulgarly, in the past, it was to take part in the money, don't feel that I am too vulgar, this is the reality, which can be less money for marriage now? I can only earn a few dollars a month, I don't mean to destroy our friendship, but that's just the past, it's just our friendship in high school, think for yourself, anyway, I'm not going, it's your business whether you go or not. ”

After hanging up the phone, I pondered what was really going on. Time has diluted everyone's feelings, and the friendship of the year has become a yellowed photo, replaced by a bright and beautiful wedding photo full of happiness. I wish this female classmate all the way on the road from love to family affection, until she reaches the end of happiness.

We didn't go to the wedding of that female classmate after all, and maybe on the wedding day, she wouldn't have noticed that there were a few classmates who had a good relationship back then.

It just so happened that the wedding was a Saturday; It also happened that on this day, I was working overtime.