As the saying goes, men should get married, and women should get married.

When the 2016 New Year was still 185 days away, my mother finally couldn't stand my life at two o'clock all day long, and began to introduce me to people.

For me, in fact, I don't want to enter the palace of marriage and the days of firewood, rice, oil and salt all day long, but the thinking of the vast majority of people in the north is like this, and there is an extremely important factor - the economy. I'm just working in a small company now, I have to consider everything, people go to high places, I don't want to be limited to a small private business, if there is a chance, who doesn't want to go to a good place? In case this object is negotiated, the pace of the elders urging marriage will also be accelerated, and the marriage will be stable. I don't think so, it just so happens that if you blindly follow the rhythm of your elders, and soon after you get married, you are urging you to have children, so that even if I want to resign and change the environment for development, I can only think about it.

Blind dates are like the elders will dig a pit for you in advance, release all the gorgeous words that have not been spoken in your life on you, persuade you to jump into this pit, as long as you jump into this pit, they will speed up to fill it, when you are buried halfway, everything is up to you, that is to say, you are not living for yourself.

I'm a person who yearns for freedom, and some people would say that this kind of thinking is selfish, you can't just live for yourself. I think the two contradict each other, how to live is my own business, but now even living for myself has become a selfish performance, I don't dare to think about the future, maybe I am not ready for a new life, a new way of living, I personally feel that it is good now. So I'm ambiguous about my mom's introduction to me.

It's been a few months since I started working, and I recently had the idea of changing jobs, not because I don't have the ability to do a good job, but even if I do a good job, in the face of the current skyrocketing prices, the salary paid at the end of each month always makes me a drop in the bucket. So I came up with the idea that if I find a job that makes me feel like I have a good income, my mom always tells me that it won't matter.

It's another Sunday.

This morning, I slept lazily as always, but was woken up by a rapid phone ringing, and picked up the phone in a daze to see that it was a field chicken, which means that we have a good relationship, if someone else I absolutely overwhelmed and continued to sleep. I picked up the phone:

"Hey! If you have something to say, if you have a fart, you can let it go, it's okay to hang up, I'm still asleep! ”

"Holy shit! Are you still sleeping at 11 o'clock? The field chicken shouted.

"Who says you can't go to bed at 11 o'clock?" I sleep like this once a week, not too much, you can fart if you have a fart, if it's okay, I'll hang up. I replied.

"Come out, come out, come out!" Tian Ji said: "On such a hot day, there are a lot of white thighs on the street!" ”

"You're a girl, aren't you?" I shouted into the phone: "If you are energetic, what should you do, don't bother the people!" And ah! Don't think like you, you can't walk when you see a girl! ”

"I'm working overtime today! Exercise! I'm going alone! Exercise! This will just come out of the unit! Very unpleasant! So call you and ask you to come out for tea. Also, what do you mean when I see a girl who can't walk? Once again, I declare that I also have aesthetics, I only look at the beautiful thighs of beautiful girls, but there is no situation where I can't walk! Tian Ji said.

"It's rare to hear you working overtime, and it's rare to hear that you want to drink tea!" It's not easy. At this time, I looked at the sky outside, the sky was clear, there was no cloud, it was hot and dry, and I said, "Where are you going?" I haven't gotten up yet, and I haven't eaten when I get up......"

"Alright, alright, alright!" Tian Ji interrupted me: "Don't you just want to slaughter me?" Hurry up and come out, let's eat together, I just came out of the unit, Parkson is here, let's meet in XXX, you hurry up! It's late, so I'll solve it for lunch! I'm going to go to XXX! Tian Ji didn't give me a chance to speak at all, and then hung up the phone violently.

I was still remembering what I had said when I answered the phone, from the time he offered to go out to the time he finally hung up, I didn't seem to have promised him to go out. Alas! What a mistake in this big summer, my confused brain didn't turn a corner at all.

The problem of our circle of people on the phone is all learned from me. For example, Zhang San wants to go out with Li Si, and the scene of the phone call is like this: Where am I, you come over quickly, okay, that's it! Then hang up the phone regardless of whether the other party agrees or not, without giving the other party a chance to breathe. I used to do this on the phone, but now I've been again, and now I can finally appreciate what it was like to be hung up.

It's not cured, get up!

When I got up, I glanced at the weather forecast on my phone: Damn! 38 degrees yet!

I went straight to the bathroom, wiped my face after brushing my teeth, said hello to my dad and went out.