At noon, I waited for the traffic light to intermittently hear a young mother and a boy about 10 years old in the back seat say: "A person who does bad things once or twice may be fine, but if he does not know how to restrain himself, sooner or later he will be arrested one day, and then there will be no freedom, all actions must be monitored, and if you want to be free, you must have regulations." ”

The lights turned green and we continued in the same direction. I can still vaguely hear my mother's voice, there are rules for any game, and there is no game without rules. It's like going to school, you have to be on time every day, and being late is a violation of the rules, then you will delay your grades and you won't be able to get an A+.

When she said these words, the mother's tone was not harsh, but firm.

As a young man who is not confused between the age of a child and an expectant father, I suddenly feel that this boy is really lucky. A few words, seemingly prosaic, and even a little preachy, but so appropriate.

How many people hate norms but yearn for freedom? Perhaps it is a child who violates discipline at school in the morning or has an argument with a classmate, or even a more serious fight, and the mother's impartiality at this time is especially important to correct in time. Young children are reminded and corrected by the people around them in the mistakes they make again and again, instead of being pampered and spoiled, and gradually form their own correct rules of doing things, isn't this the greatest luck for children?

Some people say that children should not be reprimanded and criticized at the dinner table, and there may be a reason for it. But many years ago, parents were busy making ends meet, and many families were at their most tidy when they were eating.

In my childhood, many teenagers were reminded and disciplined, and most of them were done at the dinner table, which was a good time for the family to exchange emotions. Communication is certainly not only pleasant, at the dinner table we are not only physical, but also slowly growing up.

Understand the norms and know the most basic rules.

It turns out that communication can be anytime, anywhere, or on the back seat of a bicycle.

I remember a middle school teacher dropping off her daughter from kindergarten, always communicating in English all the way until she got to the school gate and said bye _ bye. For more than ten years, girls have not only gained the ears and eyes of the most professional English teachers, but also felt a different kind of maternal love.

Someone said that the hand that pushes the cradle is also the hand that moves the world, thank our mothers, right?

It is they who give us the opportunity to come to this colorful world; It is they who let us live openly and affectionately in this world.