People must have the ability to turn the page, if you always grasp the past things and people and don't let go, linger on those grievances and hurts, and even in those people and things that can't be changed at all, continue to consume yourself, and then your life will fall into a dead loop.

You will lose interest in anything, become screwed and depressed, lose enthusiasm for life, and in the long run, you really can't commit to a new start. Don't cry because of the milk that has been spilled, you can't always be stuck in the past, you can afford to put it down, it's never life that gets better, it's yourself When your heart is firm enough, no one can affect you.

The more you experience, the more you understand, you must have a bottom line for paying, don't get entangled in bad things, don't consume yourself and don't compromise.

What does it feel like to really let go of someone?

I later learned what it's like to really let go of someone. It's not that I'm empty, it's not that I'm missing a big piece of my heart, but I continue to go on with my life, eating, sleeping, playing games, I used to always change my signature early, change my avatar, and keep worrying about whether to delete my contact information, and now I'm too lazy to change, too lazy to change, too lazy to delete.

You are still in my heart, but there are no waves when I think of you again, just like a person who has known you for a long time, and I have loved hard, as if I no longer have the strong feelings I had before, in that period of time when I was at peace and peace, I finally understood two things.

One is that no matter how painful it is, time will drain my love for you, and the other is that if I had to do it all over again, I would not regret meeting you.

If you don't get a response, you have to know how to stop in moderation, and you used to always be stupid and pestering others to keep asking, why didn't the other party reply to the message.

Later, I realized that I would think like this if I was not taken seriously, and I would like to reply to you in seconds, and if you don't want to reply, even if you send 10,000 messages, you still don't want to reply. In fact, not replying is already the answer, and there is no need to embarrass yourself.

We have to meet the right person at the right time, bring this patience to the right person, and take the initiative to dilute the unworthy feelings, it consumes your enthusiasm, your longing for pure love, intermittent chatting, aimless waiting, it's really better to sleep well.

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