It was the first time I had met that mountain, and I naturally couldn't listen to good words of persuasion, I firmly believed that I could overcome many obstacles, and there were many beautiful scenery on the way to the way, I never stopped to watch, I only had that mountain in my eyes, even if I hit my head and bleed, I thought I must be crazy, but I just wanted to climb that mountain too much. However, most of the people in the world return empty-handed, and they are unhappy.

Every piece of the moon I lost was something I deserved, and then I finally crossed the mountain, only to find that the green water was still flowing, the south wind was still the same, everything I saw was my own, the mountain was still the mountain, the sea was still the sea, and I knew that I could not do it, which was my greatest sincerity.

If one day, you suddenly feel that the steaming steamed buns, corn, tea eggs in the roadside breakfast shop are very healing, the prompt sound on public transportation becomes pleasant, you feel relaxed when you look at the blue sky, white clouds, flowers and trees along the way, the silence on a rainy day is very calming and the depression is very calming, and the moonlight shining into the corner of the wall looks very gentle.

I started to enjoy shopping, eating, watching movies alone, I went to complete many hobbies, I started to hum some light songs when I walked, I felt that it didn't matter if the wind was very cold, I rarely thought about unpleasant things before going to bed, even if I sometimes had insomnia, I was no longer anxious when I went to bed late. You suddenly sigh that the world seems to be a little cute.

Actually, the world has not changed for the better and will not get better, you are slowly getting better, you are really great!

Try to listen to the sound of the wind, don't care about the direction of the wind, go with the flow and live the present, and don't think about the future is the happiest thing.

Twenty years, is it far away?

On those roads to the campus alone in the wind and snow, in those years when food and clothing could not be solved, in that small bungalow where the whole school was only ventilated everywhere, in a class composed of more than 30 people in a village, a teacher contracted the primary school stage of Chinese, English, physical education, and natural all subjects.

In the texts that we love to turn over and over again, we hurriedly grow up, become independent, and start a family, until we are no longer young.

These classic textbooks and articles that accompanied us throughout our childhood, together with that most real and unpretentious era, are nostalgic, nostalgic and reluctant for us now.

Of course, we will also skip the hardships and poverty of the beginning, and remember the beauty of the past.

In fact, are we only reminiscing about those days when we didn't have enough to eat?

No, what I miss is not those old times that flow slowly, the innocence of the beginning of the world and the clarity of childhood?

Those unstoppable youthful light, shining through those low and dim thatched houses, nostalgia is not indulgence, nor is it stagnant, but she is too beautiful, and we should constantly remind ourselves to cherish every inch of time, cherish our relatives, lovers and friends now.

Falling in love itself is naïve, and falling in love without spending money is not naïve, is it okay to talk?

No!

Marriage will not be naïve, but love is naïve, extreme possessiveness, often eat unnecessary flying vinegar, afraid of being discarded, want to stick together every day, very happy when they meet, like hugging, sticking, kissing, occasionally tentatively push me away, come to see my reaction, I think he is so naïve, and I think he is so cute.

People who are not in a hurry can win all, emotional gains and losses, and unsatisfactory work, in the final analysis, because you can't hold your breath.

Once you are in a hurry, you must be rewarded immediately, and you will soon lose your rhythm. The development of things has its own laws, many people are just too anxious, whether it is work or love, a little unsatisfactory place feels like the sky is about to fall. But the truth is not as serious as you think. In the longer term, it's just a small fluctuation in your long-term uptrend that won't affect the big picture. You have to have a player's mentality, don't rush to win, this attitude of being able to leave calmly can put you in the upper hand in all relationships.

Things can't crush people, but emotions can, don't repeatedly look at the small setbacks of the moment, and infinitely amplify negative emotions in your heart.

Hold your breath and tell yourself, I'm not in a hurry, I can win!

Be an emotionally stable adult, never talk when you are upset, don't make any decisions, just stay quiet for a while.

We have grown up, some sad and unhappy emotions, we must learn to digest ourselves, think open, look open, let go, do not embarrass ourselves, do not blindly compete, many times you do your best, this is enough.

People must have the ability to turn the page, if you always grasp the people and things in the past, do not let go of those grievances and hurts, linger on even those things that cannot be changed at all, continue to consume yourself, in the long run, you will become twisted and unhappy, will make you lose enthusiasm for life.

Don't cry over the milk that has been spilled, why take every unhappiness so seriously?

Let the past pass, and you can afford to put it down.

When your heart is firm enough, there is no way for anyone to affect your emotions.

The more you experience, the more you understand, lower your expectations, make less dependent, try to make life what you want, don't be a puppet of emo, be a leader of happiness.