2023/10/20 You should be your own mountain

I especially like the kind of people with a cold temperament, as if nothing in this world can disturb his heart, there is no overheated appearance, there is no ridicule to please the world, they only have the road under their feet in their eyes, and their eyes are never mixed with superfluous emotions, but they are not indifferent.

It's just that all the tenderness in this life is left to the important people in life, and the friendship with others is just as faint as water, but he also pretends to be careless, paying attention to the old people and children who are strangers next to him, and reaching out to help at will, and there is no trace of kindness.

The more peaceful and gentle the person, the less he likes to interact too closely with others, for fear of disappointing the other party's expectations, and at the same time, he rarely expects others.

As a result, in the eyes of the general society, he looks like a relatively cold person.

In the same way, I especially like the kind of people who have a peaceful aura and a gentle heart, the more they don't like to interact too closely with others, for fear of disappointing each other's expectations, and at the same time, they rarely expect others.

It's a pity that the more gentle the person, the more difficult it is to tame. Their world is like a tranquil lake, with no waves or storms. They look at the prosperity and loneliness of the world with an indifferent attitude, and accept all the good and bad with a soft state of mind. They will not easily change their beliefs and principles because of external influences, nor will they give up their pursuits and dreams in order to cater to others.

They like to be alone, they like to immerse themselves in their interests and thoughts, and enjoy the peace and freedom that loneliness brings. They don't have a wide social circle, but they must be close friends, they will maintain these friendships with sincerity and enthusiasm, and they will also give support and help to friends when needed. They have a keen sense of insight and understanding, and are often able to see into the hearts and needs of others. They don't judge others easily, and they don't get easily swayed by others' evaluations. They know the complexity and diversity of human nature, and they also know how to respect and tolerate different perspectives and behaviors. Their tenderness and kindness are not deliberate expressions, but emotions that flow from the heart. They pay attention to the people and things around them, especially those who need help. They will convey their kindness and warmth with small actions, but they will not be overly ostentatious and show off.

In this noisy world, we need more people with a peaceful aura and a gentle heart.

Their presence makes us feel warmth and strength, and it also makes us believe more in the beauty and goodness of human nature.

Any time we should take the time to improve our abilities, the rest just need to go with the flow, of course it is a surprise to get something, it doesn't matter if you don't get it, don't regret it.

When we were children, we always thought that we could solve many problems when we grew up, but now we realize that growing up is the beginning of the problem.

Life, how can there be a perfect strategy, just a hundred years, just teach people to choose, year after year, the rest of the life slowly, half of the fireworks for life, half of the poetry is happy.

Fireworks in the world, everything is worth it, everything is full of regrets, happiness in life is to live a good life, in the world of the road is far away, maybe you can take your time, and stop and look and follow the wind, and walk and look and calmly, it doesn't matter what is at the end of the road, the important thing is how you walk this road, sober, self-disciplined, know how to advance and retreat.