2023/10/20 What is the meaning of effort?
Efforts are not to prove how good they are, but when unexpected and uncontrollable factors come, the cultivation and ability that we have accumulated through ordinary efforts can become the confidence for us to resist all the wind and rain.
The reason why people work hard is to drag their fate into their own hands as much as possible, rather than passively trapped in the class of their parents.
It's because when you meet someone and something you like, in addition to a piece of sincerity, there are also things to take.
In fact, the real meaning of hard work is three words - the right to choose.
Courage is knowing that you are destined to lose before you even start, but still do it without hesitation and stick to it no matter what happens.
People rarely can win in this life, but there is always a time to win, and the process of hard work is meaningful, and it is of course good to be able to get the desired result.
But, if it fails, that's okay.
Because, this time will shine in our lives, and the meaning of hard work is to keep everything you like by your side.
The cats in the alleys are free, but they have no home, and the dogs in the walls have a home, but they have to bow their heads for life.
In this life that cannot be repeated, remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten, change what can be changed, accept what cannot be changed, go all out when you have it, don't talk about it when you lose, and follow your heart to live up to this world.
I'm really an optimistic pessimist, and I often feel inexplicably lost, and I will go through a lot of things in my head. I took a lot of wrong paths, I made a lot of wrong choices, I stopped and stopped, I wandered in the same place, I missed the old, I lacked the courage to start, even if I was scarred.
Maybe I wanted too much, or maybe I never got what I wanted. No way, I've never been satisfied with myself, I've never done a good job, how can I be such a bad person, how can I be worthy of love?
I lost and lost, and I didn't care about it for a long time.
I have a bad temper, an eccentric personality, a possessive personality, and don't trust people yet.
All this time, what I cared about was not mine.
It's my problem that I can control my emotions too much, I don't want anything, I'm tired, I haven't slept well in a long time, and for countless sleepless nights, I'm wondering what kind of person I want to become. What kind of life do you live? in order to live this life satisfactorily.
I often think about how good it would be for me to meet someone in my life who really treats me and can repay her.
I'm not sad, I'm actually just waiting, waiting for someone who can see me, cherish me, and tolerate me.
I didn't feel much sad, I just missed you when I stayed up late.
I'm a stingy person, the kind of person who ignores me, I won't ignore you; I'd be especially happy if you treat me well.
I'm already a big kid, but I still hope that somewhere someone cares about me, is happy for me, and feels sorry for me.
I want someone who can understand me, even if I don't say anything, he can know what I think.
If, one day, I become silent, it may be disappointed, it may be really sad. I'm not going to take the initiative to force anything, because some people are really going to fade out of your life.
I've been chasing happiness all my life, but in the end, I've lost it. Maybe I've grown up, and I've wanted more and more.
Maybe I'm not good enough to keep those important people. I'm sad that you ignored me today, and I'm sad that you were indifferent to everything I said.
I'm sad that you don't care about everything I have. I'm sad that you've never been gentle with me.
I miss you so much, but I don't dare to disturb you. I also do a lot of things that I talk to myself, yes, lately I've been really unhappy and fucked up, and I'm having a bad time every day. I didn't get anything except to earn more than my teenage age, and I don't know what I was thinking about every day, so I knew that I was really unhappy lately.