2023/11/9 Don't rely on yourself, rely on others

One of the poorest roots to change is to rely on yourself.

Rely on your own words, and you will die of poverty!

It's not alarmist, it's a real experience, I didn't die of poverty on my own before I was twenty-six, but fortunately I was in good health and didn't let this continue.

Thinking about it the other way, what is the root of change, or what do you want, is to get the help and recommendation of others, is the purpose of your life, is the meaning of your efforts, and you have these things to change your destiny.

If you have to rely on your own blind efforts, how can you possibly change?

I am 26 years old this year, and the first pot of gold in my life was when I was 22 years old, and I only earned 1 million at the age of 22. Very late, some people are already millionaires at the age of eighteen or twenty.

Because you think about it, the first pot of gold in my life was ushered in at the age of twenty-two, and when I earn 100 million, how old will I be, how can I say that I must be fifty years old?

I ask you, do you regret it? I regret it very much, and I really envy that someone is already a millionaire at the age of eighteen or twenty.

Moreover, when I saw the attitude of my parents at home change greatly after seeing that I was making money, I felt that I had taken a detour for at least ten years in vain. I can't use any school, knowledge, or classmates in society, but it makes me feel that the knowledge taught in school is useless, and it can't help me become a millionaire at all.

And when I was twenty-six years old, I understood some things, some detours don't have to be taken, just when you understand some truths, your detours can be avoided, including all kinds of things in the family, don't you know how uncomfortable it is? Even, not only are you not energetic, you also have to hide from your family, you are in debt, dear book friends, when you say that this situation happens to you, are you uncomfortable?

When your mom calls you, you still have to pretend that I'm all right outside. And your parents hang up the phone, know that you are not good, and tell you the moment when you work hard, I don't want everyone's life to pass like this, I want everyone to know what is the right way to make money and get rich as soon as possible.

I want everyone to support their families early, I want everyone not to worry about their parents at home, let their descendants have something to rely on, and let their other half see that they are a hopeful person, so today I just ask all book friends, do you feel my sincerity?

Moreover, I also believe that this chapter, you can't see it on all kinds of websites outside, and outside websites won't write you this kind of essay novel for you to see, there are all kinds of essays on outside websites, what is it about? It is knowledge and truth, and I write about my own personal experience in this chapter, I have changed from an ordinary citizen to an online writer worth millions, I have changed from an ordinary citizen to an online writer who can write all kinds of stories for everyone, and share my own experiences and changes with you, I just want every step of my life to count, but it must not be a detour.

You may have heard some truths many times, but only when you have actually experienced them can you deeply understand their meaning. It's like relying on yourself, which sounds simple, but it's hard to actually do.

Until I was twenty-six, I always thought that relying on myself was the most important thing. I firmly believe that if you work hard, you can change your destiny. But as time went on, I found myself getting more and more tired, and my income never grew. I felt so depressed that I even began to doubt my abilities.

Until one day, I met a successful businessman. He told me that if you want to change your own destiny, you must not only rely on your own efforts, but also learn to rely on the strength of others. He told me that he was able to succeed because he had many friends and partners who together helped him achieve his dream.

I thought about it and found out that this was indeed the case. In this society, if you want to succeed, you can't rely on your own strength alone. We need to learn to rely on the strength of others and build our own connections in order to better achieve our goals. I'm now trying to meet more people and find more opportunities. I've found that when I'm able to tap into the power of others, I'm able to achieve my goals faster. And this also gave me a deeper understanding of the truth of relying on myself.

Therefore, what I want to tell you is not to blindly believe that you can change everything on your own. To succeed, you need to learn to rely on the strength of others. At the same time, you must also maintain your sincerity and kindness, so that you can truly change your destiny.