It took six years of personal experience to realize what I am now.

What I am writing now is what I have summed up from the age of 20 to the present when I am 26 years old.

What is Circle Breaking?

That is, the same class has different circles, and those who can earn 6,000 yuan a month, 7,000, 8,000, 10,000, 100,000, and million, do they have different circles?

If you want to change your class, you have to break the circle.

So what does that mean exactly?

It's possible that someone who earns 6,000 yuan a month doesn't know someone who can make 1,000 dollars a month, right?

Just like some book friends reacted, there are no nobles around me at all. Then I have to ask, don't you have any brothers and sisters around? Book lovers will say, "No"; Are there any colleagues? Book lovers will still say "no"; Don't have any friends? Book lovers will still say "no"; Don't have classmates? Book friends will still reply to me "no".

Then you have to reflect on this situation, why not? Some book lovers will say, "They ignore me", so I would like to ask you a question.

If we are in the same circle, I earn 6,000 a month, you also earn 6,000 a month, I don't know someone who earns 100,000 a month, is it possible for you to know?

If you might know, would I probably know? The answer is not necessarily, possibly or no. Through this small example, can everyone understand? Do you still compete with the people around you?

You'll also say, I don't like you, the clothes you're wearing are just ugly; This person has a body odor, and I can't stand it; Or, if he stutters, I don't like it; Or do you think that this person has a bad personality, so what are the people around you for? These people around you are used to break the circle!

Is there such a situation? What did you do before, it didn't go well, and then someone around you introduced you to something, and you did it very quickly? I can't wait to help the people around me to complete this thing as quickly as possible within a day, so as to earn a sum of money. This is breaking the circle, the people around you help you break it, understand?

Xue Zhaofeng, I don't know if you know this name, what did he do originally? Teaching, now? Internet celebrities, lectures, right!

Okay, let me ask you, what is the reason? How did he become popular? broke the circle, it turned out to be an academic circle, and then it broke into the knowledge payment circle, it became popular, understand?

Do the bosses drink out every day? What is the purpose of drinking? It's just to break the circle!

In the case of a high probability, you are with people from different circles of the same class, you have few opportunities to be with people of different classes, and there are many opportunities to be with people of the same class, then you have more opportunities to be with people of the same class, and you have to solve something, this thing is that this group of people may not help you go up the class, but they can help you break the circle, understand? Do you want to be polite to everyone around you? Is the economy important? Do you understand? Will you still have a temper in the future? Do you still have to compete with others?

At this time, you will find out, what do you need in the same circle? The first is the need for social skills, do you need to socialize in the same circle? People in different circles also have to socialize. The second thing you need in the same circle is the ability to pay, you want others to introduce people to you, do you want to be kind to others? If you treat someone well, he'll think of you, right? He thinks about you, and you break the circle.

Let's say, there are more than 50 people behind me, and you're a decorator, and you know me. After you got to know me, you did a very good job in my home, and all kinds of details were handled very well, I asked you, will I help you introduce other customers? It's a sure thing, and that's how a reliable relationship is, because if I do something other than my part, he will remember me well.

And I ask you, what is the poor man's mind? Is it not how much money to give me, how many things I do. Let's say I go to my employer's house at 1:10 and I have to finish the work at 2:30 or 3:30, and if I exceed that time by one minute, you have to give me half an hour's money. Therefore, you have to have the social ability of the same circle, and then you have the ability to cooperate in the same circle, and then you have the ability to pay in the same circle.

What is the basis for the cooperation between Jews and Wenzhou businessmen, regardless of gains and losses. And what is the poor mindset? Split hairs.

Why? Because the poor seem to be dying the next day, my efforts must be paid now, and the rich believe that they can live for a while, so they are not in a hurry to get the results, understand? Dear book friends.

From social networking at the same level to cooperation at the same level, and then to paying at the same level, at this time you can become the first person to break the circle, is your purpose to cross the class, do you believe that you can break the circle with two people next to you?

How to break? I'll say for example, you go to someone's concert and you're next to a stranger, whether it's a man or a woman, you have a straight face from beginning to end. One glance at the stage, the musicians are finished, and you look forward to the next performance. If you keep doing this, your concert will be in vain, if you open up the conversation with the people around you when the musicians change performances, and say, "Who am I, who am I, oh you look so good today, how does your hairstyle remind me of a star, have you been on TV?" Hey, you must have been on TV, or you would have been caught on camera, and you didn't pay attention to yourself, anyway, I must have seen you on TV. "Guys, have you lost anything through this self-telling? Do you believe that he happily came to you the next day?

Breaking the circle, what is the most important thing, thinking! And across classes, the important thing is behavior, understand?

When you understand these two things, it's time to move on to the next stage - the premise of crossing classes is to break through the circle of self.

How to break through? Break the circle first, then step over, hold thick legs, and continue to be good.

So, at this point, you have to know what is the essence.

What is the essence of the circle breakout? It is the re-recognition and definition of the self. Only when we have a clear understanding of our own value and know our strengths and weaknesses can we better enter the new circle and broaden our contacts and resources.

So how to make a circle breakout? First of all, we need to be proactive in expanding our social circles. Attend events, meetups, communities, and more to meet more people and learn about their backgrounds and stories. At the same time, we also need to learn to connect with people from different backgrounds, and enhance understanding and trust through mutual exchange and sharing of experiences.

Secondly, we need to constantly improve our abilities and qualities. Only when you have enough strength and value can you attract more contacts and resources. This requires us to continue to learn, accumulate experience, and improve our professional quality. At the same time, we need to learn to listen and understand others, respecting different perspectives and cultural backgrounds.

We need to maintain a positive mindset and attitude. Breaking through the circle is not an easy thing to do, and we need to keep trying, failing, and trying again. In this process, we need to maintain patience and confidence, believe in our own ability and value, and believe that we can successfully break through the circle. At the same time, we must also learn to be grateful and cherish the people and things around us, and maintain a good attitude and attitude.

Circle breakthrough requires us to be proactive, constantly improve our ability and quality, and maintain a positive attitude and attitude. Only in this way can we better broaden our contacts and resources, and realize our values and dreams.