01. Bring up the ex.

An ex is a ticking time bomb, and for the sake of your relationship with the present, don't mention anything about your ex.

02. Renovate with each other

Remembering the previous things is not conducive to the cultivation of the couple's feelings, and the past is in the past. If you have to argue again every time, it will really hurt your feelings.

03. Completely deny the other party because of one thing

Don't say things like "you can't do anything" or "you don't care about me or love me", which really hurts.

04. Break up at every turn

This is the most typical of all taboo topics. When the other party did not make a mistake of principle, the more times you mention breaking up, the more times you hurt the other person's dignity.

05. Make comparisons

Don't compare your lover with someone else's lover, don't put the words "you look at whom" on your lips.

06. Touching the other person's privacy

Two people are together, but they shouldn't be one, and leave some enough space for each other at all times.

07. Disrespecting each other's hobbies

The most typical example: Every time a boy opens the game, the girl has to blame a few words, but does your boyfriend dislike you when you are chasing the show? Everyone's hobbies are different, you can dislike, but don't blame.

08. Take the other person's good for granted

No one can be selfless and uncomplaining to you, and the concept of love I advocate is to love a little less, but a little.

09. Ignore the other person's feelings

Don't ignore the other person's feelings because of your busyness or other reasons. Feelings need to be maintained, and if you are indifferent to the other person, then the relationship will gradually fade.

10. Distrusting the other person

Trust is the foundation of maintaining a relationship, and a relationship without trust cannot last long. If you are always suspicious and distrustful of the other person, then there will be a rift in the relationship.

11. Unwilling to give for the other person

Love is mutual, and if you are not willing to give for each other, then the feelings will become unbalanced. Only by being willing to pay for each other can the relationship be more stable.

12. Disrespecting each other's family and friends

Family and friends are very important people in each other's lives, and if you don't respect each other's family and friends, then the other person will feel very uncomfortable and the relationship will be greatly affected.

13. Often cold war

The Cold War will not solve the problem, it will only make it more complicated. If you have a conflict with the other party, you should communicate in time to solve the problem, rather than taking the way of a cold war.

14. Reluctance to change for the other person

Everyone has their own shortcomings and shortcomings, and if you are not willing to change for the other person, then the relationship will become very tiring. Only by being willing to change for the other party can the relationship be better.

15. Break up often

Breaking up is a very hurtful act for a relationship. If you often talk about breaking up, then the other person will feel very uncomfortable and the relationship will be greatly affected.

16. Neglecting your own growth

People in love tend to neglect their own growth and only focus on the needs of the other person. However, if you don't pay attention to your own growth, it will be difficult to provide enough support and help to the other person.

17. Reluctance to take responsibility for the other party

Love is a matter of responsibility. If you are not willing to take responsibility for the other person, then the relationship can become fragile. Only by being willing to take responsibility for the other party can the relationship be more stable.

18. Disrespecting the other person's decision

Everyone has their own thoughts and decisions, and if you don't respect the other person's decision, then the other person will feel very uncomfortable and the relationship will be greatly affected.