2023/11/15 How to sublimate love to marriage

How far do you have to be in a relationship to get married?

There is a very interesting perception on the Internet, saying that "when it comes to the word marriage, the first reaction is happiness", I can't judge whether I am happy or not, after all, there are too many important things in life, and none of us can predict that the future will be able to solve something or the appearance of a certain person perfectly.

However, when two people gradually understand each other in love, and find that each other's living habits, hobbies, and values are very compatible, and they are always full of joy and happiness when they are together, then marriage is a natural choice at this time.

Some people may say that marriage is a long-distance race that cannot be decided on the spur of the moment. However, when two people have gone through many trials and trials in love, have a deep understanding and trust in each other, and have a clear plan and direction for their future life, then marriage is a very beautiful choice.

Of course, marriage is not a simple thing, it requires two people to work together and operate. Before getting married, both parties should seriously consider their future and life plans, as well as whether they can take on the responsibilities and obligations of the family. At the same time, we should also respect each other's choices and decisions, and do not make decisions that we regret because of the impulse.

To what extent you can get married in a relationship is a very subjective issue, and different people will have different opinions and standards. However, when two people have experienced enough trials and run-ins in love, have a clear plan and direction for the future, and have established a deep foundation of trust and affection between each other, then marriage is a very beautiful choice.

But I think when I was wronged, and the first thing that came to mind was not my parents, but my "husband" or "wife"; It's when you meet someone new of the opposite sex and are no longer ready to move; It is when you feel that he/she has as many shortcomings as the stars, but the faint light of the stars is also something you want to cherish; It is also the moment when you see that the future days will tend to be dull, and you are still willing to hold each other's hands tightly, you can probably get married.

There is also an opinion that when you are in a relationship to the point where you can get married, it should be when you are no longer afraid of losing each other, but feel at ease. After a period of time together, you have fully understood the other person's behavior, and you know that he/she will be loyal to you and will always love you and take care of you. You no longer worry that he/she will leave you, but trust that he/she will always be there for you.

When you are together, you no longer feel anxious and restless, but feel calm and reassured, able to be close to each other and hold each other's hands to face together. You know he/she can shelter you from the wind and rain and make you feel safe and stable. When you have a problem, you can solve it together instead of passing the buck or blaming each other.

Marriage is not the end, but a new beginning. After getting married, you will continue to face the challenges and difficulties in life, but you have each other's support and encouragement, and I believe that you can get through every difficult time together.

Therefore, falling in love to the point where you can get married is not only an emotional sublimation, but also a psychological maturity and stability.

When you feel at ease, stability, and happiness, it's the perfect time for you to get married.