2023/11/30 Stay vigilant at all times

Everyone wants to make money, so you have to be wary of those who have high emotional intelligence and make others feel comfortable.

The truth is very important, but most people don't understand it, or even do it the other way around.

That's why most people don't have money, and the underlying logic of business is to ponder people. To understand human nature and overcome human nature, the first thing to bear the brunt of is your own human nature.

Therefore, veterans in the business generally have an instinct, whoever pleases himself, who makes me comfortable, who is the enemy of my wallet!

Mencius said well, life is born in sorrow and death is in peace, those who make you comfortable are often asking for you, you have to believe that they are all pretending.

In a comfortable environment, people must let their guard down.

What are the results of letting your guard down? It is to be deceived of money.

So, if you want to make a difference in business, be sure to always be vigilant and don't easily trust those who make you feel comfortable. While they may appear to be very friendly and welcoming, there may be ulterior motives behind them.

Remember, the essence of business is a psychological game. Only by understanding human nature and mastering the weaknesses of human nature can we better cope with various situations. Therefore, when dealing with people, always keep a clear head and don't be fooled by superficial comfort. In addition, it is also necessary to learn to build your own brand and credibility in the business field. Don't easily trust small brands or strangers who haven't heard of it, otherwise you are likely to be scammed. When choosing a partner, be sure to do sufficient research and understanding, and choose brands and merchants with credibility and reputation.

To succeed in business, you need to be vigilant, understand human nature, grasp market dynamics, and constantly learn and accumulate experience. Only in this way can we remain invincible in this highly competitive market.

However, those who don't seem to hate anyone are often the most terrifying. Why do I say that? Because they are always able to hide their emotions very well, on the surface they will make you feel like a spring breeze, but what you see is never the real side, there is no real emotion, there is no real opinion, there is no real emotion.

Why is there a "smiling tiger" in the adjective, have you ever heard of a cold-faced tiger? Why is there only a knife in a smile, but there is no knife in a dead face or a knife in a stinky face? Because, people who have a good first impression, after a long time, you will find that they are not as sincere and enthusiastic as they seem to be.

They won't help you, on the contrary, those who have a cold first impression, if they are familiar with it, are often the ones who can really help you solve pressing problems.

So, if you want to make a difference in business, always be vigilant and don't easily trust those who make you feel comfortable. Always remind yourself to overcome your weaknesses and not be fooled by superficial illusions. Only in this way can you gain a foothold in the business field and realize your dream of wealth.

Therefore, it is important to keep in mind the principle that if a person is familiar with everyone, he is not familiar with anyone. If he is good to everyone, it means that he is not good to everyone.

So, you must pay more attention to those cold people, make friends or get along with leaders, don't mind if people have a temper, who in this world doesn't have some shortcomings? Are you perfect yourself?

They are difficult to cooperate with, low emotional intelligence, we should cherish, because they have nothing to ask for you, so they will have no scruples, they will have no pretense, we should also be glad, if everyone's emotional intelligence has improved, then where is your chance?

Where are your development opportunities? If you can handle even people with low emotional intelligence, then there is nothing in this world that you can't do.

If you've done it all, isn't it a matter of time for you to make money? Therefore, I hope that my own EQ can be higher, but the EQ of others is lower, and then my future path will be better.