2023/11/30 Don't be swayed by other people's opinions
As long as you think big, then you will be able to succeed and don't be swayed by other voices.
There is only one thing in this world that you can't do anyway, and that is the thing you don't think you can do. There's nothing else you can't do.
Isn't there such a saying on the Internet? As long as you want to mess up something, there's nothing you can't mess up!
There are many employees who will discuss all kinds of gossip in the company's pantry after they are busy with the things at hand, saying that what happened to Pan Dong and his wife because of the house or children, saying that Mr. Lu and I have some secret deals, and then there will be many employees who have a lot of opinions about us.
Pan Dong is often absent from the company, and he doesn't even listen to these rumors related to him; Lu always doesn't care about the gossip between these girls, and as a girl, she knows best what the effect between girls is; As for me, I am the most fearful leader in the company, so I am not used to these employees.
As long as someone under me says this kind of gossip in my ear, I will directly point out in the meeting, "Everyone comes to work in the company, why live in someone else's world?" ”
Why should you deny yourself completely because of someone else's words? Why should we fall into self-doubt because others don't like or disagree? Why do you embarrass yourself because others don't understand?
One person says "you did this wrong" in front of you, two people say "you did this wrong" in front of you, and then asks you if this thing is right or wrong. Even if you believe that this is right, you will deny your choice because of the judgment of others.
I use my seven years of experience in society to tell you that only what you feel you can't do, it can never be started. As long as you think that this thing is right, even if everyone feels that it is not profitable, you must stick to your choice. The probability of success depends on yourself, not on what others say. No one can see the future outcome, and even if you have a genius mind, it is impossible to predict whether the probability of this happening in the future is 100%. No one can see what will happen tomorrow, and even if you can't even see the results of the people around you for the next minute, how can you give advice to the person who is doing it?
Everyone lives their lives blindly, why should you let others influence your own judgment?
Ladies and gentlemen, do you think there is something wrong with what I said? In the past few years, I have no other skills, just one ability.
When I was going to carve out my own literary empire, everybody had to make way for me. Even if the person in the way is a literary tycoon who has won an award, he still has to get out of the way! Even the editors say that the literary industry can bloom, so why should you, as an award-winning literary tycoon, prevent a cactus from blooming gorgeous flowers? When I decided to do it, I was convinced that I could do it, that I would overcome those who were hopeless, and that it would be the best in the world, and that was what I believed in!!
There are author friends in the same industry who can live a life with the thousands of yuan in manuscript fees, so I, Xia Xuanyu, have to hold the trophy of the highest honor in the literary world and end up smiling, so as to live up to my own experience in the world, and use the words in my pen to portray the true temperament of the world and the cruel life I have seen.