This morning, Mr. Lu came to my office, played with me, and asked me a very important question.

She asked me, "Mr. Qu, do you think the boss should be friends with the employees?" ”

I asked her, "Where did you see that your boss can be friends with his employees?" ”

She replied to me, "There was a variety show on Hunan Satellite TV before, and there was a girl who wanted to be friends with the teacher as a student, so I had this problem. ”

Then, she showed me a video, which was really the words of the college girl, who, as a student, wanted to be friends with the four actor teachers on the same level.

The four actor teachers also gave their own answers, the two female teachers have their own way of getting along with female students, and the two male teachers also have their own ways of getting along, and it does not necessarily mean that they have to maintain a friend relationship with their students in the way adopted by the two female teachers. Of course, male teachers can also become friends with female students, but the sense of proportion to be maintained in the middle needs to be controlled by the male teachers themselves.

After talking about the analysis of the video that Mr. Lu showed me, I will talk about my opinion on Mr. Lu's question.

I have always felt that the relationship between friends is generally the same class relationship, and how can the boss easily make friends with employees because of the leadership class? Besides, Mr. Lu's status, once he has a friend relationship with employees, it will definitely be detrimental to her future work progress. Because employees do not understand the management thinking of leaders, they rashly become friends with their superiors, and will only get along according to the standards of friends. In the future, if something happens to the business, then he will also shirk the responsibility out of the relationship between friends and throw the responsibility on you as the leader.

Therefore, I never become friends with employees, and I also suggest that Mr. Lu should not treat employees as friends, our friends can only be business managers in the same class as themselves, or group owners, or restaurant owners, or partners with certain advantageous resources. It's not that I look down on any employee class, or that the author thinks too badly about human nature, but that society does not allow such a relationship between bosses and employees to become friends. If you think about it, once the boss becomes friends with the employee, will the employee be no bigger or smaller to you?

Everyone has feelings, and the bosses are not saying that they are born so cold-blooded. If the boss can't buy the progress of his employees even if he spends money, then this piece of hard work will be completely let down by the employees. The boss treats the employee as a brother, and the employee will take the boss as a fool, they are such a migrant worker who takes money to do things, the boss can't be too moral, you have a sense of morality, and how old can you be in the hearts of employees? In fact, there is nothing wrong with this, the boss is not an employee, his father and mother, he can't help him with too many things, and again, the boss wants to be good to the employee, which may not be what the employee wants in his heart.

The boss wants to give the employee an apple, if the employee only wants a pineapple, do you say embarrassing? So, don't be complacent.

The position of the boss is simple and simple, so simple that when you pay for it, you will automatically become a boss.

The boss is a difficult position, it's really difficult, what is the difficulty? It's just that as a boss, you have to become ruthless little by little, and then strip yourself of your humanity and become a businessman through and through.

A good businessman must strip off his personality, and a good businessman should only have interests in his mind, as long as he does not break the law, it doesn't matter whether he is right or wrong. A good businessman must be round on the outside and square on the inside, to what extent is the outer circle? It's that in life, you can say anything, as long as it doesn't involve your own interests, there are no taboos. A good businessman must not be a bad person in the end, and a good person can't make money.