2023/12/1 Progress this year
If I had to say that there was any progress this year, it would probably be to become courageous to end a relationship.
Other than that, the biggest improvement this year is probably learning how to maintain and manage a relationship. In the past, I used to give up easily and didn't have much patience for any relationship maintenance, but this year I have come to understand that every relationship requires time and effort to maintain, even at work, and to communicate with colleagues often to understand their thoughts and feelings.
In addition to this, I have also learned to control my emotions better. In the past, I used to get depressed because of small things, but this year I learned to think calmly and analyze the root cause of the problem, so as to avoid a lot of unnecessary disputes and conflicts.
Overall, I've made some progress this year, but there's still a lot to work on. I hope that in the days to come, I will be able to face various challenges and difficulties with maturity and confidence.
I am a very nostalgic person, in the past intimate relationship, even if the other party does not pay, even if it feels very hard, I will always grit my teeth and hold on, I feel that taking the initiative to say "goodbye" is a particularly cruel thing, and I look forward to the day when the other party can wake up and change.
However, this year I have learned to face problems bravely and no longer run away from them like I used to. When I have difficulties in a relationship, I think calmly and analyze and take the initiative to seek solutions to problems. This has made me more confident and autonomous in my relationships.
I also learned how to better express my feelings and needs. I used to suffer from dissatisfaction and pain in silence, but now I have learned to express my thoughts and feelings openly and seek support and understanding from the other person. This makes me more authentic and candid in my relationships. I also learned how to set boundaries for health. I used to always sacrifice my own interests and needs in order to cater to others, but now I have learned to set clear boundaries and respect my own feelings and interests. It makes me more equal and respectful in my relationship.
This year's progress has made me more mature and confident in my intimate relationships. Although I still have some shortcomings and areas for improvement, I believe that as long as I continue to work hard, I will become stronger and more independent.
But I later found out that human energy is limited, and you can't always carry a heavy burden on the road.
Some relationships come to the end, and it is meaningless to hold on, and people don't have to be separated until they talk harshly, tear their faces, and hate each other.
There will be no prodigal son who will turn back and mend his ways, it is not good now, and it will not be too good in the future.
It's hard now, and it's only going to be harder if it drags on, what is the difference between people who drag it out with a fluke mentality and gamblers who keep adding chips and fantasize that they can turn over?
As I began to let go of these baggage, I found that I became more relaxed and free. I'm no longer bound by past relationships and no longer worry about what the future holds. I began to focus more on my own growth and well-being, and was no longer swayed by the emotions and actions of others.
I also realized that life is like a marathon, and we can't keep running with heavy baggage. We need to learn to let go of those unnecessary burdens and travel lightly in order to better face the challenges and opportunities of the future.
Although I still have a lot to improve, I believe that as long as I continue to work hard, I will become stronger and more confident. I will cherish those people and things that are truly worth cherishing, and those that are not, I will not hesitate to let go and pursue a better future.