2023/12/1 Making friends has nothing to do with academic qualifications

Old man Warren Buffett said: "I look at people, not where they go to school." ”

He never looks at academic qualifications when recruiting, and Boss Ma also said that he doesn't care about money, and when he reaches the peak level of the two of them, there is no need to go to Versailles again.

But there is a hidden premise behind their words, Boss Ma said that he doesn't care about money, because he has too much money to spend, so he naturally has to pursue a higher level of spirit.

When your own name is a golden signboard, it is about the same as your name is money, then Mr. Buffett said that he doesn't look at academic qualifications, I think it's also true, but his assistants and personnel will look at what kind of education the other party is.

When you have the opportunity to sit in front of this kind of pinnacle boss, in fact, your academic qualifications themselves are not important, a hundred years of life is glorious in an instant, and the people who can leave a name in the history books are already top-notch. Ordinary people work hard all their lives, but it's just in exchange for the minute or two of talking to the big guys.

If you want to talk to big people, you have to start with your own hobbies, and if you stick to it, you can generate endless possibilities, and secondly, romance, give gifts to each other when you have nothing to do, and talk about entrepreneurial experiences or something. When we were young, would we have any business appeals, or schemes for profit? In fact, no, we are essentially just loving to make friends, and in the end there are contacts between them, the thinking of the rich is to support each other, and the thinking of the poor is to fight with each other.

There is no fairness in this world, and when you feel fair, in essence, it is only because your circle is relatively low, and your circle is so low that you have no power to distribute benefits, so you will have an illusion of fairness.

In a sense, academic qualifications are really not that important, maybe the point of this topic is that ordinary people only look at the business or the thing itself when doing business, and how stupid are many bosses? It's so stupid that you won't make friends if you don't give discounts or deliver food. We are just the opposite, the company has survived countless crises so far, everything we have done at the leadership level for so many years is to accumulate friends, money is not so important at all, people must eat what is in the bowl and don't forget what is in the pot.

Why do fitness trainers have more development than food delivery? Because, you can generate more and more advanced links, with links you will have the opportunity, one more friend and multiple paths, it is such a simple and simple factor.

Therefore, people still have to have a little bit of romance and a little bit of feelings. If, you love to make friends, you are kind, you are righteous and reasonable, these are not actually chicken soup, then you have more friends, and there is no harm in the end, you can have a link with anyone, then the relationship between you and Boss Ma is just five people behind.

The problem is that many people are too utilitarian in doing things, if I am the boss, you will scold me, and if I am bankrupt, you will not take me seriously, I have really seen too many of this kind of scum. The friends you make with all your heart and soul are actually of little use in the end, and all that can really help you are unexpected weak friends.

Mr. Buffett's words are actually telling us not to measure his value by his background, and that education is only a part of a person's experience and knowledge, not all of it. A person's character, ability, experience, interpersonal relationships, etc., are all very important factors.

Boss Ma's words are also telling us not to be fooled by superficial things. Money is not the only measure of a person's worth, in addition to money, there are dreams, passion, kindness, integrity, and so on. As we pursue these higher levels of spirituality, we will find that the inner world becomes richer and fuller. In this highly competitive society, we should not only focus on short-term interests, but also focus on long-term development and growth.

Only by starting with your own hobbies, continuous efforts and persistence can endless possibilities be generated. At the same time, we should also pay attention to the interaction and communication with people. Friends can support each other and help each other to form a mutually beneficial and win-win situation. Nothing is completely fair in this world. We should not only see our own interests and demands, but also think about problems from a higher perspective.

It is only when we realize that our circle is low enough to have no power to distribute benefits that we can truly realize our inadequacy.

Only through continuous learning and accumulation of experience can we continuously improve our ability and value. We should maintain a little romance and feelings, make more friends, and do more good deeds in order to be invincible in this complex society.