What's the biggest mistake you've ever made in your daily life?

You may know a lot of people, but these people you know can't help you.

In this era, many people will choose to start a business, there are many entrepreneurs to socialize, meet with some people they don't know, what is the first thing to do, add WeChat, right?

Okay, then let me ask all the book friends a question, have all these people you added in the past helped your career?

Didn't help you, did you waste your own time? Isn't it a useless group of people? How many of these people you've added in the past have just been added without further maintenance?

This is the method of using reading to socialize, so what is the method of using reading to socialize?

It's like reading a book, is this book good? Okay, want to see it? I want to see it. I don't read it after I buy it, most people read books like this, right? Either the paper books are bought and the battle ends at home.

When you go out to socialize and make friends with others, the most important thing you should do is find the organizer, why do you have to find him?

Because people called everyone over, he has a lot of network resources, so he can call all these people over.

The second is what are you going to do when you find this person? Praise him! Directly pull a small composition of more than 10,000 words on WeChat to praise him, and others will definitely remember you for a lifetime.

If you don't praise people, learn to praise in public, and follow the following mindset:

"Is Mr. Wang's hairstyle handsome?"

"Is Mr. Wang's car cool?"

"Is Mr. Wang's character a cow?"

"Is Mr. Wang's speech just now good?"

"Did Mr. Wang's temperament shock you?"

"Do you want to be friends with Mr. Wang?"

"Have you noticed that Mr. Wang has spoken to everyone's hearts? I will point out to you the difficulties you are currently encountering and the places that need to be broken through. Do you want to thank Mr. Wang? ”

After speaking, I want applause, cheers, and shouts from my colleagues in the audience!

Okay, then I want to ask all book friends, will Mr. Wang remember you in his heart when he hears you praise him so much? If you are in a party and you come to drag Mr. Wang, do you think this is a thing to do? Why? Because, Mr. Wang brought everyone together, did they pay time? Did you put in the effort? Did you pay for it? Do you believe it, most people actually won't be grateful. Most people go and go, go and go, come and come, am I right?!

Why, because people nowadays are very indifferent, very cold, and now people are thinking, "Can Lao Tzu make money today?" If you can make money, you are my uncle, and if you don't make money, you are my grandson. ”

Indifference will cause you to not be able to establish good interpersonal relationships, and indifference will cause you to go out to socialize, and you will not be able to let the big guy appreciate you at all. He doesn't appreciate you, how can you run your business well?

If you are the brother of the big guy, do you think he will help you? Are you a friend of the big guy, is he willing to invest energy, time, connections, resources, experience, and even family members to help you? Am I right?

Then I will tell you book lovers that the biggest mistake you make in your daily life is that although you know many people, none of the people you know are useless!

Why do I say it's useless? Because, the level of acquaintance you have with these people is too shallow, so you just added a WeChat. Moreover, now most people participate in the dinner, add a circle of WeChat of the people present, and leave after adding, and choose to end the meaning of this dinner.

The relationship between people is different, which leads to different things that people can do with each other.