2023/12/3 What is a good big brother?

If you are rich, you must be your nobleman?

So what does a really good big brother look like in our minds?

Have you ever been exposed to upward socialization?

Everyone has such a fantasy that if they can have a good big brother to lead them, they will definitely be able to make a fortune in their own industry.

To make money, you have to follow the right person, there is nothing wrong with this sentence itself, but there are many traps. What they want to express is that they themselves are good big brothers, give them money to follow them, give them money to join them, give them money to buy their courses, that is, to socialize upwards, they can have a good big brother, and they can make a fortune.

If you think about it yourself, is Liu Bei a good big brother? How many years have Guan Yu, Zhang Fei, and Zhao Yun been with him, and how many times have they failed in the middle, before they can wait for the reward of the king of Hanzhong? Is Cao Cao a good big brother? Cao Anmin and Dian Wei lost their lives in Wancheng to save him, can your data be at the level of Guan Yu, Zhang Fei and Zhao Yun? If you travel to the Three Kingdoms period, you may not even be able to compare with Cao Anmin's data, the truth is that you can't do it yourself, you don't have a good social network, and you don't have a good big brother.

When I first graduated from college, I studied lottery shops and found it easiest to do this in a physical store. Then,I went to meet a landlord who wanted to transfer the lottery shop,He hit me off at first sight,The first meeting was very kind,He took the initiative to say that he didn't want to lie to me,Let me not rent his house to continue to do lottery shop,Take the initiative to do a good big brother for me,Tell me about the pit of the lottery shop. I thought, wow, I just graduated and met my own nobleman? I'm so happy!

I asked him, "Uncle, why are you so good to me?" He replied to me seriously, "You are so young and promising, and you know how to come out and do a physical store at such a young age, which really touches me." My son is too honest and has no interest at all, I hope you can bring my son together so that you can succeed together. ”

At that time, he said it with a handful of snot and tears, I really felt that this landlady was pouring out his heart and lungs for me, I was young, so I believed it. After that, he took me around to meet his friends and see some of the properties under his name, which is completely in line with the impression of young people today as a good big brother. This landlord is a fake good big brother, and I also have a really good big brother. When I went to Jinan to do coffee sales, I got in touch with the hotel owner in Shanghai through this or that relationship, and then I added WeChat together, chatted briefly, and found that we both had a common hobby of writing novels, so we kept in touch. I won't say which hotel owner it is, so as not to be told by book friends that I advertise. He seems to have a relationship with Lao Qin of Deyun Club, I am embarrassed to ask, but he is indeed very good.

not only taught me to analyze the pros and cons of various genres in today's novel market, but also taught me a lot of etiquette at dinners. What did Brother Qin do for me? The first thing was when I resigned from the coffee company in Jinan, and I had a different idea with the manager of my department because of some business differences. The manager of the department thought that I had come in through the back door, so he was very unkind to me and played a knife behind my back. At that time, I was also young and vigorous, so I didn't say hello to Boss Li of the coffee company, just cleaned up the table, went back to the rented place alone, and returned to Laizhou overnight.

After Brother Qin knew about me, he wanted me to come to Shanghai to help him take care of the hotel, but I refused, after all, I didn't ask Mr. Li for my salary, and I couldn't afford to buy tickets. Brother Qin directly asked for my bank account number and called me 10,000 yuan as compensation for my grievances. He was using his sincerity to make up for the grievances I suffered in the coffee company, and I was grateful for this kind of brotherhood, but I still didn't go to Shanghai because everyone knew that I had a cold in those three years.

The second thing is that I know Mr. Lu and Mr. Pan and they want to open a company in Laizhou together, Brother Qin gave me four million start-up funds without saying a word, and asked me to find a way to use this money to make a name for myself in Laizhou, and sure enough, I took the four million start-up funds and opened the first unisex cosmetics company in Laizhou with Mr. Lu and Pan Dong. I know that most of the online orders are placed by some friends in Shanghai by Brother Qin, because for a period of time, the cosmetic orders in the same area of Shanghai were as high as 100 million. Let me make money, and give me back the capital, this is what my eldest brother has done.

The third thing is that due to the change of the company's management some time ago, Pan Dong was quickly vacated by other shareholders of the company's position, and the product also encountered an off-season. In order not to burn himself, Mr. Lu resigned directly from the company and chose to do the business of LED lights. I was far away in Yantai and couldn't get back to Laizhou in time, so I learned from my subordinates that most of the company's products could not be sold, and there were still three months to go before the expiration date. Brother Qin didn't know where he heard about it, so he directly helped me clear all the survival in the warehouse, so that we didn't lose money, and we made more than 100,000 yuan.

I'll tell you what a good big brother is, he never took the initiative to ask me for a favor, a good big brother will teach you how to be a person, how to do things, and even how to do business, but he will never pull you to do something. He himself is in Shanghai, where every inch of land is valuable, he is involved in all industries, he has all contacts, and even Lao Guo is his guest. But he advised me to be cautious and never asked me for a penny.

In this era, we pay more attention to the market and data, but this is how the eldest brother who has known me for many years, who has deeply helped me and influenced me, in fact, we have never met once. It's just a phone number and a WeChat ID, and I haven't deleted him. He also took the initiative to give me gifts during the New Year's holidays, and I only replied to him with the sentence "When I reach the top, I will inevitably reciprocate".

The landlord uncle who took the initiative to be a good big brother for me, what is he going to do? It was only then that something happened that confirmed my conclusion.

The reason why he was so good to me was because the first time I rented his house, I drove my father's public to go, and he felt that he could rely on my father's official position to help him connect with a higher level of big bosses.

He was good to me for at least three purposes. The first is to borrow my father's power for free to help him meet more famous bosses in Laizhou; The second is to use my car to pick him up for free, eat and drink a little bit, and show the people in his circle that his little brother is the second generation of officials, and he can be manipulated to death, and there are many rich and powerful little brothers who are willing to follow him; Third, use my capital to develop his business and complete his business plan. If you lose, you lose my money; I earned it, and I can't do without him. I will always be controlled by this landlord brother, which is called the power of prostituting myself for nothing, and this is the power of most good big brothers. So how did I get into trouble with this landlord?

It's very simple, I went to Jinan, met Brother Qin through coffee sales, and through his analysis of the people around me, I blocked the landlord, and I slowly deleted the connections that the landlord introduced to me. If you are a serious reader of my novel, you should know that I have mentioned Pisces countless times. The reason why I mention this zodiac sign is because I am a Pisces guy, and my extreme and ruthlessness are the most ruthless of the zodiac signs!