Don't step on your behavior during the relationship

The first, does not explain.

Don't always explain what kind of person you are, you let her taste it.

The second, do not entangle.

If you don't reply to your messages, you can do whatever you want, and don't keep asking what people are doing.

The third is not self-impressed.

For example, what are you doing with good morning, good afternoon, good night? (These are ineffective and highly replaceable)

Fourth, don't reason with girls.

Don't reason with girls because of some trivial things in the pursuit, most of the girls' personalities are emotional, and what she cares about when something goes wrong is attitude.

Fifth, don't expose the sense of need too early.

When many boys pursue girls, they will do prematurely expose their favorability or confess because they are worried that the girl will be snatched away by other boys, or because they want to establish a relationship with the girl quickly.

Sixth, don't try to convince a girl to fall in love with you.

Many boys are nervous, anxious, and irritable when they encounter a girl who doesn't feel good for him, and then try to convince the girl.

"How good am I to you"

"How good am I doing?"

"It's perfect to be in a relationship with me"

The seventh, don't spend money to buy love.

The so-called "spending money to buy love" is to try to get corresponding returns in this way by constantly sending red envelopes, gifts, and buying luxury goods for girls, in fact, spending money to buy love will only become a spare tire.

The eighth, not opening the mouth and closing the mouth is "about the covenant".

When the girl is not attracted to you, or the relationship between you is not yet hot, you want to talk to the girl about dating when you open your mouth and close your mouth, which will give the girl a feeling of impure purpose, as if you flirt with her not to like her, but to get her, and then destroy her with your own hands.

Ninth, do not suffer from gains and losses.

Don't feel lost and anxious because the girl doesn't respond to messages in a timely manner or rejects your invitation, which will make you lose confidence and charm in the pursuit process.

The tenth, don't treat girls as everything.

Don't make pursuing girls all you have in life, it will make you lose your ego and attractiveness. Instead, you should have your own life, hobbies, and circle of friends so that you can really attract girls.

Eleventh, not humble.

Don't show humility in your pursuits, which will make you lose your self-esteem and attractiveness. Instead, you should maintain self-confidence and self-esteem, showing your strengths and charisma.

Twelfth, don't be in a hurry.

Pursuing a girl takes time and patience, don't rush it. You should gradually deepen your engagement on the basis of mutual understanding and trust, rather than rushing to demand results.

The thirteenth, do not give up.

Even if you encounter difficulties and setbacks in your pursuit, don't give up easily. You can adjust your strategy and approach appropriately and continue to work hard to pursue it.

The fourteenth, not extreme.

During the pursuit, do not resort to aggressive actions or words that can make you appear immature and dangerous. Instead, you should remain calm and rational and face difficulties and setbacks with a positive attitude.

Fifteenth, not short-sighted.

Don't just look at the immediate benefits and benefits, and ignore the long-term benefits and implications. In the pursuit process, you should have a big vision and plan to lay a solid foundation for future development and relationships.

Sixteenth, do not ignore self-improvement.

While pursuing girls, don't forget about self-improvement and growth. You can improve your quality and ability by studying, exercising, socializing, etc., and make yourself more excellent and attractive.

The above are the aspects that need to be paid attention to in the process of pursuing love, I hope it can be helpful to all book friends.