Come, this is the question at the beginning, can you pretend to be smart in front of smart people?

I tell you that you can't pretend to be smart in front of smart people.

Because of the management, we see too many people in the company every day. We still know a lot about what a person will think and do in this second, if one second is not enough, three seconds will definitely be able to see!

So, when we can understand a person, I get bored, and then someone says something that shouldn't be said, and we give up helping them.

So what should not be said? "You can participate in this matter at any time, and I can take you to play at any time."

Hearing this, I am reminded of a friend of many years, who is a girl. The young lady not only borrowed money from me, but also asked me to invite her to dinner, and then bragged to me, "Sister's resources can be used as you like, brother, you can walk sideways in Laizhou." ”

A person who can say such arrogant words, but in the end because he met a scumbag, resulting in bankruptcy, now this young lady has returned to her hometown in Shahe to farm, recently heard some old friends say, she seems to be married. But because she always borrowed money from me before, she didn't give me an invitation out of shame, and I don't know what kind of man she married.

Why are there people like her in society, what is turning in their heads, that is, they are already decadent, and it turns out that you can't do it, and then you have to pretend to be forced in front of people who are better than you. Therefore, I can only say that the reason why you can't do it is because you are still slapping your swollen face and becoming fat in front of these people. I don't think it's really necessary, it's not that the person who helped you isn't there, it's that you're not worth helping. It's not that you don't have people around you who understand, it's that you don't deserve to hear people talk to you. It's not that you are so high, it's that you think everyone around you is stupid.

Therefore, I think that the biggest problem of this kind of self-righteous person is that he does not know himself, does not look at himself, and does not introspect, which will eventually lead to no friends around him.

It seems to be a simple truth that you can't pretend to be smart in front of smart people, but in fact, there are many people who make mistakes in this regard. The main reason for this is that people have a wrong perception of their own ability and intelligence, and always think that they are better than others, so when facing people who are smarter than themselves, they will want to express themselves without self-determination, and as a result, they will show their shortcomings.

This kind of behavior is actually very dangerous, because if you pretend to be smart in front of smart people, you will be perceived as incompetent and unreasonable, and thus be looked down upon by others. And if you can stay humble and learn with an open mind, you will be able to be appreciated and recognized by more people.

Therefore, we should always maintain a humble and humble learning mentality, and do not pretend to be smart in front of smart people. Only in this way can we continuously improve our abilities and wisdom and continue to move forward. In addition, this attitude of not knowing, not looking at ourselves, and not reflecting on ourselves can also cause us to miss out on many opportunities. Because we always think that we are good enough that we don't need to learn or improve anymore, we miss out on a lot of opportunities that can make us stronger. And if we can maintain a humble and humble learning mentality, we can continue to discover our own shortcomings, so as to continuously improve our ability and wisdom, and continue to move forward.

You can't pretend to be smart in front of smart people, it's not a hypocritical or contrived act, it's a sincere and humble attitude. Only by maintaining this attitude can we continuously improve our abilities and wisdom and keep moving forward.