2023/12/11Meet the rotten people first, and then identify the good people

If you don't meet some bad people, how can you see who is the good person.

When you are rich and rich, do you find that there will be a lot of people around you who you once thought you knew, and they are so strange.

Is there a time like this? This is the most familiar stranger.

Let me tell you a real thing. After graduation, a classmate has been suffering haha, that is, he has always been very poor, I finally got free last month, I wanted to help him, so I said to him, "You come and do me a favor, help me do this", and then, I arranged a procurement job for him. Even, the price he quoted me was the price I knew was expensive, and then he turned around and told me, "Oh, if you don't pay, Brother Qu, it may never be there anymore", I felt this at the time, brother, you are really a pit, but I still approved him.

After all, it's because of people I knew in the past, I can help him, and then I hope that when I do this, I can make him understand or give him some advice. After admitting it, I continued to ask him to find me other resources to do this. This guy raised the price for me again, and then I told him, "Xiaolin, when I did your business, you were still working part-time, and you were still earning a salary, so there are a lot of cats in this, you don't need to do this with me, there is no need."

Fellow book friends, do you know what he replied to me? He said, "Brother Qu, I am a purchaser, I have the final say, I cooperate with others, and I can't help others make money." I said, "I didn't stop you from earning money, you should earn the money, don't play tricks with the money you shouldn't." Your main business is to earn my money, and you've at least tripled my money, did I mention it to you last time? No, including the last time I ordered you, you fooled me, Xiaolin. Did I tell you? I didn't say anything about you, you give me a price, it's okay. But you can't do this business, the market price is transparent, you know what I know, what kind of tricks do you have with me? ”

Later, I personally went to the resource he was looking for, and they said that this resource had been occupied, and he deserved to be unlucky. Then there was a scene that made me feel disgusting, and I later told my personal assistant. "Yan Yan, you go and connect with Xiao Lin and ask him to give me the contact information of these resource parties he is looking for. Then, let him continue to earn the money he should earn. ”

What did he reply to my assistant? He said, "Our industry, there are rules of our industry, and we can't give you contact information." "I was thinking, Xiaolin, it makes sense that you are poor.

It's not that I have a mouth injury, but if you help him with such a classmate, he will feel that he deserves it. You try to help him, but he turns around and bites you. I don't even know how to remember it, but now I think that I was too kind, and I should be ruthless, not pity any poor person, and not hate any rich person.

Why do people become different when it comes to money? Why do people be greedy to such an extent? I tell you that most people are jealous, he can't see you, don't think that jealousy is just simple jealousy, you must go to those who have experience to make friends, so that you will have real friends. Otherwise, you won't be able to make friends.

Therefore, each of us should go to find some people who are worth associating, so what is a worthy person?

It's someone who has experience, she has experience, and you have a story, so if two people pair it with a pot of wine, it's interesting.

Including greed, there are still some things called anxious, because there are already some small accomplished people around me, who feel that they are so good that they are going to fly solo, which is a very normal thing.

Therefore, greed is a bad root of man, and I hope that everyone can cut it off, and if you don't cut it off, your poor root will not be broken.

Ladies and gentlemen, if you help someone and that person turns around and bites you, do you want to help the next person?

Want!

Why? Ladies and gentlemen, let me tell you about it.

After I met these people, I was even more determined to help more people, because my feeling is that it's so fun, you really have to meet enough rotten people to identify good enough people.

How blessed are you to make friends with a good person? After you are with a good person, do you understand how worth living in the world is? You're going to find meaning in life, you're going to find happiness, you're going to find happiness, you're going to reach a lot of places that you can't even get to. But I tell you book lovers, in the process, you will definitely meet many, many rotten people.

Therefore, the purpose of meeting enough rotten people is to cherish good people, otherwise you don't know what good people look like, otherwise you don't know what gratitude is.

Dear book friends, when we are fifty or sixty years old, we will recall what we have experienced in this life, and all our experiences must be summed up in two words, wonderful!

Otherwise, people don't meet a little bad people, and they really don't know who is good and who is bad. When you meet a good person, you don't know who is bad, and once you meet a bad person, you must know what is good.

The hearts of the warm and cold, everyone's hearts are self-evaluation.

Therefore, don't really get irritated when you meet bad people, when you close your eyes, bad people will disappear and good people will appear in your mind.