2023/12/11 Nine words save my life
When I was at my poorest, nine words saved my life.
After graduating from university, I stepped into social work, after all, I wanted to survive, so I went to work in various restaurants, and within a week of joining the company, the restaurant went bankrupt.
Oh, I'm so disheartened, and there is one word in my heart, mourning. Then, at this time, I was walking on the road, and I wondered if fate was so joking when I was going to make a big difference? Do you know how strong the blow and sense of loss are in your heart? Isn't it not the life of making money, is it that making money has nothing to do with me? At this time when I had no money, I watched Feng Lun's "Savage Growth" and saw the nine words that saved me, and at this time I made a decision - I must find someone around me to help me, because there is no drama on my own.
I think about my circle of friends, I think about my classmates, I think about a few bigwigs in the business circle. I've found all the jobs I should be looking for, I've said all the good things I should say, I've played all the interpersonal relationships that I should play, and I've helped all the people who can help you, but there are still a few people who I hurt to help me. Then, I met Mr. Lu, who drove a luxury car, sprayed expensive perfumes, and dressed up in a special bewitching fashion in Impression City. At that time, Impression City was not bankrupt, and Mr. Lu used to go shopping and eat.
At that time, I was disheartened, and I didn't look down on Mr. Lu at all. I think she's just a stupid white sweet, and she may not be able to help me. I even want to know the big guy behind her through Mr. Lu, whether it is her father or her mother, it must be to help her become such a glamorous person, and it is the good big brother and big sister I should befriend.
Now that I think about it, I still underestimated Lu Xue. The first time we met, I added someone's WeChat with a dead face, and went to eat, chat, and drink with her. Unexpectedly, through the first meeting and chat, Mr. Lu told me that she has her own LED light company, and she is a top student majoring in finance at a foreign university, and she is even better at doing business than Pan Xingzhou. She has a hobby of Cospree, Coos's various anime characters, this hobby is similar to my ex-girlfriend Jiang Rui, and it just so happens that I also like to watch anime, and my favorite is to draw the anime of the Jianghu series.
During that time, I was with Mr. Lu all day long, and I spent a lot of time watching anime with her in KFC downstairs in Impression City, and almost all the anime I watched in my life were second and third brushes. But I made an appointment to meet people, and I had to treat them, and at that time my salary was very small, which was three or four hundred yuan. Then, at that time, I didn't know how to open my mouth, so that she could take me to open up the financial circle of Laizhou, so I drove a luxury car to various attractions in Laizhou every day.
Nothing to do, just chatting, talking about each other's family situation, talking about where each other's elementary school, middle school, high school, and college are located. As long as I have money, I will live with Mr. Lu, because even my parents around me dislike me for not making money. My friends around me thought I wanted to climb to the sky in one step, and said, "Brother Qu, do you want to be a rich woman?" Or "Brother Qu, this Yan'er next to you is very handsome, and you have an aesthetic eye." "Even, some people think that I want to fall in love with Lu Xue, so I am so attentive to her. People around me would have misconceptions about me, but none of them knew what I was trying to do.
After about a year, my family almost knew Lu Xue, and from time to time they would say to me, "Why don't you take that girl home and have a look?" "But I really don't have the intention of falling in love with Lu Xue, I just want to take advantage of it. At that time, I really couldn't even afford to smoke, but I still got together with Lu Xue, even if people misunderstood that I ate soft rice, I was still a greasy and crooked fool with such a girl. Then, we met Pan Xingzhou, who happened to have some resources at home, and the three of them had a plan to start a company together, and at that time, Lu Xue asked me what I thought in my heart?
What else could I think? The partners worked together in the company, even if Mr. Lu took me to her house to play, I knew what the situation of her parents was, and I didn't say the reason for taking advantage of the situation, so I met the two partners who took me out of the predicament.
It is very difficult to start a company, we have not been alive for three months, they went to the country and abroad to find suitable products to do, I took a few little girls recruited to Laizhou to distribute leaflets outside various shopping malls, the money on the account is not a lot, that is, about 100,000 yuan, it is enough to pay wages to employees, but the rest of the money is obviously not enough for the three partners. Later, the three of them began to review when the employees got off work, and I thought about whether there was a problem with the sales of the product, and the deer always contacted her classmates abroad, so she slowly found out the "tiger" that filled her pockets, and then Pan Dong led people to find a place in the country to find a place to get stuck, until he followed the driver who shipped in the warehouse, and found the source of the problem. After all, I didn't go with them, so I don't know the whole picture, but it was their great help that revitalized the company.
If it is a partner who is not psychologically strong enough, he may withdraw after a few months. Fortunately, I was lucky, and I was able to see people accurately, and I met two "comrades-in-arms" with very good psychological quality. It took almost half a year, and finally the three of them didn't have to worry about their livelihood anymore. Later, Pan Dong's parents, who were not optimistic about us three young people starting this cosmetics company, learned that their son could earn millions a month, so they came to the company and wanted to see me.
Yes, his mom and dad came to see me.
When I heard the news, I was very strange in my heart, I was just a manager, what use was it to see me? The big moves in the specific company are all done by Mr. Pan and Mr. Lu, and I just help them stabilize the internal situation of the company. It is because I have stabilized the internal situation of the company and calmed down the various dissatisfaction and demands of the employees, so that they can negotiate business with various customers, bosses, and entrepreneurs without distraction outside. This kind of grasp of the current situation, control of the overall situation, and calmness of the business situation are definitely not qualities that can be possessed by any partner, so his father wants to see what I look like, and by the way, talk to me about his thoughts on the future of this company.
It was the first time I met Pan Dong's parents, and they were wearing famous brands all over their bodies, especially his father, who was a real big man in the antique circle. When his father saw me, he said, "You're the head of this company, you look younger than my son, how old are you?" I politely chatted with his father for a while, but I didn't expect this conversation that I realized that I also had a common hobby with his father. I like to collect stones, and it's not ordinary stones, I collect strange stones, for example, if the remnants of other people's gambling stones are not wanted, I will take them home and put them as ornaments. For example, if some pebbles fall from the side of the road in the park, I will collect them as well. His father played a little more advanced than I did, playing with jade and rare wood. And then that's how I got a deep connection with his father.
You see, when I go to work on my own, I often go to work in restaurants, and I am either ignored or ignored, or I have dried up other restaurants. But when I meet someone who can take me out of the circle, the people I meet later can take me to break through the circle, and even the anime, collecting strange rocks and writing that I inadvertently like have become my way of making friends with noble people.
My family members are more snobbish, thinking that it is difficult to move an inch without money, and even only recognize money and not recognize me as a person, so the last thing I like to go back to is home. Once I got home, I faced accusations or voices from my relatives, and even my parents hated me for smoking, drinking, and writing. But for the friends I know in society, these are ways for me to be happy. So I like to live outside even more, even if there are relatives in the family who have birthdays, I don't buy them cakes to send blessings. The society has created me, and it has also helped me see the home clearly, sometimes you have to give up boldly, if you don't give up, you will be disliked by your family. Oh yes! Except for my third grandfather's birthday, I would go to a party and say a few congratulatory words, and I rarely talked to my relatives at home. Although, I know that it is home, I know that there is no place for me.
So what are the nine words that saved me in Feng Lun's "Savage Growth"? Learn advanced, take the right road.
I can now remember the grievances at that time, how many people were not optimistic about me in the process, thought that I was unproductive, thought that my education was a junior college, and thought that I could only work for restaurants in the future. Even my family members said that I was insane, and many relatives poked my heart in various ways and slandered me in various ways. Later, I achieved an annual salary of 10 billion, and went to cry in a newly opened tavern in the Drum Tower on Gulou Street, and the boss was stunned by my action.
The boss asked me, "What's wrong, little brother?" "I was just crying and didn't answer anyone's questions. Because, no one knows me in this tavern, no one knows how I got here, no one knows how much it takes to get to where I am today. I cried for more than 20 minutes, because there was a SWAT team on the opposite side of the drum tower, and a customer almost invited the SWAT team over, so you can imagine how sad I was at that moment.
I didn't know what it meant to make money, so I thought it was good to write my own story, and I would write it even if no one was reading it.