Remember, all book friends, when dealing with leaders, we must first have sincerity, which is the biggest premise.

Because, people have seen everything, and if you are insincere for a second, he can see it.

Secondly, it is better to ask him to help you than to ask him to help you with your staff. This has nothing to do with the leader, it's me going to do this or you're going to do this, "What am I going to do, brother, do you say you can do it?" If so, what should I pay attention to? If I can, how do I push forward? But, brother, I don't mean anything, just ask you to help me with the staff officer."

In that case, everyone will say, right? Do you know what I mean by that? So what do you book lovers want to read at this time? The other party can't make a move.

If he wants to make a move, his hand comes out; If he wants to make a move, then the two of you will soon open up and the resources will be released to you.

If he doesn't want to make a move, it means that the relationship between the two of you has not reached the level of the other party giving you a counselor, or the other party has not the right to give you advice. So what should you do? Endure. Borrowing money urgently needs to manage a good relationship, which means that it is not to the extent that he helps you, and even I tell you book friends, what is it that is very likely? As soon as you open your mouth to ask, he knows that you have an idea, so he asks once, and never asks a second time. Then, just wait to see if the resources are available? Therefore, in such a process, you must know that in the process of measuring a person and selecting a person, what we have to do is to screen, focus and finally choose, I believe that there may be more than one relationship around you, there may be many such relationships around you.

Therefore, for such a relationship, you have to ask for advice, you want to do something, ask your brother/sister to help you counsel, and the other party won't let you do it, two reasons. One is that the resources don't want to be released to you, or the resources that the other party has can't help you; The second is that the relationship is not yet there, stop, try one by one, test one after another, but all book friends should remember that our original intention must be correct, we are not saying that we want to use others, we really want to make friends, and sincerely ask others for advice.

This is not called playing with the eyes of the heart, this is called prudence, can you understand the meaning of what I wrote? At the same time, there is a kind of depth of depth and depth, what you want to do, it is not as good as what he wants to do.

Let me ask you all the book friends, do you have any ideas for doing things at home? 100% of people want to reflect their sense of existence and value through the officer, then the chat at this time has to be guided.

"I think this thing is very funny, and that thing is also very good, big brother (big sister) Why don't we try it together?"

As soon as this kind of beginning comes out, it is to guide your own leader, and eventually turn the other person's thinking to what he wants to do. If you work with him, it's far more important than if you ask him for help with something, and the logic is different. Why?

So, if you become a helper, and you can be sure that you are helping, then your identity changes. Before, you asked him to help with this matter, so it depends on whether people are willing to help or not, right? But if it's you, they're here to help, and maybe they'll want to thank you. Because, he may have some things that are inconvenient to do, inconvenient to come forward, inconvenient to take, inconvenient to do, then you are here to help at this time, then you will take the initiative.

Therefore, we should be in the right direction, and we should be sincere and respectful, regardless of the way we deal with our leaders.

Sincerity is the foundation of a good relationship, and respect is our basic attitude towards others. At the same time, we must also learn to express our ideas and needs appropriately, but not to rely too much on the help of leaders, but to achieve our goals through our own efforts and wisdom.