2023/12/13 Make a "good friend" in your life

People have to associate with many people in this life, but the people you should be most grateful for are the people who encourage you, the people who will not give up on you, and the people who really help you.

In the first half of my life, I really met such a person, even if the two of us will not see each other again because of other things in the future, he is the person I am most grateful for.

Anything he does, I'll do my best to help him, why?

Because, at that time, I was really poor, don't think that my father was the director of an official unit, just think that as the second generation of officials, I have some proud strength. My father doesn't like me very much, which is different from the "patriarchal" thinking that everyone is accustomed to, because he doesn't know how to raise children at all, and my sister was raised by him to only know how to study but has no emotional intelligence, including my sister's marriage, she and my father didn't ask me to participate together, and finally participated in a Guining banquet, which led to me not understanding what the situation was at her mother-in-law's side, and the relationship between our sister and brother suddenly froze.

So, because my father didn't like our sister and brother's attitude, I was arranged by my father to do a lot of things that I didn't like when I was a child. Because he knew a teacher who played the erhu, he had to let me learn this thing, and I really hated the instrument, so I threw the erhu directly to the garbage heap on the fifth floor of the old community; I was bullied in middle school, and my father not only didn't help me deal with it, but even bullied me with the head teacher of the third year of junior high school at the time. So I hate the female teacher very much until now, so that I have no one to rely on, so I can only run away from home and wander in the city for twenty-one days; When the bullying incident came to the second semester of the third year of junior high school, I was completely tired of studying, and my father self-righteously sent me to Shandong Xinyuan, so that I had to choose accounting computerization major, I wanted to choose animation design, he didn't support it at all, I didn't dare to resist, he was short-tempered, and I was afraid of being beaten, so I reluctantly went to college for a few years, mixed up with a college diploma, and did some jobs at the bottom of society.

From the moment I graduated from elementary school to the time I met someone who encouraged me, I was unhappy for 12 years. Every day in the past 12 years, I have been unhappy, I don't know whether to blame myself or others, as if the world is wrong, and it seems that my standards for myself are too high. So, when I met such a good friend who could not give up on me, something suddenly opened up in my heart.

I really didn't have any money at that time, and I didn't even dare to tell my mother. Even, in order to make my life look better, I also used my ID card to get a credit card, hoping to use the money to change the situation of poverty. Because the money in the credit card is really difficult to earn other people's money, I owe the bank thousands of dollars. I don't want to owe it, but the time when no one helped me was a real bottom of my life, and I really couldn't do anything.

Then, I met Donald Duck, who is my good friend in life - Tang Weizhi. Although he didn't help me pay back the money, he was indeed a beacon in my bleak life, encouraging me to use the pressure of thousands of dollars to bottom out, never giving up on me, and really helped me get better, and the money was paid back quickly. Even though we have our own careers now and we don't see each other anymore, I still remember what Donald Duck said to me, he was one of the few good friends of my friends, and the best friend.

Including at that time, I was very inferior, I don't know if you have experienced this kind of time, that is, I don't go to friend reunions, class reunions, and teacher-student gatherings. Why not? It's uncomfortable, I just got out of school at that time, where did I have the money to squander? At the dinner, people talk about what they do, their future plans, and their family situation, what do I say? I can't say a word, I have no money, no power, no power, how can everyone look up to me? All I can tell these friends, classmates, and teachers is that I owe thousands of dollars to the bank, and I still have overdue debts. What I can tell you is that my life can only be looked down upon by you, and your current work, family and future have been looked up to by me. Later, Donald Duck knew that I often didn't go to parties, and he would deliberately invite me to his house, and he would also deliberately pull our mutual friends, and the three of us would watch "Detective Conan" at his house for a drink. Therefore, I really can't cry anymore, and I call on all book friends to thank the person around you who encourages you, the person who will not give up on you, and the person who really helps you.

If you don't experience these things, you don't know what kind of people you can be with at all. People who have not experienced the wind and rain will never see the rainbow, the truth of this world is so simple, you book friends, you remember, you have encountered difficulties, encountered problems, encountered difficulties that you can't pass, there will always be someone around you who has always believed in you, your life is destined to be brilliant, destined to be brilliant, destined to be dazzling!

The friendship between me and Tang Weizhi transcends the limitations of time and space and has become the most precious treasure in life. In my most difficult time, Tang Weizhi did not give up on me, he always encouraged me and helped me out of the predicament. He was not only my friend, but also my mentor in life. He taught me how to face difficulties, how to hold on to my dreams, and how to become a better person. His support and encouragement made me more confident and determined. I started trying new things, challenging myself, and constantly learning and growing. In the process, I encountered many difficulties and setbacks, but Tang Weizhi was always by my side, giving me strength and courage.

He is not only my friend, but also the precious person in my life. His presence makes me cherish every moment of my life more and work harder to pursue my dreams. I thank him for his help and support for me, and for making me a better person. In this world, there are many people who will have an impact on you, but the only ones that can really make you remember are those who encourage you, those who will not give up on you, and those who really help you.

They are your friends and your family. Their presence makes your life more colorful and meaningful. Let us cherish those around us who encourage us, those who will not give up on us, and those who truly help us. Let's thank them for their existence and let us go through every stage of life together and create a better future together. I will always believe in you, because that's how I came here!

In fact, in this life, it is not easy for you to work hard, and it is not easy for you not to work hard. If you don't go through purgatory, you can't be gold.

The ancestors have already told us that the heavens will descend on the people, so I really advise all book lovers, when you are sure to do something, don't change it like a multiple-choice question, you will find that only you are replaced in the end, not anyone else.

I hope that every book friend clearly knows that there is actually only one reason for success, and there is nothing new. Before you become a different person, there must be a lot of ordinary people on the road to give you evaluations, positive, negative, positive, negative, these are all encouragement. Nothing else, it's all encouragement. He wants you well, not for you, and treats all these things as a positive thing, and I have experienced a lot of gossip, and there will be now, but I still hope that I can be the last person that others meet who can help.

My persistence taught me that only our own rise is victory.