2023/12/13 The level is high and low, you can know it in a word
Dear book friends, there is a rank between people, and you can quickly judge what level you are at by saying a word from the other party.
At a dinner, two entrepreneurs sat together, Xiao Wang and Xiao Zhang. Xiao Wang's company is about to break through one billion financing, Xiao Zhang is just the company's annual turnover can exceed 10 million, they are together to share their success with each other, the whole process Xiao Zhang is sharp, feel that he can judge the future, and Xiao Wang is particularly modest to ask Xiao Zhang for advice, Xiao Zhang is the whole process of spitting lotus flowers all the brains said, interpersonal relationships, entrepreneurial experience are all at a glance, and Xiao Wang has always expressed great admiration to Xiao Zhang, He means that he needs Xiao Zhang to help him in the future. I sat next to me and didn't say anything, because Xiao Zhang didn't know how big Xiao Wang's business was, but Xiao Zhang must have found his presence in Xiao Wang.
Then I want to ask all book friends, why do you think Xiao Wang rarely speaks, and has been praising Xiao Zhang and recognizing it all the time?
My idea is that Xiao Wang can use anyone around him as his own resources, and secondly, Xiao Wang wants to see what use Xiao Zhang will have for him in the future? The third is to see Xiao Zhang's character and know that he belongs to a person who can't hide psychological secrets, then Xiao Wang will fulfill him, do enough altruism, and humbly let go of himself.
Therefore, the rank between people, the master can see it at a glance, and you can see it at a glance, and you can judge what level you are at when you say a word.
Indeed, by observing the way and content of people's speech, we can roughly judge their rank and level. The conversation between Xiao Wang and Xiao Zhang is a good example.
Xiao Wang rarely speaks and always praises Xiao Zhang, which shows that he is a very smart and shrewd person. He knows how to relate to people, how to express his thoughts, and at the same time can get useful information from the words of others. He rarely speaks, but every time he speaks, it is well thought out and all for his own ends. Xiao Zhang, on the other hand, is a more confident and conceited person, he likes to express his thoughts and opinions, and likes to show his abilities and achievements. His words are full of confidence and pride, but at the same time they expose his immaturity and lack of experience.
Through this dialogue, we can see the rank gap between Xiao Wang and Xiao Zhang. Xiao Wang showed his superb interpersonal skills and leadership through his words and actions, while Xiao Zhang showed his self-confidence and conceit, but lacked experience and depth. Therefore, the master can judge their rank and level at a glance.
It also reminds us to be mindful of our words and actions in our dealings with others, and to learn to listen to and understand the thoughts and opinions of others. At the same time, we must also continuously improve our ability and quality in order to get along and cooperate with others better.
In addition, Xiao Wang's modesty and consultation also show his maturity and steady. He is not complacent about his achievements, but is willing to ask Xiao Zhang for advice, which shows that he is a person who knows how to respect others and learn with an open mind. Xiao Zhang, on the other hand, is a little conceited because of his achievements, and his words are full of self-boasting and showing off, which may make him face some difficulties on the road ahead.
Therefore, this conversation also reminds us to be humble and respectful in our dealings with others, not to be complacent about our own achievements, and to learn to listen and understand the thoughts and perspectives of others. At the same time, we must also continuously improve our ability and quality in order to get along and cooperate with others better.
In short, by observing the way and content of people's speech, we can roughly judge their rank and level. If you want to improve your rank and level, you need to continue to learn and practice to improve your ability and quality.