Ladies and gentlemen, will you eat?

I believe that book friends who see this question will be confused, how can there be anyone who can't eat? Yes, not only that, but a lot.

Dinner changes fate, whether you can eat determines whether you will do business, whether you can eat determines whether you can be a person, whether you can eat determines whether you can do a game.

A few days ago, I got off work at noon and went to eat beef noodles in a small restaurant outside. It was very funny to see an employee about my age at the table next to me.

When we were eating, when they were toasting at the table, an uncle deliberately touched the wine bottle down, and the employee was about a centimeter higher than him, once or twice forgiven, and then the third time, his manager may have seen something wrong and kicked the employee up, saying that he didn't know how to be polite. How can you make the mouth of the uncle's wine bottle on the other side lower than yours? And it's you who come to toast the other person, and when you touch the bottle, you raise your own bottle so high. Then I noticed that this employee had a slight expression on his face, and he looked unhappy.

Later, I secretly wrote down this micro-expression, and this employee must have felt that he had no face and wanted to get face back for himself. Later, he said that it was the last cup, and he was going to apologize to the uncle, but the uncle changed his tone and thanked the employee. said that if it weren't for him, the two sides would not have such an opportunity for cooperation, nor would they have such a good cooperative relationship, nor would they become so harmonious in an instant, and he played an important role in the whole cooperation process. Everyone at this table today should thank him, and the employee began to have a smile on his face, and the uncle followed up with the employee's words just now, saying that it was the last cup, and today is not respectful to the leader, everyone must give you a cup, and you must thank you. Then, they all held teacups, and everyone learned a lesson in the whole promotion process, the cup must be low, at this time, you will find that including the leader of the employee, including the uncle who spoke to relieve the atmosphere, everyone lowered their cups to the minimum, and there was no way to lower it anymore, and everyone was sticking to the table to respect him.

I was looking to see if there would be a micro-expression on the employee's face, and sure enough, the employee immediately showed a smug smile.

He must have thought to himself: Hey, what's going on? It's obvious that I did something wrong, why did anyone come over to toast me? What exactly should I do? Forget it, it's come to this point, you can only take one step at a time, even if you know each other.

He put down his bottle, took the teacup instead, placed it in the middle of the table, and said, "I'll put it here, you can respect."

My mother, everyone in the comprehensive hall burst into laughter, this little brother really hasn't encountered a big scene, it's just a blank slate.

Dear book friends, I don't know what you see from this detail, first of all, the etiquette and etiquette at the dinner table, does it determine the level of a person? Does it determine how high a person has seen the world? Is it possible to decide where a person, in different environments, sees different ceilings?

The first is to judge that this employee must be a child of a common people's family, he has not experienced the etiquette of toasting at all, and he does not know that the bottle mouth needs to be lowered on the occasion, he is toasting the elders according to the toasting method in his village.

The second is to judge that this employee is very simple-minded, whether it is the dissatisfied micro-expression on his face, or the embarrassing atmosphere easily resolved by the uncle, he has never concealed his micro-expression. He may want to grow in this kind of situation, and he wants to make himself better and better.

The third is that this employee can make this kind of reaction under such conditions and environments, which means that he is still very kind, and he hopes that the leader or uncle on the other side can guide him to do the right thing, and then be seen by everyone his sincerity.

In our world, we need to use the matter of eating to change our destiny, and we must use the opportunity to change our destiny to become everyone's ladder. So, fellow readers, will you eat? Eating is not only to fill your stomach, but also a kind of socialization, a kind of etiquette, and a kind of culture. Through eating, we can enhance our relationship, get closer and achieve cooperation. Therefore, eating is also a kind of ability, an ability that we need to keep learning and improving. Only by being able to eat can we better interact with people, better expand our contacts, and better realize our dreams.