The most incompetent person in this world is a bad person.

What is a bad good person? It's very overflowing, doesn't pick people or provokes trouble, and this kind of love is particularly overflowing for anyone, and I think this kind of person is particularly bad.

I don't know if you've heard the story of a bad guy. That is to say, there is a rich girl and a girl from a poor family in the story, and then the rich girl gives the poor girl half of the food every day, because the poor girl has no food every day, but suddenly one day, the rich girl does not give the poor girl half of the food, at this time do you guess what the poor girl will think in her heart?

Why didn't you give me half of my meal today? Instead, she would blame the rich girl.

Of course, we are not talking about the poor and the rich, there is no such meaning in this, but to think through this story, each of us must understand a truth when we are slowly dealing with people, and we must understand a truth, and we will fight against each other. You don't need me to explain this, right? Book friends who don't know what these six words mean, bother Baidu to check it yourself.

Sometimes, when we are good to a person, there must be a scale, there must be a limit, and we must not be good to a person all the time.

When you have been good to a person, you should think about the day when he will feel that you owe him. Sooner or later, there will be a day when he thinks you should.

Therefore, what does it mean to be strict with a master and a high apprentice? If you are really good to a person, you are not to give him charity, not to get used to him, not to spoil him, but to be strict with him. No matter who we are around, we have the same attitude as always.

When I meet someone who needs help, then I should think about whether I should help him or not. Instead, does he want to thank me? Considering these two different options, your answer to whether or not to help him will naturally become clearer.

Because, sometimes, when we help others, most of the time we still have an idea in our hearts, we need others to recognize, we need others to encourage us, we need others to praise us, we will do it. Then you do it, if it's the above starting point, then the result will be a big problem later.

Including, the ancients had a thing called "Anonymous". The wisdom of the ancients to do one thing is anonymous, and some things are done, and they can't leave their own names.

If you can figure out why you don't keep your name when you do things, then you will slowly start to develop wisdom.

What is Anonymous? Do you know the name of a red-capped merchant? Hu Xueyan.

He once did one thing, he saw that there was a river, and then there were very few ferries coming and going from the river, and the ferries were charged, and the efficiency of going back and forth was very low. When he had money, he donated a few boats, hired a few crew members, and let the common people take his boat and come and go for free. Two years have passed, Hu Xueyan is in this place, everyone scolds him, do you know why?

Because, he robbed other people's business, he made a free ferry, so that others had no food to eat, and there was no money from the ferry. Therefore, the crew members of the ferry began to slander him. Slander him for any little fault, slander him for any bad things, magnify his bad things to say, and magnify to spread rumors.

Ladies and gentlemen, do you think people's hearts are interesting? Then, after a while, you will find that those who are on the boat will say that Hu Xueyan is a bastard, but he has done a good deed with us, and we are going to take advantage of him like crazy. Because Hu Xueyan doesn't live in this place, he can't control public opinion, but these people who were originally the boss of the ship will desperately slander him.

Therefore, being a human being is a particularly interesting thing, and when you sometimes understand that there are some things that cannot be named, then you really know how to manipulate people's hearts.