What kind of person you are after three years depends on whether you do two things.

The first thing is who you are with, and the other person will determine your social relationships, your network, your career, your opinions, and your judgment of a thing.

Including who you are with, it will even become your ability to solve problems when they arise.

The second thing is to work hard to improve your cognition. Cognition determines your thinking, thinking determines your actions, and actions determine your outcomes. The improvement of cognition requires you to keep learning, thinking and practicing. Only through continuous efforts can you improve your cognition, change your thinking, change your behavior, and change your results.

In three years, what kind of person you are depends on whether you are with good people and whether you work hard to improve your awareness. It is only through continuous effort that you can become a better version of yourself.

One is to make friends, the other is to raise cognition, these are the two channels of your life change.

I have a friend who saw a car last year, and it sold for 60,000 yuan, and it was a 97-year-old Tiger Touben, which was the ultimate dream of my friend's generation. At that time, they didn't know what a Rolls-Royce was, they didn't know what a Lamborghini was, and they didn't know what a Ferrari was. At that time, in the world of all Chinese, Tiger Head Run was their ultimate dream, how much to sell, 60,000!

You know, a car in the same year, let alone selling for 60,000, can be sold for a few thousand or even 10,000, and later my friend really bought this tiger head for 60,000 yuan. I bought it back and picked it up, and added 20,000 yuan for maintenance, a total of 80,000 yuan. When the car came back, his daughter-in-law scolded him and bought a scrap copper and rotten iron for 80,000 yuan, which was not as good as a new energy vehicle or a brand-new car. Later, he said to his daughter-in-law, you don't understand, this is our man's feelings. And then he went and did another thing, and he drove this car to a meeting place where a lot of our friends were, and you know we all borrowed it from him when we saw it, and we had to ask him to borrow it for a day or a week.

Later, less than a month after this car, he put the car on the Internet and began to sell the car, and he sold it for 800,000 yuan. His wife said, you are not only stupid, you are also insane, how could someone pay 800,000 yuan to buy a broken copper and iron? Later, the car did not sell to the ideal price in his heart, but it was sold for 600,000 yuan.

Fellow book friends, let's do the math, what is the concept of netting 520,000 yuan in less than a month? And in the eyes of his wife, this car is a scrap of copper and rotten iron, so it doesn't matter if you say that cognition is heavy!

This is cognition, the cognition of things, the cognition of opportunities, and the cognition of troubles. If his daughter-in-law feels sorry for the 80,000 yuan, it must be a pit, and she will avoid this pit. But for me, a friend, it was a sentiment and the ultimate dream of their generation. If you have owned this car and driven it with your friends, then this is enough, what doesn't belong to you is still not your own after all, and he must be happy to make money with the car as a springboard. For me, a friend, it was an opportunity to make connections and multiply my money.