2023/12/17 What is the gift?

It's almost the New Year, and everyone is going to give gifts and visit relatives and friends before the New Year.

Then let's talk about gift-giving today, gift-giving is not about smashing money, giving gifts is sincere.

It is more valuable to give it to a friend than to give it to a relative. For example, if you pick up a red leaf on the road today and deliver it to a friend's workplace or to a friend's home, why?

This red leaf reminds us of the time when we were in school, and we remember when we went out, on the first few trees on the right side of the school, and in autumn they would fall all over the ground, and when we got out of school together, we stepped on the red leaves, and you told me that a friend was pursuing you, so do you know? That moment was my happiest moment, because it was you who treated me as a true friend. So, today I picked up this red leaf, put it away, put it in a paper, and put it in front of you by courier to commemorate our friendship.

I ask all book lovers, is this a gift? What does it mean to give a gift to make people like, do you think that gifts should be given very expensive things? Do you think it costs a lot of money to give gifts? Sorry, you don't know what gift-giving really means, and you don't know what the meaning of gift-giving is.

For example, one day you suddenly see a friend in your circle of friends who has changed their iPhone, and at this time, you will immediately buy him a mobile phone case and send it over. said, "The phone case is not expensive, only a few dozen dollars, but I have been picking on the Internet for several hours." As soon as I think you are busy, I hope this phone case can help you, it comes with both a front stand and a side stand, which is bound to play a great role in your work and life. ”

Therefore, you say that it costs a lot of money to give gifts, sorry, you will not give gifts. If you don't know what a person is, you'll just give away expensive gifts.

When you know what it means to be a person, then the gift you give will make people very happy, a farewell will make people nostalgic, there are many people who meet is "bye-bye, see you next time, I'm very happy today", sorry, you wasted this meeting, you also wasted the opportunity to put yourself in the hearts of others.

The greatest ability of a person is not how capable you are, but whether you live in the hearts of others? What is called goodbye and nostalgia, remember that when you say goodbye to anyone, you must go over and hold each other's hands deeply, there will be some barriers between the opposite sex, then everyone should keep a distance, but there is no such barrier between the same sex.

Hold each other's hands and say, "The time I spent with you today is very short, in fact, I wanted to leave just now, but because you are here, I have stayed until now, I am very happy with you today, I hope to meet you next time." I don't want to leave, but it's late, so I wish you a good night's sleep tonight. ”

Only when you care about others will you pass that care back to yourself, and how much you care about others, how much others care about you.

If a book friend wants to say, "There is someone I care about, and as a result, I have been nice to him for many years, and he is not good to me." "For this phenomenon, I can only warn book friends who can say this kind of thing, in life will definitely meet friends who do not know how to be grateful and give back, if you are depressed because you have met a bastard, then the pattern in your heart is indeed a little small. If you are good to others, and others are not good to you, then you should stop the loss in time. Of course, if you meet this kind of person who doesn't know how to give back, you must cherish the people in this world who can still connect with you, and cherish the world even more There are still many excellent people waiting to cooperate with you, so that you can feel the truth of this world, feel the truth of this world, and feel the true love of this world.

If you haven't figured out these things, you're afraid of a fair? Could it be that once we are bitten by a snake, we will be afraid of the well rope for ten years? It's not necessary at all.

Therefore, we must let others be nostalgic for a farewell, only in this way can we cherish what we have now, grasp the present, and create a better future.

The same is true for gift-giving, the value of a gift is not in the price, but in the heart and sincerity. A simple gift, a sincere heart, can often touch people's hearts and make people feel your care and warmth. Therefore, when giving gifts, we must choose gifts with our hearts, express our hearts with our hearts, and let people feel your sincerity and warmth. In this way, our gift-giving can truly achieve its meaning and value.