2023/12/18 Twelve guidelines

When you understand these 12 principles, your thinking will change, and your thinking will change, and your thinking will change. If your thinking changes, your pockets will change.

If what you think in your head is right, how can it be wrong in your pocket?

The first rule: the end is not the same as failure, the end is the beginning of the next journey. Many people think that failure is the end, sorry, the end is just another beginning.

The second criterion: Most of us are blinded by appearances because we do not possess the ability to see the essence. When you can see the essence, you will find that it will be completely different.

Rule 3: You have to rely on constant pressure to make yourself more and more detailed. People don't leave homework for themselves, which is a way to let themselves learn in vain. If you don't give yourself homework, it's hard to turn what you've learned into something you can learn every day. Whether you are a boss or an entrepreneur, whether you are an individual or a large team leader, you should set a goal for yourself in this matter. When you set stress goals, you will grow.

Rule 4: What you're looking for, he may be looking for you, so don't miss out. You know there are many situations where you're looking for money, and money is looking for you; You're looking for opportunities, and opportunities are looking for you; And there is only a layer of window paper in the middle. You used to have a hard time finding your other half, and you were thinking: Is there no other half in my life and the future? The future is so bleak for a lifetime? Suddenly, one day, you open your mind, or suddenly one day you change, you will find that all the girls are chasing you, and the little brothers are all chasing you. You will find yourself from a person who couldn't even find a partner in the past, and then to a person who encounters the Peach Blossom Tribulation every day. When you pierce this layer of window paper, you will be truly enlightened, and what you are looking for, he is also looking for you.

Rule 5: Don't believe in reason, reason is a lack of imagination. Many people think that they are very rational, and so far, I have not seen a person who is completely rational, all of them are half-emotional and semi-rational people, or all of them are emotional. It's just that it's a little more or a little less emotional. Rationality does not really exist in human society.

Rule 6: Don't let what you hold on to for a long time end up being wrong, which will give you a fatal blow. Many of us have been insisting on things that are wrong, such as insisting on stilting our legs, insisting on eating betel nuts, and insisting on building a good relationship with everyone in the company.

Rule 7: If you haven't been grateful for your failure from the bottom of your heart, then your failure has no meaning and it won't help you in any way. I have learned one thing along the way, all failures are my most specific teachers, and all failures that happen to me are to teach myself to become stronger. You have to be grateful for failure, and when you have such a mentality, you will find that every failure is your own mentor, not your own threshold.

Rule 8: Be sure to carefully arrange the people around you who give advice, because they are the doppelgangers of your thinking. Don't think that there is any independent thinking ability in this world, it's all nonsense, independent thinking ability must have the ability to accept other people's opinions.

Rule 9: Sometimes you have to stay away from some people, because one wrong person can destroy all your future. The wrong person must learn to distinguish him, and he must be recognized. The wrong person will delay your time, it will consume your work, and every minute of you is your life. Therefore, how you use your time, how you can meet your own destiny.

Rule 10: What we usually think is impossible is just a lack of guts. Many entrepreneurs, many entrepreneurs and bosses, when you encounter a problem, what you lack is not the method at all, but the courage to be bold enough. Dear book friends, the most terrible thing in this world is not incompetence, but fear. What you fear, slowly and completely consumes you. The reason you don't have a way is because you're afraid. When you're not afraid, when you're confronting, when you're confronting, you're not scared anymore.

Rule 11: The most important ability you should have is to speak extraordinary thoughts in very ordinary words. In this link, what kind of words you say is what kind of person, what kind of language structure you have, then what level you live in. In life, people are not just as simple as being a man, what people are afraid of is being kind-hearted but stupid and unable to speak, which is the most cowardly feeling. Because, you can only rely on your eyes to communicate every day, and you can only rely on others to understand you and participate in you to communicate with others, how boring it is. Become a useful person, provided that you can speak useful words in your mouth. The bigger premise is to find a useful word, and sometimes a word can change you.

Criterion 12: The so-called profession is to make all the mistakes you can make within a narrow range. When you have made all the mistakes and go out for a while, you are an iron King Kong, and when others scold you, you may have a reply word to make the other party speechless.