2023/12/18 Be surrounded by people who understand

If you are not doing well now, your career is not going well, you are stretched, and you are in financial crisis, then the most essential reason for you is that you don't even have someone around you who understands.

If, there is someone around you who understands, maybe you are not what you are now. And you must have had someone around you who understood, but you didn't know him. You think that those who are confused are the people who understand, and you think that the people who understand are very confused. Therefore, there is no one around you who understands, not because he has not come, but because you have pushed him away with your own hands.

If you want to change the status quo, you need to find someone who understands. This person could be a friend, family member, colleague, or mentor. They can understand your situation and give you valuable advice and guidance. At the same time, you also need to learn to cherish the people around you and not easily push them away from your life.

Because, only when you truly recognize your mistakes, can you change your life and move towards a better future.

Then in retrospect, why did you miss this person who understood? It's because you're too proud, it's because you can't see clearly, it's because you can't understand it. Ladies and gentlemen, you should remember that if you put people in the first place, then you will be able to thoroughly understand what is a person, what is yourself, and what is someone else.

Between you and any difficulty, the difference is never a knowledge, the difference is not a method, the difference is not a logic, the difference is always a person! How many of us see good things and don't have the ability to discern them, and we don't know whether they are good or bad.

What do you see in the end, or do you see selfishness, and the failure of all people in this world comes from their own selfishness and pride. Don't think that you are very selfless, there is no such situation, you have the ability to do things, the reason is that you have a problem with your life.

You feel that you are very strong, but you still can't do anything, that is, you have a problem with being a person, which has nothing to do with your own ability. Do you still think that your ability has increased at this time? Then you can't solve the problem, your problem is not in the ability, so a person can do things, success is temporary, if a person can be a person, wow, not success is temporary. When you can understand this truth, you will know how important it is to be a human being.

If you're at a low point in your life right now, don't be discouraged. Because, as long as you are willing to look, the one who understands who can bring you inspiration and help is by your side. They may be in your circle of friends, or in your life or work. As long as you are willing to listen, to understand, to learn, you will be able to find them. At the same time, we must also learn to cherish the people around us. Don't push those who can help you out of your life on impulse or negligence. They could be your friends, family, colleagues or mentors who can help and support you when you need them. Also, remember that changing the status quo doesn't happen overnight. It requires patience, determination, and courage on your part. But as long as you are willing to try and work hard, you will definitely be able to change your life and move towards a better future.

All book lovers should remember that being a person is more important than doing things. Only when you really know how to get along with people, how to respect others, how to understand others, can you really succeed.

Because, in this world, no one can fight alone, and the cool male protagonists in those novels also need to rely on their partners to achieve their supremacy step by step. And those of us who are ordinary people need the help and support of others even more in order to continue to move forward. Therefore, being a human being is a very important knowledge, which requires us to continue to learn and practice.