2023/12/18 Three criteria to judge people
To judge a person, only three criteria are enough.
There was a young lady in the company who was not afraid of tigers, and she directly met me for the second time and said that she wanted 1 million funds, the purpose was to achieve 100 customers, and once it became a function, it would bring at least 10 million company revenue. Then, I said yes, why? Because, I think that this young lady of 96 years has a very excellent strategic vision, and the circle of young people she can reach, it is indeed possible to bring more than 10 million company revenue.
However, the next day she refused to me, and I didn't want it again. I said, is it not sincere enough? She said that she could indeed bring the company 10 million in company revenue, but she was a girl and was not mature enough in dealing with people's hearts and human nature, so she wanted to spend another three months to understand the hearts and humanity of various people in society. I was impressed by this young lady at that time, and instantly changed my opinion on the post-95 generation.
What should 96 years be for? Watching dramas, clubbing, staying up late, it should still be in such a state, when everyone is discussing, they should be talking about games or falling in love. Most of the girls should be discussing these issues, so can you imagine how this employee would have changed dramatically if he had been an old entrepreneur? What she is doing is her overage, and naturally there is a change in her overage thinking.
When a person walks up to you, you remember that you always have three words in your head, which will help you solve the problem of what kind of friends in this life are.
Some people are in age, what is it called? The post-95 and post-00 generations should do things at their own age, go to work, bubble bars, bouncing around, eat delicious food, and drink milk tea.
Most of the employees in our company have a common habit, whether it is to eat a working meal or what, as long as the restaurant queues up or as long as the place will delay our time to eat, then just don't go, after all, time first. But do you know the book friends? I see a lot of post-90s and post-95s who can choose a place to eat for two or three hours.
Therefore, our concept of time is the same, and the overage little sister or little brother is bound to succeed. So book friends, you remember that judging a person depends on whether he is overage. If he is at age, then he is basically an ordinary level, and his level will not change by leaps and bounds, because his rhythm is the rhythm of age. But if you find someone who is overage, you will immediately run over, immediately pounce on him, and become friends with him.
What is the last word? Waste age.
What is Waste Age? Do you have any people around you who are not too big but have the same mind as a child? Are there any people around you who are very old, but their style of doing things is still stuck in the school stage? Are there any people around you who look tough, but their age is completely inconsistent with their cognitive level and pattern?
Lu always had a driver, driving very well, he was a very shrewd driver among the drivers used by the old deer, but just one point made Lu always feel very unbearable - road rage!
As long as there is a situation in front of him, he will honk the horn frantically, and then the deer always said to him, saying, "You have to get rid of this problem, and you will honk the horn crazily when you see something, you yourself are not noisy, and it will also cause trouble to others." "Including sometimes, when someone else wants to overtake, he accidentally pinches him and merges with him, what is he doing? He had to go above people, he had to open up to other people, take down the window to look at people, he looked very fierce. Later, Mr. Lu saw that he couldn't get rid of this problem, so he fired him directly and replaced him with a little girl to drive for himself.
Fellow book friends, believe it or not, if a person is aged, everything is at age, and if a person is overage, anything can be done with age.
Therefore, you have to judge by any detail of a person whether he is aged, overaged, or dead aged. If the other party shows the characteristics of waste age at one point, then I assure you that he will still be the same in many things in the future.
Then I would like to ask all book friends, if you get along with this world in this way, then there will be very few troubles in your own world? There must be more peace and opportunities.
Because, through this way of judgment, I have screened all the people around me, so you know that if you don't layout, then the environment you are in is in a risk.
You can now think about whether there are people around you who are aged, overage, or aged?
Do you have some people in your head right now? Who is the age, and what do these people do at what age; Whoever is overaged, wow, he is more strategic than his average age peers; Who is a waste of age, but at his age he is doing something that is not his own.
Arrange your relationships in this way, and you will be shocked to find out why you know these people. From the waste-age group to meet friends who are about the same level as themselves, to meet a group of colleagues in the age group, and then to the over-age group to meet their nobles or good big brothers and sisters, this is the correct psychological growth law of a normal person.