When I go to work for the day, or when I get home from a party in the evening, no matter what my family says, I will definitely go to dinner.

Why? Affectionate bonds.

The support of your family always comes from how you maintain the bond, you don't feel that you are busy and don't go home, it's okay to be busy, everyone has their own career to be busy, but we can't go into a wrong pursuit.

What are many book lovers pursuing? The balance between career and family, just kidding, how can these two things be balanced?

Engaging in a career will definitely sacrifice the family, no one can balance it, Ren Zhengfei can't balance it, Ma Yun can't balance it, Liu Qiangdong can't balance it, they will all lose their time to go home, but at this time, we must make good use of the time of the bond.

So, when you come home from a day's work or a party in the evening, no matter what the family says, you must go to dinner.

Because this is the bond between you and your family, it is an important way to maintain family bonding. Don't overlook the importance of family because you are busy, because family affection cannot be measured by money.

Of course, it can be difficult to balance career and family. However, we can make up for lost family time with efficient companionship.

What is efficient companionship? Devote yourself wholeheartedly, do nothing, put your phone to the side, and have in-depth communication and interaction with your family, I tell you that this companionship is much stronger than the companionship without communication.

So, no matter how busy you are, remember to go home for dinner, because it is the bond between you and your family, and it is an important way for you to maintain your family bond. At the same time, it is also necessary to make good use of the time of bonding to carry out efficient companionship with family members and make family affection deeper.

Remember, if you want to do something, money is always secondary, the bond is important, and it is not easy to re-establish the bond when it is broken.

If the heart is dead, it really can't come back. You really have to go to daily maintenance, daily companionship, including book friends who are going to work in the morning, and a little sweeter when you leave, you can bring a different feeling of the day to your husband (or wife) and children.

"Husband (or wife), I'm going to work, I'm going to fight monsters, I wish me a triumphant return, and I'll make you good food for the night, okay, baby?" It's really a good big treasure for my mother, come and kiss my mother. Trojan, let's go, of course, if you have anything you want to eat, you can also report the menu now, maybe mom will give you a big surprise! ”

This is the way to make my family more and more warm, why are there many people my age who divorce not long after getting married? Many people will say that it is the fault of young people, what is wrong with young people, it is nothing more than not falling in love and not getting along in marriage, in fact, marriage is so simple, you have to understand your object, but also find a way to heal yourself, you can't let yourself lose your sense of existence in this family, and you can't make the object feel that you have lost fun, mystery, and surprise. Dear book friends, you have to set up a "treasure" role for yourself in the family, you are a treasure, your object is also, your children are even more, and a family of three must get along in a way that looks a little silly, so that it will be more harmonious.

Dear book friends, the maintenance of your family relationship is more important than the maintenance of your career relationship. You can quit your job at any time, after all, there are many choices in life, and you don't have to waste time in one position. But your family can't be separated, this is the object you find yourself, it is the child you and the object are coming, everything is earned by yourself, you can only release your temper outside, when you get home, you should be romantic, you should coax the child, even if you are tired and sour, that is your own life. The family will never turn its back on you, only "temper" and "disputes" will turn its back on you.

Family is the place that gives us the greatest support, so you book friends should continue to give feedback, sometimes my family and neighbors don't understand why I stay at home after work, and even think that I don't want to go out to socialize. My pattern is not something they can understand, hahaha, maintaining family ties is more important than what class I go to, especially now that I don't have a girlfriend and no children, I need to enjoy the opportunity to be with my parents. Once I have a family, my own children, and my career to the next level, I am afraid that it will be difficult for me to spend a long time with my parents.

You have to thank your husband or wife, because the other party is your benefactor, and it is the other party's contribution that makes this family better. I should thank the other party for bringing me a child, he/she is the crystallization of love, and it is a witness to marriage.

The bond of family is something you have to build by yourself, and you must work hard to build it well, and this bond must not come from your work, nor from your career, but from your daily life. In daily life, we should communicate and communicate with our family members more, and the dining table at home is the place where family members need to communicate the most.

Now the living room is wasted, and there are almost no TV series that the family likes to watch, so my dad likes to watch some anti-Japanese dramas, or spy war dramas or professional dramas ("Fearless", which was popular some time ago), I prefer more educational dramas like "Minglong Boy" or "Hurricane". Our family watches football games, that is, CBA, my dad likes Guo Allen and their Liaoning team, and then he likes the basketball team in Shandong, and he doesn't even like to watch the news. The rest of the time, after work or in our free time, the three of us just swiped our respective mobile phones, and basically did not communicate.

Only during mealtime, the three of them get together and talk about some things that they can encounter in each other's lives, and the parents will talk about buying vegetables and meeting Aunt Li next door, who bought cheap eggs or cheap vegetables. As for me, I'll talk about which employee in the company is more funny after completing work, which female employee is more silly when doing business, and which boss has been out and about. But I never talk about these intimate topics publicly, and my family can just listen to them, which is also a way to maintain family bonds.

Some people will find things in the family annoying, but this seems to me to be fireworks, which is the temperature of a family. Everyone speaks freely, says it, whoever you like to tease, you can't say it anymore when you leave this house, this is a small rule of my family, but it makes the family atmosphere better. Of course, my mother will also have some relatives who are not used to it, and if they want to accuse, then blame, and they should show a good face after leaving the house. This is the bond of the family, and it has to be done and maintained.