Why do some people like you and others hate you?

Life itself is a very interesting game, each of us wants to change the world by doing big things, and even wants to be a character in school textbooks, but the truth is that we may not be able to do many small things well.

I have a heart-wrenching message that I would like to share with all of you.

If you don't have any achievements now, it means that you have not done any small things in the past that are better than others. Because, in this world, even if you do one thing better than others, you will have extraordinary achievements.

I spent a lot of effort this year to buy a black snapping turtle that I liked, about six pounds, 50,000 yuan less, but this snapping turtle has a flaw. It's just that there is a notch in the tooth that is not good-looking, and the eating is not very beautiful, his original owner said that he brought it since he was a child, and I think it may be that its original owner tried something hard, so he broke the tooth. Maybe it grew up, and the amount of food it ate also increased, and its original owner put it up for sale on the Internet, I like snapping turtles, because snapping turtles are evil ghosts, and then fantasizing, it is to seal the soul of a heinous person.

Therefore, when its original owner put it up for sale online, no one bothered with him for the first two months, after all, most players who play turtles will not like a mutilated snapping turtle. I didn't like it at first sight, but fate is such a magical thing, the more I didn't like it, the more I paid attention to the whereabouts of the snapping turtle, and then someone made a bid to buy it, so I bid with another buyer, and finally set the price, and I got it.

After I bought it, I did see that it had a notched tooth, but this is a disadvantage for outsiders, but it is an advantage for me, and the snapping turtle can bring that money to my house. After all, if a snapping turtle doesn't open its mouth all the time, or doesn't have any way to send money, how can the money come to your house? Water is also the meaning of money, why? There is no water for fish and turtle farming in the company, and customers will feel that the company is very barren, and there is not even an animal to stir up troubled waters, so can you expect customers to make orders? From this point of view, it also confirmed my suspicion that its previous owner obtained my "ghost money", and I obtained a snapping turtle, which naturally turned the money on me.

Through this little thing, many turtle friends got to know me, thought I was stupid, and bought a notched turtle, but it was precisely because they all thought I was stupid that it brought me invisible sales traffic and helped the company earn a lot of orders for a few months. I exchanged a small 50,000 yuan for tens of thousands of times the income, do you think this is an extraordinary achievement? It was a very successful little thing, the snapping turtle reversed its own unfavorable environment in the countryside all day in the wind and sun, its original owner reversed the loss of the property that raised it, and I successfully reversed the benefits of the company without the blessing of traffic.

Through this incident, it also shows that stupid people are not necessarily really stupid, and elite people may not be really stupid. There are people who like you, and naturally there are people who hate you, but everything is the same, everyone is around the topic to join in the fun, and they invisibly join in the fun, but will help you, or even help you for a long time.

What is achievement? Good for the world, good for the people around you, that's what achievement.

As long as you contribute to this world, it is your achievement, and it has nothing to do with money. Doing good deeds is harder in itself than doing bad deeds, and doing bad deeds only requires reversing your thinking, and you are immediately a bad person.

Since you have decided to do something, the way you face difficulties is the way others like you, and I hope everyone can remember this.

Why do people like someone more and more, and why do people hate someone more and more? The essential reason is because of what you do.

We often ignore what the value of people is, the essence of people is the sum of all social relations, most people pay too much attention to things, most people pay too much attention to learning dry goods, and do not pay attention to who they learn from, do not pay attention to who is the teacher, and do not pay attention to who can bring future value to themselves.

If you want others to like you, one of the most important things is that you do things that are better than others. This means that you need to excel in a certain area or aspect and be able to outperform others. Whether it's at work, study, socializing or otherwise, as long as you can show your strengths and values, you will be able to attract the attention and recognition of others. However, that doesn't mean you need to be an all-rounder. Everyone has their own strengths and strengths, and as long as you excel in what you are good at, you will be able to earn the respect and affection of others. At the same time, you should also pay attention to your words and actions. A person's words and deeds can also affect others' impressions and evaluations of him. If you always show politeness, humility, sincerity, and kindness, then others will be more willing to associate with you and like you.

Fellow book lovers, remember that making others like you is not an easy thing to do and takes time and effort. But as long as you continue to work hard to improve yourself and show your value, you can win the recognition and love of others.