2023/12/20 Childishness will choose confrontation

The real naivety is the person who fights against the world all the time, and there are many interesting things in the adult world.

Since we are experiencing in society and in the big dye vat of rivers and lakes, then we have to accomplish one thing and look at others.

It doesn't matter whether you like this person or not, whether this person is good or bad, whether this person is worth associating with yourself or not, what matters is whether this person is useful or not.

Ladies and gentlemen, am I right? What do you care about him, and how can you like him? What if you don't like him? Is he worth your relationship, what can you do? He deserves your emotional investment, and you are all involved? He doesn't deserve your emotional investment, so you don't invest at all? What I'm writing is from my heart, and that's how my world looks at others.

People, it's not that you will die tomorrow, you book friends, we would rather live for ten more years than give ourselves more faith?

In the process of time change in the future, will useful people become useless people? Can useless people be transformed into useful people? What does it mean, this person is useful, he works in an insurance company, and he works hard to become friends, so that he can spend less money on insurance in the future; After a while, this person resigned from the insurance company, will you still treat him as a friend? Today, this person who is still a gangster in your eyes may mix up tomorrow, set up a company, become the chairman of the company, and get better and better in his career. Would you still make friends with such gangsters?

Therefore, what is useful will become useless, and what is useless will become useful, so can I say that as long as we don't die tomorrow, then all the people we meet so far are useful? I'm writing these things to you now, have you made a lot of your troubles disappear? Did it open up a lot of your grievances? Does it make you understand how you should get along with the world?

I tell you the truth that this world is so big, some people live on their own all their lives, and they live very hard and painfully; And some people live by the people they like, and they live very happily, but they are also very narrow-minded; Some people live by all the people in this world, and they live with pride and charm. Whether what I wrote is right or not, I don't need a book review, you book friends have a rod and scale in your heart, and you can tell it clearly, right?

Including, dear book friends, let me ask you another question, is there any kind of person who has invested all the true feelings in his life, but finally broke up? Release all the love of your life on one person, and in the end you will find that when the other party turns his head and leaves, he will not even say a word of thanks to you, and even you are already covered in bruises at this time, and you are still dead and dead.

Therefore, is it very naïve for people to deal with the world according to their own preferences?

If, fellow book friends, you have ever made such a mistake, then you should not be so naïve from now on. Does the world love you or hate you? It's up to you to decide!

A person's life is mostly random, and less is inevitable. Each of us should have a clear goal, and this goal is just two words, selfishness.

People should live a little selfishly, not so selflessly.

If you like someone, you love her well; If you hate someone, you take it very seriously.

There is a very annoying person around you, do you have such thoughts, "I hate him, ignore him; I hate her, so I don't talk to her; I hate them, and I don't look at them to-day; I hate them, and today they came to talk to me, and I didn't bother to talk to them. ”

Playing in a self-comforting winning state, every time I meet someone like this, I say to him, "Dude (or sister), can you be selfish?" Be kind to yourself, why are you so angry? What are you doing so seriously? So what's the competition? ”

I started my business very early, and I also told you that I met different people and encountered different things in society, and then I found out that some people said that I was selfish, and I found that selfishness can help me resist a lot of unnecessary troubles.

Why is it naïve to say that people who deal with the world according to their own preferences? Because there are only two people in this world who are his good friends, one is called Shadow and the other is his own personality, and only these two people are the people close to him that he trusts. The others were the ones she had to guard against, and the others were the ones he didn't want to work with.

Fellow book lovers who deal with the world according to their own preferences, are the logical thinking in their minds very sick? This kind of person has a poor heart and a poor soul, and I especially hope that there will be fewer such people, and I hope that everyone will not destroy themselves.

People must regard themselves as individuals, and believe that they can coexist in the same world with others. In this universe, we are all tiny beings, but our existence also has a unique meaning. We are not alone, we are inextricably linked to the world.

That's right, living a good life and earning money is what everyone wants to pursue. It is only by collaborating, learning, and progressing with others that we can succeed in this competitive society. We should face the people around us with a tolerant and tolerant attitude, not too egotistic and selfish, but learn to share, cooperate and support each other with others. Only in this way can we find our place in this world and realize our own value.

What I write is not suitable for the kind of people who keep to themselves, if they don't have momentum, they don't have momentum to do anything, and people who have momentum will go further than others in everything they do. The things I wrote are not suitable for those who are honest, people are honest and honest all their lives, and they have no quarrel with the world, so these life chicken soup or life philosophies I wrote are a kind of psychological torture for them.

Why? Because everything I write, there is a logic behind it, which is to teach you to be good. And people who want to break through their own circle and don't follow the rules may know what they really want when they see these words, and they will get different gains from me.

Some people think it's good to be bland, and some people think it's good to be lively, so the education we experience is different, which will lead to a wide variety of our thinking patterns.