If you know how to be a person, everyone around you is a noble person.

If you don't know how to be a man, and there are few nobles around you, then you have to learn to be a man first, and then go to find your own nobles.

The big brother in Shanghai shocked me in many things, in many details. He went to visit our company, and after leaving to get in the car, I noticed a small detail.

When his driver drove over, the rear window was rolled down, do you know why? Because, when the car door is closed, he can easily greet the person who sent him.

I learned so much about this kind of detail from him, and I told my driver that whenever I want to get in the car and leave, the rear window must be kept open, and you can roll it up when you get on the road. Since then, my driver has been like this, once the rear window didn't roll down, and I asked the driver, why don't you roll it down? He said, it's winter, and the boss rolls the back window, isn't it cold? As soon as I heard that it made sense, I added a rule that I would not roll the rear window in winter.

A few days ago, this eldest brother in Shanghai took me to meet a younger brother, and when I met this younger brother introduced by my eldest brother, I was ashamed of myself.

Why? Our cars, all of which were relatively wide, were parked at the door of the restaurant where we were eating. The driver's task is to keep an eye on their respective cars, don't let the car be scratched or whatever, drive the car over after a full meal, and the boss has to take the car back to the company or take the car home. I used to think that the driver was quite discerning, but now I think my driver is a bit second, because he can't compare with the driver of the other family.

As soon as I finished eating, the driver drove over. Later, when I saw that my brother's car hadn't come yet, the driver came running, and my driver was waiting for me in the car, and my brother's driver was next to my car, so he opened the door for me. Just such a simple action, are you convinced?

It's someone else's driver, always taking care of other bosses or customers, and at that moment, I suddenly felt that my driver had done at least two things wrong in this scene.

The first thing is to treat other bosses or customers, and he doesn't do the order of serving others first and then his own boss. The second thing is to drive the car over too early, it should be to let the eldest brother's driver drive the car first, then let the younger brother's driver drive the car over, and finally he will drive the car over.

If I really want to care about this order, maybe my driver did the third thing wrong, which is to wait at the door from the time he finished eating. After the two drivers' cars drove over, he went to open the door for the eldest brother and the younger brother.

Do you know what it means to have people outside of people and heaven outside of heaven? It's this feeling of crushing you from the details, including their own driver requirements are also very strict, and now I also teach my own driver, walking on the road always to follow the car in front of you, to maintain a gap that allows others to overtake.

First, do not put any pressure on pedestrians; Second, if someone wants to plug in the car, it must mean that they are in a hurry, and you must give the other party this opportunity, don't be irritable, and don't be road rage.

Now, there are very few people on the road who can do this. They will never let you get in the car, let alone overtake. It's good that you don't use the turn signal, but if you turn the signal, he has to step on the accelerator a little tighter than the car in front of him.

Therefore, this is a different level of cognition, and what I learned from this big brother in Shanghai is simply the most important knowledge to learn in school. Chinese, mathematics, English, chemistry, physics, all useless!

Why? Because once you step into the society, you will understand the knowledge taught to you in school, and the most you can use is language. You can hire translators for English, engineers for math, and even business business school people, who know how to run a company better than you do. Is it easy to be a boss? Simple. Is it hard to be a boss? It's also difficult, after all, you have to learn these details taught in society, and every step of life is something you have to learn. The boss may not be able to compare with his own employees in any profession, it doesn't matter, as long as you have money, and being rich means that you can let these social novices who graduated from prestigious universities serve you.