The more successful people are, the more they know how to respect others.

I do have a very good big brother, he went to Shanghai after he made a fortune in Shenzhen. Now he is a shareholder and actual controller of many listed companies, and I will tell you about his personality.

I can say that he is the most advanced interpersonal master of any older brother I have ever met, and he is very sincere, and he told me something that will affect my life.

He said that "respect is the most important thing over compassion and love".

Now, many people are pursuing what kind of charity, what kind of good deed, or everyone is pursuing beautiful love, but you know what? It's hard for him to be able to treat everyone around him with respect.

There will be an agreement between us that we will choose a place every month and chat for a night. Just sit there and talk, twelve times a year, and each time there will be my partner or some of my friends, or his family. Pan Dong also knew him, but Lu always didn't know, because she was a girl, I didn't worry about her coming to this kind of occasion.

Once, he started sending me small videos in the morning, from what he was going to do when he opened his eyes in the morning, he was going to buy groceries, he was going to make breakfast, he was going to wake up his children after breakfast, then he had dinner with his family, and after eating, he sent his two children to school, and then he drove to work by himself. I had just gotten in the car at that time, and I also sent a small video to him, saying, "Brother, I'm in the car, I'm rushing to your house, and I'm expected to arrive in the afternoon or tomorrow morning." "After he sees it, he will also send me a small video, and he is working on the file, which is expected to be processed at half past twelve at noon. Then, he told him where he was going to eat, who was at the dinner, he went home to sleep when he was full of food and drink, and at four o'clock in the afternoon, he woke up from bed to pick up the child and go home, and asked me again when he was ready for dinner. "Brother, where have you been? Got to Shanghai? In which district, I asked the driver Xiao Liu to pick you up, right? "It just so happened that when he sent this video, I was also in Shanghai, and then he sent a driver to pick me up and take me home for dinner. While waiting for the driver, I bought him milk, eight-treasure porridge, and tobacco and alcohol from the shop next to the airport.

The whole process of going to his house to eat was the eldest brother in the hot field, saying that he was welcoming the arrival of his younger brother, and he must eat and drink well today. After all, I came alone, but his family is not only a family of four, in addition to his two children, there are also his wife, father-in-law, sister-in-law and brother-in-law. In the process of eating, he can take care of everyone, then add noodles to us, put sweet noodle sauce and mix them all for you, and specially put a few spoons of vinegar in our noodles, saying that this vinegar is unique to Shanghai, very delicious, let us all taste it.

The next scene made me feel that I didn't have enough dimension as a human being. Halfway through eating, he found that his brother-in-law had finished eating, and served him another bowl, and the brother-in-law said that he was taking care of the children and had no time to eat for the time being. The eldest brother said it's okay, I'll mix it for you, and you must eat it when you're free, because this is a piece of my brother-in-law's heart.

Dear book friends, if you were this little brother-in-law, how would you feel in your heart? Including my partner and I, we often say that the best gift our big brother can give us is to teach us how to get along with the people around us. I have the impression that his house has been renovated at least five times, and I wanted to eat the first meal of the family with him, but my eldest brother was immediately unhappy.

He said, "Xiao Yu'er, you are not allowed to eat my first meal at home, and I will not allow outsiders to come to eat the first meal at home, my first meal at home has already been booked." "If ordinary people wilt when they hear this, people don't let you come to the house for the first meal, and there is also the meaning of the eviction order, even if you have a good relationship with the eldest brother, you can't continue to ask, right? But I was a faceless person, so I jokingly said to my eldest brother, "Brother, what big leader did you invite?" Mayor or Governor? How powerful is this man? The eldest brother shook his head very seriously and said, "No, but invite all the workers involved in the renovation of my house to come and eat the first meal in this house." When I heard this answer, I immediately knew that I was too small.

He's a very high moral standard, and you can learn a lot with him. My own friend, when he came to his house alone, could only stop in the living room, and was not allowed to enter the inner room. There is a singing room on the second floor of his house, and I took a friend over, and the phone accidentally slipped out of my pocket, and my friend would pound me and say, "Your phone is off", which is a friend's way of reminding, and my eldest brother will not remind you. He would just come over, pull out a piece of paper and wipe your phone, and then hand it to you, "Brother, wipe it clean for you, see if the parts are not broken." If you break it, tell me in time, and my brother will buy you a new one."

These are the details of how he behaves, and he has developed muscular habits. When we met once a month, we often went to a private club for dinner, and the security guard of that club always remembered the license plate number of my eldest brother. It's that his level of respect for security is jaw-dropping, and he is respectful of anyone. Dear book friends, let me ask you, if such a person appears in front of you, will you think that this person is deliberately lowering his figure?

I once asked my eldest brother, "Brother, let's be with other people, what if others misunderstand us for hypocrisy and flattery?" "Guess what the eldest brother answered?

If you only do this to people who are better than you, who are nobler than you, this is flattery. And if you do the same to those who are not as good as you, it is not hypocrisy or flattery.

He made it clear to you at once, and you have to treat others equally if you respect them. It's not that you have to go over to pat yourself when you meet a leader, you don't have to pat yourself when you meet someone who is not a leader, he treats anyone like this.

It is precisely because of the personality charm of the eldest brother that our monthly gathering is full of warmth and joy. In him, we see the embodiment of respect, sincerity and kindness, which also makes us deeply affected his life. His words and deeds tell us all the time how to be sincere, respectful and kind.

His story taught me the importance of respect. Respect for others is not only a way of dealing with interpersonal relationships, but also an attitude towards life. Only by respecting others can we earn the respect of others. And respect for others starts with respecting the people around you. The eldest brother maintains a deep respect for his family, friends, and even strangers, and this is where his personality comes in.

His story also taught me the importance of sincerity. Treating people with sincerity is a noble quality. The eldest brother is sincere to his friends, family, and even partners, and this is his way of life. His philosophy of life is to treat people sincerely, do things sincerely, and live sincerely.

His story also taught me the importance of kindness. Kindness is a virtue. The eldest brother maintains a kind heart for his family, friends, and even strangers, which is his principle of life. His belief in life is to be kind to others, to do things kindly, and to live kindly.

The story of my eldest brother made me understand that being a man is not only to pursue success, but also to pursue the perfection of personality. His way of life, his principles of life, and his belief in life are all examples for us to learn. His life is like a textbook, allowing us to see the true meaning of life.

Every time I get together with my eldest brother, it is a baptism of life. His words and deeds affect our lives all the time. His story makes us understand how to be sincere, respectful and kind as a human being. His story shows us the possibilities of life. His story makes us understand that only by respecting others can we win the respect of others; Only by treating others with sincerity can we win the sincerity of others; Only by being kind to others can we win the kindness of others.