Anything that can bring benefits to a person is always his own circle, not his ability.

I will teach you a big dry thing today, you go and think about it, is it at the beginning of 2015, as long as you are speculating in stocks, everyone around you makes money? Right?

At that time, the stock market was so crazy that as long as you opened an account, you could make money.

I told you that I didn't know what stocks were before, and then I watched my classmates around me make money, and I was only a sophomore in college at that time.

Wow, at that time, they had already finished learning their driver's license to drive, and watched their car change from Alto to Audi, Audi to Daben, Daben to Bentley, and Bentley to Rolls-Royce.

Can you understand how I felt at that time? Envy, jealousy and hatred, the reason is because it is too tempting. Seeing that the scale of my classmates' wealth continued to rise, one or two of them I didn't realize the seriousness of the problem, but most of them were like this, so I was pushed to play stocks with them. Even though I was studying accounting, I didn't know how to play at the time, I finally made a few thousand dollars by luck, and after following them into the stock market, I cut off almost 70 percent, and then after that year passed, I re-examined myself. Since that year, I haven't bought a penny of stocks, and I know that I can't make the same amount of money as my classmates on my own.

Dear book friends, let me ask you another question, have you noticed that after some people lose money, what they do is to try their best to borrow money and want to recover their losses, and let me tell you, what did I do? I only got my driver's license in 2018, and then after I got my driver's license from the DMV, I gave one of my accounts to a friend who can play stocks. So far, I haven't lost a penny.

Believe it or not, in fact, making money has nothing to do with your ability, not to mention what great ability or ability you have, do you know how complicated the world is? Do you know how many pits there are in this world? Do you know how many foolish people there are in this world? Did you know that some scammers will have more than 10,000 ways to harvest your money?

The reason why you can't make money on your own is because you may be working a path that is wrong enough. Do you believe that if you work this wrong path, you will become poorer and poorer, more indebted, and more strenuous and dull? In the end, you originally wanted to go out to make money, but you came home and lost all your clothes.

So how do you gain the ability to control money? Is it the same as making money? But I would like to ask another question, have you noticed that many people don't care about how they get this ability, most people are concerned about how to make money now? With such a mentality, isn't it a leek? From now on, if you have such a mentality, every step you take will be harvested.

You don't have any ability yourself, your own knowledge is not enough, you don't have any capital, you are timid, you don't have so many powerful big brothers, and your own family background is not strong. Then at this time, if you try your best, do you believe that you will get worse and worse?

If you don't have the strength, ability, money, support from your big brother, or a strong background, then you can only do one thing at this time, which is to make more friends. Make useful friends, make friends who can help you get out of the lower circles, and make friends who are sincere for sincere. Whether it's an adult, a child (a younger brother or sister who is over 18 years old and younger than you), a poor, a noble, a rich, a woman, or an old man, you make friends with them.

If you have more friends, you will naturally have good fortune. Do you believe that if you have a lot of friends, maybe one day you say a word, and they will listen to it as a real thing? Do you believe that you have a lot of friends, you don't have to work hard at all, you can gradually get better with the help of your friends?

It is precisely because the world is full of complexity and uncertainty that it is more important for us to constantly improve our capabilities and expand our horizons so that we can cope with all kinds of situations. Making friends is indeed a very important part of the process, and they can provide you with support, resources, and opportunities. However, it is also unrealistic to expect to gain wealth just by making friends. In this competitive and challenging society, we need to find our own positioning and advantages, and continue to learn and grow in order to stand out in the fierce competition.

So, how do you find your way in this complex world and gain the ability to harness money?

First, you need to be clear about your goals and expectations. Based on this, make a realistic plan and then put it into action. You need to be patient and persevering in this process, as success is often not achieved overnight. At the same time, you should also constantly reflect and summarize, and draw nutrients from your own experience and lessons, so as to be more relaxed on the road ahead. Second, learn how to manage your money. Wealth management is not only about investing in financial products such as stocks and funds, but also about learning to reasonably arrange your income and expenditure, so that your wealth will continue to increase. In this process, you need to understand various financial management tools and methods, and master the ability to control risks, so as to achieve steady growth of wealth while ensuring your quality of life.

I want to emphasize that making money is not all there is to life. In the pursuit of wealth, we should also pay attention to our physical and mental health, family happiness, and personal growth. Only in this way can you go further and further on the road of life and truly realize the freedom of wealth. In this uncertain world, we must learn to constantly improve ourselves, be good at making friends, manage money wisely, and pay attention to our quality of life.