The hardest thing for everyone is not to make money, but to see wealth.

Ladies and gentlemen, do you know how many people in this world can't see wealth at all? Do you know how many people have missed "hundreds of millions" in vain?

I have a classmate from the same school and different classes, because we lived in the dormitory opposite each other in college, so we often walked around together, so he had a very good relationship with me, and his father was the president of Weifang Bank. I don't know, anyway, this guy has intentionally or unintentionally revealed his father's identity. He helped me when he was in school, and then he has not been doing well lately, and I am not exaggerating to tell you that I spent six hours persuading him. And I can also tell my book friend that he can play finance, I actually didn't know anything when I was in school.

I told him, "Brother, I don't brag to you, I'm going to find an investment of 100 million, and I haven't bothered so much on you." In front of you, I feel like I'm on a roadshow with a top VC. ”

I spent six hours convincing him, but he didn't come, and the reason he gave me was, "Brother Qu, I don't understand what you're doing." I don't understand, and I won't, I'm afraid that I won't be able to do well by your side, and in the end I won't even have to be a friend. ”

Book friends, you can help me analyze, is his answer correct? Is his logic right? Is his mindset right?

He and I were college classmates, our classrooms were separated by a wall, and we were alumni of the same year.

After he graduated, he didn't study our major, computerized accounting. Instead, he asked his father for more than 500,000 yuan to start a business, he played a profession in the game industry, and he told me again, I don't even remember, what game design or what game planning. This guy is even better than Pan Dong in terms of playing finance, and he doesn't go to business school at all, so he can use the same set in business school in different industries. I think he is a top brain genius, but because he failed to start a business, he didn't do market research in advance, and there was no big boss in the game industry to guide him, so he miscalculated the general trend of the game industry, which led to a big detour, and more than 500,000 yuan was finally spent on the construction of the company. In the past few years, he has become more and more decadent, and even the little girlfriend he dated in college has been divided.

His personality is like this, whenever a friend pulls him to do something else, or wants to help him, he will find all kinds of excuses. Saying that he can't understand, can't understand, can't, worried that he can't do well, and worried that his friends will dislike him for being stupid. Ladies and gentlemen, if you think the same way as him, it is 100% wrong.

Because, what I value is not whether a person will or not, but whether you are of use to me.

Maybe book lovers will think that it is too hurtful for me to say that I have a fancy about whether a person is useful.

Then I ask all book friends, what is a friend?

You are worthless, will others be friends with you?

You don't have any emotional value, will you win the favor of the opposite sex?

If you are an otaku who loves to play games, do you have friends who will spend a lot of time with you?

There will definitely be a player who raises the bar and says, "I don't have friends, I can also play games, be a voice actor, and sell goods through live broadcasts."

The bar-raiser who said this, have you really done all three aspects to the extreme? What level have you reached in the game? How much money do you make as a voice actor? How many people come to your live broadcast room?

Then, looking back and analyzing it, I fancy whether my friends are useful, not ability, not experience, but not many people in this world who can be trusted. The fact that I can trust my friends is the greatest value in the world.

If you meet a master, you meet a person who can do things, you don't know anything, he can teach you.

In this world, there is nothing you are born with. You were born without the teaching of your parents, can you speak? Were you born to walk and run?

As long as you want to learn, as long as you dare to do it, there is nothing in this world that you can't learn. So don't talk about what will and won't.

Don't be afraid that you can't do it well, there is nothing bad to do in this world, only things that you don't have to do. Everything that can be done well is because of care. And if you put your mind to it, even if you have to make a hundred mistakes in the process, you will do it well.

I've always emphasized that the most important thing in this life is not your ability at all, but your guts. How bold you are and how productive you are, this should be familiar to everyone, right?

Including some people will say that those cattle people will become cattle people because of who their father is, who their mother is, and who their relatives are. I tell you book friends that it is also a kind of courage to be able to rely on others. Not to mention, some people obviously have very good relatives, but they don't know how to use them to achieve their own things.

There are more cattle with rich fathers, and there are more cattle people with rich mothers, but only they can achieve things, and these rich and powerful fathers, mothers or relatives are their own assistants, and the people who fight the world must be yourself after all. If you don't see this problem thoroughly, when they are all buried in a hundred years, who else can you rely on? Who can really help you?

I have never denied that I am a second-generation official, but I have never relied on my father's power, and I have used all the people in his circle. Or he worships his brother's son, or he worships his brother's daughter, or he is the brother or sister of his own relatives, or his brother, or his brother, or his sister. Pan Dong and Lu are always exceptions, but they are also exceptions, but I will not have any scruples, because they are not my relatives, so I can say a lot to them.

If you have the heart to get to know the cowman, then you can also make friends around him. If you want to be a cow yourself, then these relatives around you can also be used.

If you don't want the help of these relatives, then they have nothing to do with you in their lives. If you are a coward at heart, like me, a classmate in the same school and different classes, then everything you do is meaningless and is a waste of your own time.

Have you ever noticed that many people are poor, but because they read a lot, they are poor, even a little proud?

If you don't want to be like that, then your cognitive boundaries have to be opened.

To open up the cognitive boundary, we must first face up to our own shortcomings, learn and try bravely. Don't be afraid of failure, and don't worry that others will look down on you. Only by daring to challenge yourself can you continue to improve yourself. Secondly, learn to make use of the resources around you, whether it is friends or relatives, they may be a good help on your growth path. You have to know how to discover their value and be good at turning them into your own resources. Also, be grateful. When you get help from others as you grow, don't forget to give back and pass on that kindness. In interpersonal communication, people who know how to be grateful are often more likely to gain the respect and trust of others. In the same way, learn to respect others, respect their views and choices, and not reject others because of your own biases.

Book friends, we must understand that life is a process of continuous growth. In this process, we will encounter many difficulties and challenges, but as long as we have the confidence and courage to face them, we will definitely be able to overcome these difficulties. Don't be afraid to fail, because failure is the mother of success. Only by experiencing failure can we better understand ourselves and grow better. Another point is to have team spirit. In this society, no one can succeed alone. We need to work with others and learn to share the results with others so that we can go further. Know how to respect every member of your team and cherish the time you spend working with them. Only in this way can a strong team be formed, and we can face challenges and achieve success together.

Be brave to pursue your dreams, no matter what kind of situation you are currently in, you should not give up hope.

As long as you have faith, as long as you dare to pursue, you will be able to achieve your dreams. Don't be defeated by reality, believe in your own strength, and believe in your ability to change your fate.

Book friends, let us work together, bravely face the challenges of life, constantly improve ourselves, and realize our own life value. As long as we persevere, we will be able to create our own brilliance. Let's work together for a better tomorrow!