If, if you want to buy a house and a car, you need more than 500,000 yuan, you know it in your heart, let's not mention banks, credit cards, or parents, just people.

Speaking of friends, how many people are sure that they can lend you 500,000 without talking nonsense? The money from your parents is not lent to you, but simply given to you. Because, each of us pays back our parents' money, and it will never be clean.

How many people can borrow 500,000 from you in your mind now, does it mean that you are worth the 500,000 in their hearts? Does it mean that you are worth? Do you have that worth?

It doesn't matter if you are in your twenties, or in your thirties, or how old you are, if you don't even have such a person around you who doesn't talk nonsense and directly lends you 500,000 yuan, then I ask you book friends, did you fail socially in the past?

Does this sentence pierce the heart? My purpose is not to pierce the hearts of all book friends, but to let all the book friends who read this chapter of mine wake up from unrealistic dreams, have you not seriously thought about such a question in the past?

Some people will feel that it is because of their low starting point that there are no such friends around them; Some people may even say that I am in a certain profession, and I am surrounded by colleagues in this profession, so I don't have such friends.

Then I ask all the book friends, you all go to work, so do you have a boss? Did you go to school? There are teachers, right? Your teacher must have taught a promising student, can you believe it? If you have a very good relationship with your teacher, if you have a strong personality, then your teacher will recommend you to these people, okay? Do you have classmates? Your classmates have parents, right? Can these people be your cornerstone?

There will definitely be book friends who raise the bar and say, why should people help you?

Friends, you remember, the essential reason why no one helps you is that you are too proud, and I slapped you in the face with reality. Ladies and gentlemen, take a basin on the side of the road, and the beggar who kneels there and kowtows earns more money than you, believe it or not?

It's as simple as that, do you know how many people in the big city beg for food, only to go back to their village to build a new house? Do you know how many people pretend to be pathetic in the big city, and then come home and be the envy of others? Everyone is too embarrassed, mixing in the rivers and lakes or walking in society, face and face are just a pile of fat meat, these two things are the biggest obstacles in your life.

If you want to save face, why should people help you? A sincere person, a valuable person, a person who is willing to put in the effort for it, a loyal person, then why don't others help you? I am writing from my heart, and I tell you that I used to be a very proud person, and I was also very selfish, and I was unwilling to share some of the values I had with others.

When reality rubbed me on the floor, I understood that the reason why I was so miserable was because I was so face-saving and face-saving that no one could look down on me, and everyone thought it was a shark's arm. Later, I was shameless, I scolded whoever was unhappy, and I wrote him to death in a novel when I saw whoever pretended to be compared, and I had peach blossom luck, money, and a certain social status.

If book lovers are not determined to change their stinky problem of saving face and face, then you deserve no one to help you!

When you don't change your face, then when you get married and have children, when there are sick people at home, when your parents need you, when you want to change houses at home, when you want to change cars at home, when your children see that all their classmates use better things than him, and all parents in the school are better than you. Then I'll tell you, I'm sorry, I can only give you two words - you deserve it.

I've told you many times that what I write can't be understood by the weak. If you offend the fragile little hearts of your book friends, then I'm sorry, I'm so strong, and my values are strong thinking.

Have you ever had a situation where your classmates, colleagues or leaders are particularly well mixed up, and they ask you out for dinner tonight, and you are still embarrassed to go? You have a thin face, you are afraid of being embarrassed, is there a time like this? You may even think, didn't he just want to show off his wealth when he asked you out for a party today? Do you still think that he didn't just ask you out tonight, didn't he just want to show off that he had money?

This is the kind of person, but you know there is another kind of person, who will take tonight as an opportunity to grasp, and then take the initiative to show favor to others, to show his value to others, to show his peacock feathers, and then to look for a development opportunity.

Therefore, people are different from each other in terms of brains, and the core is also different. If there's a problem with your core, it means there's something wrong with your pocket. If something goes wrong with your pocket, there's something wrong with your brain.

If there is nothing wrong with your head, there will be no problems in your pockets, do you know how many little brothers and sisters I have seen who have stepped into society from self-pity, self-pity to inferiority? But they just don't improve themselves.

Poverty is a mental illness, a great mental illness, and if this disease is not treated, it is useless to learn any profession.

Then again, if you have a friend like this who can lend you money without saying a word, congratulations, you're halfway through your life.

But don't be discouraged if you don't have such friends. Because, everyone has their own growth trajectory and life path. Sometimes, we need to learn to fight for and create opportunities on our own. In life, we will always meet all kinds of people, some will become our friends, and some will become our partners. Whether it's friends or partners, they all play an important role in our lives. But what we need to understand is that these relationships are not static, and we need to maintain and manage them constantly.

In the process of interacting with people, we need to learn to listen and respect others. It's only when we truly understand the needs and ideas of others that we can better connect with them. At the same time, we also need to learn to express our thoughts and needs so that others can understand our value. Opportunities in life are very important, sometimes we need to learn to seize them, and sometimes we need to work hard to create them. Only when we continue to strive to improve our ability and value can we better grasp the opportunity to realize our dreams.

The road of life is long and challenging, and we need to learn to strive for and create opportunities on our own, as well as to connect well with others. Only in this way can we go further and more steadily on the road of life.