2023/12/24 The big husband must be able to bend and stretch
I used to work in a small company, and then there was a leader of an adjacent department, in order to suppress me, he scolded me every day, talked about me every day, said that I did a bad job, said that I was not diligent enough to call, and had to do the plan of making materials again.
I tell you that this is the work situation I face every day, as long as the company has a meeting together, the leader of our adjacent department, he is embarrassed to say that my direct boss, he will turn around and talk about me.
Because, that kid's level is higher than mine, and all of them talk about me at the table of the company meeting, every time he refers to Sang and scolds Huai, and suppresses me for several months. At that time, I gave our office a playful name - "Social White Scolding Room".
I really can't do it, it's all wrong, and you know what's the scariest thing? Later, my immediate boss actually helped him talk about me.
Ordinary young people, who have been scolded for so long, have to fight with others if they are not depressed, just change departments or companies. I'm sorry, in my mind, this is cowardice, this is not guts at all, do you agree with it?
Suddenly, one day I was in the office, and I grabbed a doll and won a SpongeBob SquarePants doll, and the leader's surname was Wang, who was a few years older than me. When he passed by my desk, he said, "Hey, this doll is so cute," and I immediately understood and sent him the doll. The next day, I grabbed another doll and sent it to him. He's such a bearish person, and even has a girlfriend who works in this company. Then, I said to him, "Manager Wang, the doll is not sent to a single one, don't you like dolls?" This doll will be given to you, and when it is approaching, you don't have to pay for the doll anymore. ”
In the past, I never dealt with him, and I don't even know how many times I scolded him behind my back. Later, at noon, I watched him and his girlfriend eating in a small restaurant downstairs, I took my own food and sat in front of them, and everyone in our department knew what kind of grudge I had with him, and they didn't understand what I was doing.
I said, "Hey, Manager Wang, Sister Yang, let's eat together." Then, he may have been afraid that it was not a company here, so it was a matter of face, so he asked me to sit down and eat together. And the people in our department, who don't know what I'm holding back, don't pay attention to me, they eat together. At that time, I was a grandson, and I made a bowl of soup for each of them, so that they could not patronize the meal, but also drink the soup to moisten the food.
After this dinner, when the meeting was held again, this manager Wang never approved me again, and after that, my department boss was fired, and the two departments were merged. Because my department boss was found by the company to have his own illegal crimes. In this process, many young men in our department are behind the scenes, "Cowardly, right? Hello to others, right? Did you go to a sycophant with Manager Wang? "On the day of the merger, I became his assistant directly from the salesman, and everyone in our original department was under my control.
It's something I've experienced in the workplace, so you know what? Difficulties are your benefactors, enemies are your teachers, and the husband must be able to bend and stretch, don't think that others will scold you twice and punch you to fight back.
Ladies and gentlemen, remember that these things that I have encountered since I was a child are enough for me to write this novel.
When I don't have enough strength to make the other party unable to do it, I don't make a move, and all the expressions the other party sees are my smiling face.
I've never taught you book friends to do bad things, so book friends with this wrong idea should face the wall by themselves. I'm just telling you book friends, all the people you meet in your life are here to help you, especially the bad guys who suppress you.
If you encounter enough bad things, then you will grow up fast enough, and everyone who stands on the opposite side of you is here to teach you how to work steadily in the workplace, and he is your teacher.
If you can really turn this "bad guy" into your guru mentality, then your life will go more and more smoothly.
Because, you will understand more and more that there are no bad people in this world, only those who teach you.