2023/12/26 Take the interests of the other party as the starting point

At all times, you have to act in the interests of the other person so that you can last a long time.

This is what my idol said to me, why do you say that?

Because, you will always gain the trust of others, and this is the most precious thing in this world.

If you think from someone else's point of view, you will have to work very hard in the early stage, but you can rest assured that when you get the trust of others, then you will involuntarily succeed, involuntarily be promoted, involuntarily obtain resources, involuntarily obtain wealth.

Therefore, thinking from the perspective of other people's interests, many businessmen will interpret this sentence from different angles, but when my idol interprets this sentence with me, I am most deeply touched.

One has to get these things as you get older, not lose them as you get older.

Because, you take money too seriously, and you lose things as you get older. Why? If you value money, then you will lose friendship, and even love and affection.

Of course, we're not saying that money isn't important, and we're not treating money like dung. That's not the right value, it's the real value of happiness.

Many of these friends around me are small career successes, and they are executives or entrepreneurs of a company worth about tens of millions. Then, they start gambling, women, stimulation. In the end, he abolished himself. Therefore, you will find that he may have lost the motivation to make money, and what he got was gained, but he gained power, not real wealth.

When you have power, you can magnify everything infinitely, I have been losing money for many years in business, starting a business is not an easy task, and then I have been losing money and going into debt, and finally I really have no strength, and at that time I will even choose to work for others, find a company to earn a thousand dollars a month. I've thought about it, and I'm like this in my life, but there is one thing that gives me the power to rise, and that is Shuangwen. Shuangwen has become a kind of existence on the bad street, every website is the main Shuangwen, and most of the lists are Shuangwen. I know that Shuangwen makes money quickly through this channel, but I also know that dog meat is something that can't be put on the table after all, and Shuangwen will be rectified one day, so I have to write a book for the rise of China!

That's the goal I've set for myself, and that's what I've always believed. I understood that I could only see farther by standing at a higher angle, and then I began to work hard and start moving towards my goal. Keep writing, keep trying, keep pushing yourself. I knew that only by working hard could I keep improving, and my work began to be popular with readers, and my reputation began to spread. However, instead of being complacent, I wrote harder. I know that my goal is not only to write every book, but also to write meaningful and valuable work, and to make my work have an impact on society.

A person must have a goal, a belief, and a pursuit. Only in this way can we continue to move forward and break through ourselves. I believe in my own abilities, I believe in my dreams, and I believe that I will be able to achieve this great goal. I am a person with pursuits, a person with dreams, and a person with faith.

The reason for this is that because I have greater ambitions than ordinary people, I found the strength of the newborn calf who is not afraid of tigers, and then I began to continue to start a business, and then until I turned over, I was grateful for that moment full of ambition, which gave me the strength in my heart. Later, the process also made me more aware that ability really doesn't matter at all, if your mental strength is strong enough, then your ability will be stronger. If you don't have that kind of ambition in your heart, even if you have earth-shattering talent, you won't need it in vain, and this is something that everyone loses.

In this world, if you can put yourself in the shoes of others and consider the interests of others, then you will gain the trust and respect of others. This trust and respect is a valuable asset that will enable you to go further and more steadily in life.

In my opinion, the key to success lies in how you approach relationships. If you can take the other person's interests as a starting point and understand the other person's needs and ideas, then you will gain the approval and favor of others. This recognition and goodwill is the foundation of good interpersonal relationships, which can make you more successful in your career and life. However, it is not easy to put yourself in someone else's shoes. Because everyone has their own values and lifestyles, and sometimes those values and lifestyles are different from ours. At this time, we need to let go of our own preconceived notions and try to understand the other person's perspective and position, so that we can better handle interpersonal relationships.

In addition to this, we need to take a long-term view. On the road of life, we should not only see the immediate benefits, but should take a long-term view and consider the future development. Only with a long-term vision can we better chart our own life path and create a better future for ourselves and our families.

I firmly believe that if you can be honest with others and understand their needs and ideas, then you will be able to gain the trust and respect of others.

This trust and respect is the foundation of good relationships and one of the key factors for success.

Therefore, I will continue to act in the interests of the other person and strive to be a better person.