When you slowly get better, there will definitely be so many kinds of people around you.

One is the person who borrows money from you. These people may seem friendly, they may have met in some social situation, they may be friends of your relatives or friends. They may make a good impression on you and make you feel that they are trustworthy. However, once you lend them money, they may stop contacting you or repeatedly delay repayment. Some even disappear so much that you can't recover your loan.

The other is someone who takes advantage of you. These people may take advantage of you in various ways, such as borrowing your belongings, asking you to treat you to dinner, asking you to help with things, etc. They may explain their actions for a variety of reasons, such as "it's too late, I'll give it back to you tomorrow", "I'm just kidding", "I'm too busy to do this", etc. These behaviors may make you feel uncomfortable, but you can't say no to them.

The last type is the one who lied to you. These people may defraud you of your money or personal information in various ways, such as impersonating bank customer service, impersonating public security officers, impersonating relatives, etc. They may use your curiosity or fear to trick you into falling for it. If you are accidentally scammed, not only will you lose your belongings, but your mood will also be greatly affected.

These people may make you feel disappointed and frustrated, but you have to understand that it is not your own problem, but that you have not perfected your mental construction.

You need to learn to protect yourself, don't trust others easily, don't borrow money or invite guests to dinner, and don't divulge personal information. At the same time, you also need to learn to say no to others, not to let them take advantage of you or cheat you out of your money.

As long as you can remain vigilant and cautious, and constantly improve your mental construction, you will definitely avoid being deceived or taken advantage of. At the same time, you will also meet more trustworthy people and build healthier and more stable relationships.

I don't think it's terrible to owe money, it's the most terrible thing to owe money, but do you book friends know?

In this kind of thing of borrowing money, being taken advantage of, and being cheated, I lost a lot of money, and then I asked my eldest brother, "You have donated more than 10 billion yuan to charity, how many people can be grateful to you?" ”

He smiled and said, "No, the beneficiaries don't remember our kindness. Some people, even after being grateful, will meet us again and will loudly express their dissatisfaction with us in front of others. Because, we didn't meet their requirements, or we didn't do things according to their expectations. They don't understand our hardships and difficulties, they just take everything we do for them for granted. ”

After listening to my eldest brother's words, I suddenly became enlightened.

It turns out that not everyone will appreciate our help, and not everyone can be trusted.

Only those who truly understand us, respect us, and care for us are worthy of our trust and help.

So, when we get better, don't rush to help others. Instead, you must first learn to protect yourself and avoid being deceived or taken advantage of. At the same time, we must also learn to distinguish between right and wrong, and be clear about our values and outlook on life.

Only in this way can we better handle interpersonal relationships and better create a better life for ourselves and our families.