It's better to have a fight with a smart person than to talk to a foolish person.

You may get hurt in a fight with smart people, but at least you can learn something, understand the crux of the problem, and see the truth of the matter.

When talking to confused people, not only will you not get any valuable information, but you may also be led astray by them, or even fall into endless quarrels and misunderstandings.

Smart people can make you see the complexity and diversity of the world, while foolish people will only make you feel like the world is chaotic. Therefore, it is better to fight with smart people than to say a word to foolish people.

Dear book friends, let me tell you that when I sat at the dinner table in the past, I would think whether the person opposite was worth serving the food by myself, and whether the person opposite was worth it for me to add tea to him. When I was thinking about these two questions, I was calculating for others, whether this person could help me, and whether this person would be convenient for me next time?

Ladies and gentlemen, if you count it with me, what is it? Ignorant.

Why ignorance?

Recently, a few friends from Laizhou suddenly came to my office, and I gave them a stern lesson.

This brother didn't do well in his career, but he ran up to me and started to help me clean up. Either they came to ask for my opinion, and then they started counting the people around them one by one, how this person might be, how that person might be, from beginning to end, and then I asked them a question.

"How's your company doing?"

They said, "No," and I asked, "What about your career now?" They said, "It's not good," and I continued, "What are you doing here?" They said, "Count." I then asked, "Didn't you count it before?" They said, "Forget it." I continued, "What was the previous calculation?" They said, "Every step is counted," and I continued, "Since you have counted everything, why are you still doing this?" ”

What is the reason? Isn't it ignorant?

Friends, you remember, no one knows what will happen to you next, and no one knows who will be around you to help you.

So since we're not sure, what are we going to do? Don't forget it, as long as there is a person around, as long as he can breathe, as long as he can speak, we will help him. And let me tell you book friends, we have a saying that if you have the intention to plant flowers and flowers, you will not bloom, and you will not have the intention to plant willows and willows.

Let me ask you, what does this mean?

The meaning of this sentence is that as long as you count, that action is called planting flowers. You don't count, do you? It's called unintentional willow insertion.

I tell you book friends that you can't tell who is with whom, so don't count it, and be good to everyone around you.

Therefore, life is like a spiritual practice, we have to constantly deal with all kinds of people, and keep learning and growing. Smart people can make us see the complexity and diversity of the world, while foolish people can give us a deeper understanding of the complexity of human nature and society.

Whether it's smart people or foolish people, we have to respect them, understand them, and learn from them. Because in this world, everyone has the value and meaning of their existence.

I tell you book friends, what you really want to do, what you really want to do to change yourself, what you really want to keep moving forward is to help others, to achieve others, to make others proud and proud of your existence.

Don't calculate, don't guess, don't speculate. Because in this world, the rarest thing is this sincerity and kindness. As long as you treat others with your heart, do things with your heart, and achieve yourself with your heart, then your life will definitely become more beautiful and fulfilling. Therefore, I tell all book friends, don't worry about foolish people, don't argue with foolish people. Because their lives have been confined to their own ignorance and narrowness, and our lives still have infinite possibilities and hopes.

We must pursue a higher realm, to realize greater dreams, to create a better future. Because in this world, nothing can stop us from moving forward, as long as we have dreams in our hearts and move forward bravely, we will definitely be able to go to the other side of success.