You don't sift through the fast money and the slow money is missing out on a great opportunity.

Fast money is only a temporary way out, slow money is a reliable way out.

I have a relatively familiar relationship with Fa Xiao, he is a lawyer, he has a big brother who is the leader of the real estate industry, the real estate of the Jinri series is done by his eldest brother, and he is the general manager of a project in Jinri.

Once, he did an errand for his eldest brother, and the matter was solved smoothly, and then his eldest brother gave him 50,000 yuan. Because, after he did this, he refused the money, thinking that it was the righteousness between his buddies, and he didn't want his eldest brother to think that he was greedy for his money.

I said that you should accept this money, he asked me why, I said that this money represents your value, provides professional lawyer services, and you two are buddies, this time you don't take money, next time he may not look for you, but will go to the paying lawyer. Because, if you have no value, no one will use you again.

Book friends also remember that professional talents must not work in vain, as long as you are a professional person, you must collect money, but the next step is very delicate.

If I were a small man, not only would I have to collect 50,000 yuan, but I would also have to fill in 10,000 yuan or bring a watch for him in the next step.

Why?

First of all, you can't block the way of the eldest brother, and don't let him feel that the money is just "paid for the services you provided to him", the major you have learned is indeed valuable, but there is no follow-up action to make him feel that the money is spent. Moreover, when collecting money, you have to say that your real value is not 50,000, but 100,000 or 200,000.

Because, your profession is worth this money, you can't do without this money, this kind of thing is not in vain, what is the profession of a lawyer? It's just to solve the problem.

If he asks you to do a small thing, such as getting a courier, making a tea, or sending your wife or children, then you will also help, and you will help people. But when it comes to things that require your major, then you have to collect money.

Later, I will follow the novel, you have to find an opportunity to tell your eldest brother, how much your service is worth, because you have missed the first opportunity to collect money, the latter sentence can be said. Then, he really said this to the eldest brother, the eldest brother wanted to give him 100,000, I said let Fa Xiao accept it, what will he do after accepting it?

After accepting it, he wanted to help his eldest brother make something worth 100,000 yuan, so he spent 100,000 yuan to go to the gold store to buy a large gold "Arowana" ornament and gave it to his eldest brother. I said that you must put the ticket in the box, he didn't know what this operation was, and asked me, "Lao Qu, if you put the ticket in, then the big brother doesn't know how much this ornament is worth?" ”

I smiled and said, "You don't want to be good, how much does this ornament cost, you have to let him know, spend a small amount of money to take away the small ticket, spend a lot of money to put the small ticket in, and finally leave his house, you must add a sentence, big brother, if you don't like that style, I don't understand these, I just put the small ticket into the box, you can go to the gold store to replace it, what other styles, you can also return." He told me, "This kind of gold is just that, there is no way to return it", I smiled again, and replied to him, "You are really Biao, you have to be in front of your eldest brother, pretend that you have a better gold piece, right?" ”

I tell you book friends that the smartest thing for Chinese is to hide, not to brighten.

No one asks about the poor in the city, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains, this sentence is not unfamiliar to everyone, right?

What does it mean to be "rich in the mountains with distant relatives"? This person is rich, and if he lives in the deep mountains and old forests, he will have distant relatives to visit him.

So what is "no one asks about poor living in the city"? You're poor, you live in the city center, you live in the mall and no one cares about you.

Got it? There are many things that you can't see, but you can't help but do them, and many things are deliberately made to be seen and deliberately made invisible to people who are higher than your level of thinking.