Active growth is the stupidest method in the world, and active growth is the biggest obstacle you set for yourself on the road to growth.

Why?

Do you think you have perseverance in everything you do? Do you think you can persevere in everything you do?

I'm sorry, people themselves have the characteristics of seeing different things, and people are not willing to develop all kinds of habits, people don't want to face themselves, people just choose to escape, but why can people still do things at this time?

In fact, it is not people who can do things, but things themselves that can make people. The thing itself is pushing people forward, so people are passive, people are moving forward.

Active growth is the biggest obstacle you set for yourself. Because, active growth means that you have to take the initiative to face yourself, you have to take the initiative to develop various habits, you have to take the initiative to change yourself, you have to take the initiative to meet challenges, you have to take the initiative to solve problems. And you don't want to do it, you don't want to do it, you run away, you procrastinate, you lose patience with yourself.

You want to push the problem to tomorrow, but tomorrow has tomorrow's problem. You want to blame the problem for the day after tomorrow, but the day after tomorrow also has the problem of the day after tomorrow. You want to blame someone else for the problem, but they don't like you at all.

The problem itself is stronger than you. The question itself is a reflection of yourself.

Only you can face the problem, only you can solve the problem, only you can accept the problem, only you can embrace the problem. Only you can turn problems into your own growth point, only you can turn problems into your own breakthrough point, and only you can turn problems into your own turning point. Only you can turn the problem into your starting point, and only you can turn the problem into your own end. Only then can we grow up from the problem, break through, and turn around.

Those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black, isn't it what kind of environment they put themselves in, and what kind of person they will become? Isn't this passive growth?

So what is active growth? I want to learn, I want to change, that's active growth.

Then I would like to ask you a question, you want to learn every day, you want to change every day, and you want to transform your future life every day.

You originally thought that you could transform into a social elite, but you live under the same roof every day with a group of depressed overtime workers, can you become a social elite?

You want to become a high-end talent in this society every day, but you only think so in the process of learning, but when you are idle, you still have to chat, live, and eat with these depressed overtime workers, will you become the high-end talent you want?

Are you kidding? No way.

Therefore, the matter of learning to changing is itself against human nature, and you must not do anything that goes against your own human nature.

When you do something that goes against your own humanity, you naturally choose to fail.

People are the product of the environment, people are closely related to the environment, what kind of environment you grew up in, then what kind of person you are.

When you don't have enough energy, you can only be changed by the environment, and when your energy is big enough, you can change the environment here in any place, provided that you can be a person full of energy?

Why do many people like Sheniu and many people don't? Why doesn't everyone like social phobia?

These two kinds of people are the typical difference between how much energy they have, the people of the social cow can use their own behavioral energy to drive everyone around them, and he is full of happy atmosphere, and the people who don't like him are naturally people with less energy, they hate this enthusiastic atmosphere, and even hate the energy of the social cow more than themselves.

Why are people who are socially afraid hated by everyone? Because he has little energy, he neither takes the initiative to participate in the game, nor does he take the initiative to chat, he just wants others to drive him, so do you think you can still ask him to come out to play next time?

Of course, people who are socially phobic also have their own value for existence, and in some sensitive places, there will be unexpected performances.

So two questions, two perceptions and two logics, I can change the environment because appearing anywhere can change the surrounding environment, not even just the environment, but also the mood of the socially phobic people, and more advanced, not only can change the mood, but also change the introverted mentality of others.

The premise is that you must first change yourself in the right position in an environment, and then you can have the energy and ability to change the environment.