We can't control other people's mouths, you must have countless versions in other people's mouths, you explain to them every day, the old relationship has not been explained clearly, and the new people misunderstand you and smear you.

You just have to be yourself, show your true appearance, there is no need to disguise, anyway, if you disguise, there are still people who misunderstand you and smear you. For those who misunderstand you and smear you, unless they have caused a bad impact, don't pay attention to them, the more you justify, the more they will fight.

There are some people in this world, no matter how you explain and clarify, they still don't believe you, slander you, smear you, and scold you.

Be relieved, you just need to find someone who is on the same frequency as you and believes in you.

People who believe in you, recognize you, and support you will support you; People who don't believe in you, people who don't approve of you, it's useless to explain, why are you talking nonsense with him? Let him go, delete the block, and it's over.

A person who is truly capable and strong in his heart will keep a low profile and hide himself deeply.

Hide the past: all the good and bad are the past, the good and bad are not mentioned, the good and bad of the past can not be mentioned, you can afford to put it down, focus on the present, in order to continue to move forward.

Hidden ability: full of losses, humble benefits, arrogant and arrogant, and finally fell into the ground. Low-key convergence, Fang Cheng is the general trend of life.

Hidden process: The master understands that the social reality process of "the market is a result-oriented hero" is not important and not worth showing off, and only focuses on achieving results.

Hidden relationships: Powerful people don't need to cling to relationships, relationships are a burden for them, and people without strength will put relationships to their lips.

Hidden view: shallow and deep. As Plato said: wise men speak because they have something to say; When the fool speaks, they want to speak.

We need to remain calm and rational in the face of other people's evaluations and misunderstandings. Although we have no control over what others say, we may have an infinite number of versions in the mouths of others. If we over-interpret and justify, we will not only get ourselves into endless entanglements, but also give more opportunities to those who deliberately misunderstand and discredit us. Therefore, we just need to be ourselves and show our true selves without pretense. We don't need to pay much attention to those who maliciously slander and smear us unless their actions have caused a substantial and bad impact.

In this world, there are always some people who still don't believe us, and even slander, smear and attack us, no matter how we explain and clarify. In the face of this situation, we need to learn to be relieved, because only by finding those who are like-minded with us and believe in us can we feel truly supported and recognized. For those who don't believe us, it will be difficult to change their opinions, no matter how much we explain them, so we should just delete or block them instead of arguing with them.

A person who is truly capable, capable, and strong in heart is often low-key and hidden. They don't show off their past experiences, but focus on the present moment and keep moving forward. They will not easily show their abilities and strengths, but know how to be humble and restrained. They don't show off too much or ostentatiously in the process of achieving their goals, but focus on achieving results. They are less likely to cling to relationships or rely on others, because they know that their strength and abilities are the most important thing. At the same time, they will not easily express their opinions or evaluations, but know how to be moderately silent and humble.

In short, we need to be calm, rational and low-key at all times. Don't care too much about what others say and think, but focus on your own growth and development. Only in this way can we truly become a person who is strong, powerful and capable at heart.